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He’s Alienated By Foreigners

By Abigail Van Buren .

@ 1979 by Chicago Trbune-N.Y. News Synd. Inc.

DEAR ABBY: I believe in helping foreigners by sending them aid in disasters such as earthquakes, floods and famine, but when Ic .e them overrunning our country by the hundreds of thousands, crowding us and taking jobs that should go to Americans, I object!

We feed, clothe and educate them when many of our own go without. Those bleeding-heart liberals are going to ruin this country if they don't get tough and shut down immigra- tion until we can take care of our own, Charity begins at

homet I welcome. your response. AMERICA FIRST!

DEAR AMERICA FIRST: Unless you are a direct descendant of the American Indian, you would not be here if your forebears hadn't sought refuge from another country.

It would take more space than I am allowed in this column to explain why we must accept these homeless victima of war and oppression. ;

An American poct and essayist, Emma Lazarys (1848-1887), sald it eloquently in her Colosaus.” It appears on the Statue of Liberty and reads, in part:

“Give me your tired peor,

Your huddled masses yearning ‘to breathe free,

The wretched refuse of your teeming shore,

Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me.

I lift my lamp beside the golden door!’

DEAR ABBY: I work in an office with both men and women. When a co-worker says, “I heard a cute joke last night, but it’s a little dirty. Do you want to hear it?” I say, “Sure,” because F don’t want to be known as a goody two- shoes. .

Well, the joke is always dirtier than I thought it would be, and I'm embarrassed.

The women as well as the men in this office tell some pretty raunchy jokes, but I can’t suddenly tell them I hate that kind of language. So how do I get my point across without sounding holier than thou?

OFFENDED IN CASA GRANDE, ARIZ.

DEAR OFFENDED: When you're asked if you want to hear a cute joke, be honest and aay, “Not if it's X-rated.”

DEAR ABBY: I'm going with a terrific guy. He has a driver's license but doesn't own a car. ;

I have to pick him up at his place whenever we go anywhere. [¢ didn’t bother me at first, but it does since he told me the ‘reason he doesn't "hive ‘a ear’ isn't because he tan't-afford one; he just’dobsn't want the headathe of own- ing one.

He lives within walking distance of his job, so he walks to ,

work ard back, but when he wants to go somewhere, guess who takes him. , ‘ The problem is' that I'm kind of old-fashioned, I think a guy should pick up the girl—most of the time anyway. Should I forget my values and keep providing transporta: tion? Or should I tell him how I feel? Sign me... RELUCTANT DRIVER

DEAR RELUCTANT: Tell him how you feel before your resentment goes inte overdrive, .

DEAR ABBY: I have just started going steady with a guy I've been dating for a year.

What I want te know is, just how far is a girl expected to go when she is going steady? .

I mean, how much do guys in general expect from this

kind of relationship? . ; . CONFIDENTIAL, PLEASE

DEAR CON: What “guys in general” expect is not rele- vant, What your guy expects is. Ask him.

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Your Individual |

Horoscope

—— Frances Drake ———

FOR TUESDAY, AUGUST7, 1979

ARIES . (Mar. 21 to Apr, in VES Social life ‘seems com- plicated. A series of minor irritations could lead to a revamping of. schedules, Stay clear of arguments. - TAURUS

(Apr, 20 to May 20) 4g?

Career interests could leave some family members with feelings of neglect, Try to maintain peace at home while accomplishing objectives. GEMINI I (May 21 to June 20)

' De your best to avoid misunderstandings, Today you'll come toa decision about a trip or vacation. Indaws may be a factor in plans. CANCER

(Sune 21 to July 22) BED

You'll come to a decision re a major purchase, No sense in further stalling. Difficulties with banks or lending in- stitutions possible.

(July 2 to Aug, 22) VO

There seems to be no room ~ for compromise, yet that’s what you'll haye to do in the -area of relationships. Part- ners may be $n edge,

VIRGO . (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) mp, Torn between a desire to

escape tasks or to complete .

responsibilities, the balance . sheet definitely points to

- further work. | - LIBRA

(Sept. 23 to Oct, 22) eS B

A romantic interest may object to the time .you're spending with friends: The subject of marriage may come up too. Be fair. .

SCORPIO

(Oct. 23 to Novy, 21) Mee A domestic situation

requires attention. Be patient

with family members as they

express their views. Don't mix

business with personal life. .

SAGFITARIUS ;

(Nov. 22 ta Dec, 21) ght Mix-ups in communications

possible. Fellow travelers

may be tardy or have other

plans, Don’t get caught in a

squabble among relatives.

CAPRICORN

(Dec. 22 to Jan. 19} Wier! The desire to own something

beautiful could cause you to

overspend, Added expenses

may require that you attend to

budget. Watch cash flow.

AQUARIUS

(Jan, 20 to Feb. 18) a Gh You may feel that close ones

are taking up too much of your

time. Allot sufficient hours for

personal interests, Get to‘

know yourself,

PISCES

(Feb. 19 to Mar, 20) Ey Today's interruptions may

interfere with your need for

privacy. Complete tasks and

reorganize life to allow for

needed time alone.

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