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Your Individual — ee ee oe Horoscope =| CCIAIF) ann wae By qo | P CROSSWORD |) eRe ! ——— FrancesDrake——- [| ' — . aa _ i . | de 7a ]20 TT. 1. , . ' i FOR WEDNESDAY, AUGUSTS, 1979 : : : ; 8. : ACROSS 36 Actress 53 Kind of tide 11 Young boys * _ no ARTES . Language Raines DOWN ° 6Pindaric # na eal a (Mar, 21 ta Apr, 195 THK of Buddhist 37 Singer: 1 Leather ; work . me kei) 31 — . F] red . Those who stayed up too late sacri Bobby — moccasin 2 — Godiva A odd. last night may need to allot writings 38 Mexican 2 Fuss 21 Heroic in a Tan 35 . time to catch up on domestic 5 Plant dish . Irish scale oo ; yd: ; S ome S i 72| es tasks, Don't burn the candle at exudate 41. Otter or sea god 22French ~ 36 7 oO ; both ends, 8Tosmirch marten - 4Topen © composer sas ss | . 12 Arabian gulf 42 Culture 5 Strong %3 Borodin’s: j TAURUS : 4 a . ; ; | From Small Fry (Apr. 20 to May 20) Oaai™ i WWil org. medium =. —_ emotion “Prince — B aa fas “fas a8 [47 . If you find your interest i Egyptian 43 Fireplace 6 Brazilian #4 Undershot : : : waning about a career in 5 pial ‘ is fnel at ; on in sei ag 49 50 terest, a get-together wi . ind a pporuon y ers ‘ By Abigail Van Buren : friends will restimulate your leather 49 Maria's aunt. Australia 27 Jewish 51 62 53 a imagination. Accent 17 Sheep's pen 50 Early 8 Hunting month . : recreation. 18 Chemical Peruvian expedition 28 “‘—- Marlene” 1 . 51 Equal . 9Fragrance 29 Whirl DEAR ABBY: I'ma 14-year-old girl and have put down on GEMINI suffix ; paper what my friends (boys, too) think are some good “Do's. (May 21 to June 20 ne 19 Trumpets 52Cunning _ 10 Vain 41 Source of CRYPTOQUIP 6-26 and Don'ts for Parents.” If you think they are worth print- The grass is not greener __ forth ‘Avg. solution time: 24 min, water _ oo, ing, alot of teenage. . will thank you. . elsewhere. Be alert’ and 21 The choice T AMMIGIRIAISIS B 34 More beloved VNEVBH ML OIV LINEV WMEUDA BH LOYAL FAN capitalize on a money-making part IGIAMLOIRIAINEEOI |e] 35 English OLV’ -Voun"Tet ,; " opportunity. A friend may a Closeby {CORPIUISICILIEMERIAN] naturaist LV UMWDA . DEAR FAN: Your "Do's and Don'ts for Parenta” are well -have a valuable tip. 95 Hotel TT EIEIPIE'D] ‘37 Defective . worth the space in my column, Here they are: CANCER worker ARICIHEIRMEIRIGC bomb RUIN sera ¢ titeaal — CATERWAULING STAR WILL Don't ever search your kid’s room while he is at school, (June 21 to July 22) S45 , 26 Sweet 3 ao ul j APs 33 Ram down > "Pods 's Crypt aip clue: M Is work, ete. Higher-minded pursuits are liqueurs. |G(AIDIEITMENIEIPRRINIGIA| 39 Askew cay oquip clue: M equals Don't choose their friends for them. favorably accented now. 30 Labor org. ARISMICIAIPIT 40 Aromatic . Don't read their diary or personal letters, ete, Attend a cultural event and $1 Fret TH INM IR beverage . Don't give your child's things to another child without save time for spiritual as well | 32 Party goody (EIL CORIO 41 Ravel . me Cryptoquip is a simple substitution cipher in which each checking with the owner first. . as economic well-being. SBRegan’s = NCTMORIVERMIRIUG ae rue etter used stands for another, If you think that X equals 0, it If you're divorced, don't ask your child why they love the LEO _< . EEMTEAISIFMAR ; will equal O throughout the puzzle, Single letters, short words other parent, or try to talk him out of loving the ather one, N ER __ sister : 45 Undivided. and words using an apostrophe can give you clues to locating Don't ever tell your kid that if he's not satisfied with the (July 23 to Aug. 22 35 Spanish : . $265 46 Wood sorrel vowels. Solution is accomplished by trial and error situation at home he can pack his hags and go, You'll come up with in- painter Answer to yesterday's parzle. .

