a TT le Oe er erase = PRIME TIME waiting my turn at the hairdresser’s the other day, I picked p a magazine and thumbed through it. It was a woman’s magazine and over half of it was given over to improving our image. I hadn’t realized just how many op- tions we had, or to what lengths we could go in order to achieve what we consider to Poe the appropriate image. Well at least I was in the right place to make a start. And I had to admit, most of them were good ideas. Im- proving our appearance makes us feel better about ourselves, boosting our self- confidence, and this, in turn is reflected in our attitude tow- ard other people. We become friendlier, more open, and be- cause of this others respond to us in a more positive way. brown hair always looked freshly set, and she had a ready smile. She was never in too much of a hurry to stop I waited until she was set tled and had been seen by the doctor, before going down to her room with the forms and answer. | didn’t push it, think- ing her upset. I could always finish it later. I slipped her ID band on her wrist, said good =—=G6oldenrod By IVY KENT and talk. She always asked after my family, and told me the latest bits of news about her own. She had a family of which she was rightly proud. I had visited her home once, and her livingroom was a gallery of framed photographs. There were sons and daughters, brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews and even dist- her hospital identification bracelet. I didn’t recognize her at first glance. She looked pale and old, her hair short- cropped and iron grey. Speak- ing quietly, I wrote down the required information, but when I came to next of kin, she turned away and didn’t night and left the room. The doctor was still writing orders at the nursing station. 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