Teggitre Pheqeatae--- peed bh Sito pe, Terrace Review — Wednesday, November 28, 1990 AQ Everyone was a winner when family and members of the Boots'n’Saddle and Shamrock Beef 4-H Clubs met at the Kin Hut for their annual awards banquet. Pictured above are a few of the Boots'n'Saddle members: Jacquie Strachan, Jodi Strachan, Sarah Strachan, Allison Maximchuk, Bill Willemen, Kristy Strachan and Susan Williman (High Point Junior). Missing are: Annyha Klingner, Vicki Klingner, Amy Henzsel, Angela Henzsel, Leslie Rooker, Adrian Balatti (High Point Senior) and Athena Balatti. FALL TIRE SALE Great tires and a great deal more ====PpERFORMANCE FEATURES %-tra Traction Polymar (XT P)} compound: BENEFITS Xeeps tread llexible even at low temperatures for excetlant traction, Combine lo provide strength for tong the tile and a smoothride, Wo wide sisal belts and polyester: _| cord body . Aggressive. open-end design Provides superior traction in snow and mud. For extra vine (use only where permitted by faw). FREE MOUNT & BALANCE $12.00 VALUE STARTING ¢ FROM DESIGNATED INSPECTION FACILITY Totem Service (N &J Service Centre Ltd.) A PETRO-CANADA DEALER 4711 Lakelse Ave., Terrace, B.C. 635-4515 Tread suitable for studs PETRO-CANADA © The Way I See It... by Stephanie Wiebe 4 This time of year, I begin to fee] sorry for all the perfect people in this world. December is one time I’m glad I’m not perfect — of course, I’m fairly imperfect throughout the remainder of the year, just not as happy about it. But December perfection reminds me of my Aunt Kathryn, a lovely woman who always arranged a perfect Christmas, and my Aunt Louise, who didn’t. Even as a child, I noticed how Aunt Kathryn worked her fingers to the bone, carefully planning and organizing her Christmas. This was a twelve-month-long job, peaking around this time of year. She made detailed lists, colour co-ordinated all indoor and outdoor decorations, baked perfectly decorated cut-out cookies, and had a freezer full of pre-made hors d’oeurvres. Her _ house was surgically-sterile clean. Her Christmas tree was trimmed in annual "themes" — one year it was trimmed in red and green plaid ribbons against white flocking, with red and green ‘lights; another year it was pale blue flocking with deep blue lights and silver-blue omaments — prettier than the department store trees. And her December was fairly peaceful, except when I came to visit. The poor woman. Her sister, my Aunt Louise, was exactly the opposite. Her house _ always looked as though kind vandals had trashed it. Louise’s children, and a herd of their friends, would bake lopsided, odd-shaped and overdecorated Christmas cookies, a little too brown around the edges. They decorated the tree, too, which was also lopsided and a little too brown around the edges. Nothing was ever colour co-ordinated with ' anything else at Louise’s house. Children’s drawings, construction-paper. chains, and broken plastic tree omaments decorated the living room. Children’s drawings of baby Jesus captioned, "oh come holly spit", were taped across the refrigerator door, along with cut- out paper snowflakes and crayoned Santa faces bearing cotton-ball beards. While Kathryn had addressed Christmas card envelopes back in June with her neat, careful penmanship, Louise’s cards were hastily scribbled in December, amid a crowd of popcorn- stringing children and a large exuberant dog. Unexpected Enhancing "Enhancing the family circle through alcohol and drug aware- ness" is the title of a two-day workshop being offered by the Terrace Women’s Resource Centre Dec. 7 and 8. Centre representatives say the sessions will be of benefit to women who come from alcoholic ‘family backgrounds. "We will be ibis sive otek EES ak -7 gf * h S See cee visitors dropping in at Kathryn’s house (if they dared) would be offered brandy or tea, and perfectly round cheese puffs and- salmon popovers on 4 china plate — at Louise’s house, it was a tumbler of red wine and potato chips from a Tupperware bowl. There were always lots of peopie at Louise’s house, particularly around Christmas. There were always very few at Kathryn’s. At Aunt Kathryn’s house, everything seemed to glow with a delicate perfumed scent at Christmas. At Aunt Louise’s, the only scent came from the dog, and it was not at all delicate. Coming from my large and noisy family, I would visit my Aunt Kathryn’s quiet and perfect December life, and sit beside her department-store tree listening to the soft Christmas carols playing on the stereo. The presents were carefully wrapped in heavy foil / with matching ribbons and tags, * all of which complemented the : tree, and her well-behaved, beauty-parlor-groomed poodle completed the decor. Aunt . Kathryn seemed so perfect. I wondered if I could grow up to be just like her. When we visited Aunt Louise, | never sat and thought at all, I just = leaped right into the chaos and he enjoyed it. All the people, the noise, the laughing and singing — there was always a piano playing, kids wrestling on the floor, and that huge exuberant dog licking my face. At some point, everyone would pile into their cars and we’d be off — the excited red-cheeked kids with their candy-cane-sticky mouths, bursting into the church ahead of the hushing grown-ups. As I grew up; Aunt Kathryn’s Christmas seemed so elegant, so sophisticated, a Christmas to admire. Aunt Louise’s Christmas... well, it just seemed so normal, So average, SO. | NOISY. I sometimes wondered if Aunt Louise envied Aunt Kathryn’s Christmas. But now, when I see perfect Christmas trees, perfect decorations, well-organized quiet Decembers in the making, though I still feel some of that old admiration, I also feel sad inside. It's the lopsided, too-brown-on- the-edges cookies that make me fee} warm now. And the mess. And the noise. -Sometimes I'd like to go back | — just for one last look. the circle offering guest speaker presenta- tions and resources for alternative living in a safe and friendly en- vironment," a description states. The workshops. will be held both days at the Terrace Public Library. Participants are asked to register by calling Teresa or Bev at either 638-0228 or 638-0994. ee