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behave, you will send him back, sapal \ Spend time alone tnvertigating , : on't always make them bring a “tag-along” (younger cial proposition, . ; . . brother or sister} wherever they go. Superlors ore helpful. . th e AMAZI NG SPI DERMAN By. Stan. Lee’ and John ; Romita

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in front of friends. ;

Don't keep telling them how hard things were when you were a kid. .

Don't call them names. That really hurts a kid.

Don’t yell at a smaller kid, or hit him because he dropped, spilled or broke something. Nine times out of 10 it was an ac- cident and he's already sorry for doing it. -

If you are having an argument, let your kid talk, too.

DO tell them you are sorry, or that you make a mistake once in a while, (Nobody's perfect, Not even parents.)

DO hug your kid and tell him in words that you love him,

DEAR ABBY: I took your advice and went to a psychiatrist, Let me tell you what happened.

The psychiatrist has more problems than I have. In three visits | knew all about his lousy marriage, his rolten kids and his childhood hangups, ——-

1 thought a psychiatrist was supposed to let the patient talk, but all mine did was talk about himself. I tried to tell

him about my sleepless nights, my feelings of loneliness and The p.m. favors dating or on —_~ ; frequent depressions, but he always ‘turned the conversa- attendance ata cultural event. By Roger Bollen and Ga ry Peterman tion back to himself. a Seek amusements. ; ; ; When it comes time for me to leave, I'm-so frustrated I SAGITTARIUS tg . ; . ms {Nov. 22 to Dec. 21}

can hardly wait to get out of his office.

I told my husband all of the above and he said maybe that We a DARN | I THINK I'M I COULD suee Ose |. was the doctor's way of making me feel that my problems its time to stop scattering CO. Ne Dow SOMETHI Hor Now!2 weren't so.heavy after all, _ ; forces. A concentrated afteet N\ IN VOTH STHING ; RIGHT —|}

Is this the way psychiatrists operate? Or did I pick a ring success. Make home gg ‘ ; | lemon? How many more sessions do you think I should have your castle by attending to S Z to give him a fair chance to help me with my problems? He home improvements, .. | charges $40 for 50 minutes, CAPRICORN re . i

BEWILDERED IN BRENTWOOD (Dee. 22 to Jan. 19) VO I ; Don’t try to impress others

DEAR BEWILDERED: It appears that your psychiatrist with a ain, More precious is 5 needs « psychiatrist, Inform him at your next session that your willingness to share your 3 you have decided to see another therapist. Tell him why, thoughts with close ones a” and encourage him toseck help from a colleague. If youneed Don’t be reticent, , rr help in selecting another therapist, consult your county ° gfiity es rip medical society, your family doctor or your local mental AQUARIUS ae Sh 8 a

(Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) ““ —_— ——e

health association, Do not continue with a therapist you're not comfortable with,

CONFIDENTIAL TO “FERTILE MYRTLE IN PITTS- FIELD, MASS.”: You are very wise to take no-chances. Ac- cording to the Guinness Book of Records, the oldest woman te give birth was Ruth A. Kistler of Glendale, Calii. She had a baby girl in October 1956 when she was 57 yeara and 129

days old. : _

But records can be broken. So, to all sexually active’ Not a time to be reclusive. WHEN iN BY O)-OUT EYP —_ WHAT _ menopausal mamas, the word from here is, “Tenga Your personality works in WILL THESE = cuedado,” in Spanish, “Sei vorsichtig” in German, your favor and may attract ' BE READYP Nexr ) ABUT THE | _

“Ostotozhno” in Russian and “Be careful” in English!

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Avoid a slip-shod work performance. Rejuvenate spirit by attending a social function with a close one, Enlarge your social sphere. LIBRA ° (Sept 23 to Oct, 2225 &

You may grow weary of the social scene, Turn attention to career interests where you'll make valuable progress, Consult with co-workers.

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If tired of the same old routine, make plans for travel.

Efferts to impress others with your personality bring mixed results. However, attention to new projects will bring monetary rewards,

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new romantic interests. Enjoy thrilling leisure hours.

HERMAN .

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