Page C10 — Terrace Standard, Wednesday, April 8, 1992 OMMENT New to these pages, Comment will give readers a chance to ait their views on what’s happening in the sports world. Below, a Prince George mother offers Terrace hockey parents | ‘food for thought. Z a Adult errs, but kid pays price A few weeks ago, I watched the last half of a TSN show on minor hockey across this land and the recurring thought in my mind was “How can adults keep messing up the lives of these young people.” I did not know our family was about to suffer the same in- sensitivity of a few adults. Our 16-year-old son Cal has many things going for him: honour roll student, provincial junior golf champion at 14,..but he lives to play hockey! He returned home at sernester break after playing Junior A hockey for. the Surrey eagles since September. He was signed on a Junior B card with Ab- botsford, a gentleman’s agree- ment between the Surrey and Abbotsford coaches, until the Abbotsford coach changed his mind and pulled Cal’s card just prior to final carding. Because Surrey no longer had any cards left, Cal had nowhere to play. ; He was then asked to play for a local midget rep team, boys he had played with for the past two years, The coaching staff asked the minor hockey president to have the registrar bring down a midget card — there were three left — so Cal could be registered before the Feb, 10 deadline. On Feb. 6 the president pro- duced a card and told the coaches that: although it was a juvenile card, it would be okay so long as the midgets team was listed in the team slot. He also said he would send a note with the card. forfeited and the playoffs awarded to the opposing team. A call to the BCAHA in Vic- toria got the explanation Cal had been registered as a juvenile because the card. was - the juvenile’s co/our. Sorry, neither my son or | realized there were different col- ours. But, -reading- the team- name would have shown it-said midget, not juvenile and the card should have been question- ed before being registered. The team lodged an appeal on During the provincial playoffs the opposition lodg- ed a protest over the card and our son was ruled in- eligible, This card was presented to our son who read ‘midgets’ and, believing it to be a midget card, signed it. However, during the provin- cial playoffs the opposition fodged a protest over the card and, as a result, our son was rul- ed ineligible. All games played with him on the roster were also CHILL PROOF WATER PROOF WIND PROOF RE-ROOF " f . fh SO ee ae i ee ee oe oe rt im REASONABLE RATES e Asphalt Shingles « Metal Roofs e Repairs * Re-roofing A CONSTRUCTION © “When Quality Counts’’ 635-6230 ikO Quality Products AAT ROU Mowe CAN YO YOUR ay ey yee fer the following: * — relate well with and WITH TAMMY? ~ sociable. 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BCAHA — who are wholly responsible for for registering player cards — passed the buck to the Cariboo Hockey League. That body determined it’s too bad if the adults screw everything up, the player will pay the price and remain ineligi- ble to play midget hockey! Allan Matthews, the. president of BCAHA, also took the posi- tion thal it was toa bad but said he had to follow procedure. talways thought we adults volunteered primarily to help young people and that the rules were set out to make the things run more smoothly, For all you parents who have election of officers coming up, ‘don’t sit at home and hope so- meone else will run your children’s activity. Get out there and make sure they are there for the good of the children, not their own prestige or ego.” I hope all the minor hockey officials involved in our son’s case are Sleeping well tonight. [ know our.son hasn’t since the whole thing began. 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