pn - Page 16. The Herald, Friday, November 3, 1978 IDearAbby DEAR ABBY: Iam going to marry a man I've gone : with for many years, but due to circumstances I'll nut go into bere, we weren't able to marry until now. ‘ This will be my second marriage. I have two suns, 12 ' and 17, and adaughter 15. | While discussing our marriage plans, my fiance remarked that I should warn my daughter not to run around in front of him in scanty attire when we are all living together because, being human, it might arouse ~~ his “manly instint While discussing our marriage plans, my fiance remarked that I should warn my daughter not to run around in front of him in scanty attire when we are all living together because, being human, it might arouse his “manly instincts.” (1 can’t recall his exact words, but hig message was very clear.) When I reacted with surprise and chagrin, he said I had nothing to worry about, but he thought it only fair "to warn me of what his reaction might be, and I should be thankful that he warned me beforehand. ‘My daughter, who is very well developed for her age, Is sometimes careless about keeping properly covered. I've had to remind her to be a tittle mure modest in front of her teenage brother, My fiance has known my children since infancy, and this remark has caused me to wonder if perhaps my daughter would not he “safe” with him, _ Doyou think I have a legitimate cause for concern? SECOND THOUGHTS DEAR SECOND: No. If your flance had any , wwhealthy thoughts about your daughter, he wouldn't have asked you to warn her about her tendency to run around scantily clad. Let her know that more com- posure and less exposure is in order, DEAR ABBY: My problem is my ex-wife. We were married for less than |wo years, never had any ch DEAR ABBY: My problem is my ex-wife. We were married for less than two years, never had any children, and then were divorced, That was 10 years ago, but. che is still calling herself “Mrs. Sidney Feinbohm.”’ . It is causing a lot of confusion because I am married again, and my wife is constantly being confused with theex-Mrs, Sidney Feinbohm. To make matters worse, my ex-wife and my present wife have charge accuunts at many of the same stores, and my wife gets bills that should have gone to the other Mrs. Reinbohm. [s there any. way I can force my ex-wife to quit using my name and take her maiden name back? She has still not remarried. ' ONE WIFE TOO MANY DEAR ONE; There can be only ONE “Mrs. Sldney Feinbohm” ata time. After your divorce, your ex-wife became ‘Mra. her first name Feinbohm,” If she isn’t aware of this, have your lawyer inform her officially in r . DEAR ABBY: In reply to DOGGONE MAD, who objected to the neighbor’s dog doing its dirty tricks on his lawn: In order to discourage dogs from coming over on your property, just sprinkle a package of muth- balls on the area that the dog has chusen for its dirly 8, One year our front yara 100ked like a caw pasture. Then a friend told me about the mothball remedy. I tried it, and it worked! McLOUD. OKLA. 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