Page 2. The Herald, Friday, September 29, 1978

FROM THE CHURCH

Trust, truth and honesty

’ By Lance Stephens

Today there Is much concern over the
deterioration of family and relationships in ail
areas. Much has ‘been sald and written of value
about the need for better communication bet-
ween people; husband and wife, parents and
children, and Indeed, every area of life. This
approach assumes that If we get problems out In
the open they will be solved. | agree It Is im-
portant and helpful to get things out In the open.
However, too often what is communicated Is
overlooked. There are certain spiritual qualities
which are the basis of all good relationships.

If these are communicated we have the
beginning of a good relationship. The first of
these qualities Is trust.

Trust Is the first necessity for any relationship
to proceed. One has to have some trust in the
driver before one will ride In a car, There Is a
certain amount of trust involved in dealings with
a merchant. We trust that the goods they sell are
as advertised. How much more trust is
necessary to live together as husband and wife.
or parent and child. The deeper the relationship,

ine more trust involved. No trust, no relation-
ship.

How is trust established between folks? How
does one learn-to trust a complete stranger?
‘Most folk have difficulty ‘answering such
questions because they learned these skills
before they learned to. speak. Basically,
establishing trust depends upon honesty. When
we meet someone and they appear to be telling
the truth fo us, and as we learn more about the
other, what they say has coherence, that is, It
hangs together, fits together like pieces In a
jigsaw puzzle, and our trust deepens. If,
however, what the other says lacks coherence,
that is there are pieces that won’t fit, In fact
appear to be wrong fon the picture we have so
far, we begin to be uneasy. Th is not to say that
complete and total revelation Is necessary. No
one desires that, for everyone likes their own
private place. But truth and honesty In what is
shared |s a necessity:

So the. first necessity of any relationship is
trust and-trust is based on truth in the
relationship.

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By DeCOURCY P. RAYNER

Weary of being confined to -
his home in Cape Town and
frustrated by the inactivity
imposed by a banning order
last October, Rev. Theo
Kotze has escaped from
South Africa.

Wearing dark glasses, a
new beard, a blue cap and
muffler, the 58-year-old
Methodist minister made his
way across the border to
Botswana.

Since his passport had
been lifted when he was
arrested and. banned, the
minister was‘given political
asylum and a United Nations
travel document. A third-

‘generation South African, he
“received a British visa and

was reunited with his wife,
who had been permitted to
travel to London becatise her
daughter was having her
first child.

Kotze had been Cape
director of the Christian
Institute of Southern Africa,
founded 15 years ago to
promote the Christian
concepts of love, justice and
reconciliation. The strongly
anti-apartheid organization
was supported by church
bodies and _ individuals
around the world. .

When he was arrested in

the middie of the night on
Oct. 19, 1977, securily pollce
took over the offices of the

institute and closed it down.

_ The founder of the in-
stitute, Rey. Beyers Naude

of the Dutch Reformed
Church, was also banned and
had his offices in Johan-
nesburg taken over.’ Last
August, The Associated
Press reported that his home
was. damaged by shotgun,

cA :

EROMSQUTHAFRICA
‘Methodist minister escapes:

blasts and gasoline bombs,

one of which blew up
aulomobile. :
Banning of a, person
restricls him to the
magisterial district In which
he lives and forbids him to.
enter any area in which
black, colored or Aslan
people live,
Katze had to report to @ po-
lice station ‘every Wed-
nesday and was not allowed
to attend any gathering of
more than two people, His
children and grandchildren
were permitted to visit him
only one at a time.
Hehad no way of earning a
living while he was banned.
Even preaching at a church
service was prohibited.
In London, Kotze said he
had fled ihe country oul of
despair that anyone or.

his.

_anything could make an

impression on the gov-
ernment. Apartheid -meant
essentially the preservation
of white power and privilege
and whites generally had no
intention. of sharing these
prerogatives.

“What isneeded Is to come

to lerms with the harsh,
realities of theSouth African -

system, that il is a
thoroughly oppressive
system,"’ he told a reporlor.
“Western governments
simply have to bring the
realities home to the whites
in South Africa.

“I believe
sanctions are essential. They
are the one powerful way in

to their senses. Those who
invest in South Africa must
understand that they are
investing in the system and
are bolstering the system.”

UPLANDS

Pastor Bob Lesyk, 635-4328
Corner of Halliwell
and N. Thomas

9:45 am Bibie Teaching
Sunday School Lo
11:00 a.m Morning Worship
Service

7: 30 p.m. Singing and Bible
Study ‘
Weds.
Studies
“You are Welcame at
Uplands’”’

8:00 Home Bible

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Cor, Sparks & Keith -
Pastor Paul Mohninger
Office 635-1407
Home 635-5307

Sunday School 9:45 a.m,
Morning Worship reall
am.

KNOX
UNITED
CHURCH

4907 Lazelle Ave.
Minister Rev.
Dave Martyn

Sunday School *
Senior 12 & up 10:00 a.m.
Under .12 - 11:00 a.m.
Worship Service 11:00 a.m.

CHURSA
OF
GOD

334) River Drive
Terrace, B.C.
636-1561
Rev. R.L. White

Sunday School 10:0) a.m.

Rev. R.L. White

Morning Wership 11:00)

am.

‘defining what was wrong

-National Action Committee

_in a@ telegram to chief

economic :

. five-clauses in th ide:
which peuple can be brought .* Nini opie

>, ATTEND

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SUNDAY

Evening Worship 7:30 p.m.

p.1r.

Prayer Service Wed. ™

*

The Christian Insiiture andthe Presbyterian Chureh -
was an ecumenical ~ 28 long as it was possible to:
fellowship of Christians send funds to South Africa :
deeply committed to radical: for thal purpose. ie

from Theo

The last word
change in South Africa, to Kotze was that he js to settle:

at Utrecht in the:
Netherlands, - where the:
it right, ee gs eeeecdnstitute has established an.
The issues were justice; office to continue its ac’
reconciliation; love and true. -tivities. ue

liberation. This included the Dr. Rayner Is the Im."
nead for whites to be mediate past moderator of

liberated from their past, = the General Assembly of the. .
In Canada it received the Presbyterian Church
support of the United Church Canada,

with soclety there and why,
and what was needed to-pul

Women question.
equal pay guide —

OTTAWA (CP) — An which allow employers to
organization representing pay men and women dif-”
about 130 women’s groups ferent wages where merit, ’
across the country has asked training, rehabilitation, red _
the federal human riguts circling and internal labor *
commission to reconsider its force surpluses are factor,” _.
new equal pay guides on committee president Kay:
grounds they contravene the Macpherson said.

Spirit of the human rights The gui des were rela sed 7
e to the public.last week and |;
The Toronto-based become official Friday when :
they are published in the.”

Canada Gazette which”:
contains cabinet orders and.”
rules for implementing::

Ba

federal laws. i

on the Status of Women said

commissioner ' Gordon
Fairweather this week that
equal pay exemptions in the
guides “really. mock the
intent of the legislation.’
The committee singled out

They are aimed at‘:
eliminating wage "
discrimination aginst,
women .in federal govern:
ment departments and”.
agencies, Crown  cor-:.
porations and the federally- °
regulated private sector’.
such as chartered banks. = *

outlining the reasons em-
ployers can use to justify
paying different wages to
different sexes.

“We are particularly dis-
tressed by the guidelines

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Church School 9:45 a.m.
Sunday School, Con-
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Youth and Adult Classes

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