oe Page 14, The Herald, Tuesday, December 5, 1978 Dear Abby By Abigail Van Buren 5. 1978 by Chicago Tribune-N Y News Syng, Inc DEAR ABBY: My head is spinning with indecision. I'm ip the process of getting a divorce, and my husband is begging me to give him another chance. The problem has always been that Harry can't resist young girls! I was 16 and he was 27 when we married, and during our six-year-marriage Harry got five girls pregnant! One was barely 15, and he'd have gone to jail for sure if his boss hadn't retained a really good lawyer. After that Harry had a vasectomy and now we can't have any more children. We have one little boy and I've had four miscarriages, and I've always wanted another child. 1 decided to divorce him after I caught him in the bushes in broad daylight with his 18-year-old niece at a family 4th of July picnic. Abby, Harry is really a sweet guy and a wonderful provider, (He's a top salesman.) Half of me says, “Take him back,” and the other half says, ‘‘Go through with the divorce.” I may be crazy, but [ still love him, PRISONER OF LOVE DEAR PRISONER: Listen to the half with the brains in it and don't take him back untl! he gets Into therapy, If you resume your marriage in his present state, prepare to live indefinitely with a weak man who has a weakness for young girls. DEAR ABBY: Where is it written that it is bad manners to tip the owner? I mean the owner of a suloon, a restaurant, a beauty parlor or a barber shop, When the owner is right there serving the public 1 think he (or she) is every bit as entitled toa tip as an employee. ; If there is such a ruls of etiquette, I think it is dumb and should be done away with. What do you think? DEAR QUESTION: Some die-hard traditionalists insist that “owners of the establishment should not be Upped.” However, 1 belleve good service should be appropriately rewarded regardless of who provides it, DEAR ABBY: Please tell SICK OF THE SAME DRESS whose co-worker wears the same creas for two weeks atralght that's she’s lucky she doesn’t work with my husband. ’ He wears the same pair of trousers every day until they wear out. t Hesays it's too much trouble to take the things out of - his ete every night! book ; ry nigh GIVEN UP ON HIM _- DEAR GIVEN UP: Your husband is slackadaisical. Getting married? Whether you want a formal church wedding or a simple do-your-own-thing ceremony, get Abby's new booklet, How to Have a Lovely Wedding.” Send $1 and a long, stamped (28 cents) self-addressed envelope ta Abby: 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hills, Calf, 20212, A QUESTION OF TIPPING. the AMAZING SPIDERMAN ACROSS 40 Arabian 3 Hebrew i Tough fiber chieftain letter 5 Seize 42 Consume 4 Prepares 9 Joint 42 Helfinverted for firing 12 Biblical 48 Circle part 5 Fish spears character 49 Wicked 6 Tiers 13 Argyil island 50 Chief 7 Miscellany 14 Dutch Norse god 8 Rifle commune §} Stadium appendage 15 Also called cheer 9 Exhibit “Papa" . —-§2. Assess indecision 17 Witty saying §3 Stony ridge 10 False god 18 Bryophyte DOWN 11 Darlings i9Gemstones 1Exclamation 16 Cain's land 21 Pained 2 Summer, 20 Kitchen 24 Judah's in Rouen utensil son Average solution time: 24 min. 25Female - fe) antelopes ETAL 26 European mint 30. 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Solution is accomplished by trial and error. 47 Omega © 1976 King Features Syndicate, Inc. By Stan Lee and John Romita (Now THAT I've I'VE FINISHED wl LE BUT T WoN'T DLL MAKE L LIFE Horoscope What kind of day will tomorrow be? To find out what the stars say, read the forecast given for your birth Sign. ARIES (Mar. 21 to Apr. 19) a a Don’t expect old problems simply to go away now, but at least, you'll gain an insight today on how to handle them in the future. TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) Oar The concerns of children or dependents require your at- tention now. Protect assets in joint financial dealings. Ac- cent practicality, GEMINI EE (May 21 to June 20) There are some domestic duties which need to be handled now. Talk things over with a mate or one who ls close to insure needed cooperation. CANCER (June 21 to July 22) You needn’t worry yourself sick. Mental work or problems seem difficult, yet progress stilk can be made. Find one quiet moment for yourself in the p.m. LEO (July 23 to Aug. 22) RE Instead of worrying about a shortage of Funds, use today to balance the books — at least on paper. Don't let financial worrles affect self-esteem. VIRGO: (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) my You may feel you have too much responalbility already to tackle something new, yet the opportunity arises. Perhaps, you’re underestimating y LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22) re A day to avoid negative thinking. Relatives may have problems now that make you feel inadequate, Care needed in travel. SCORPIO (Oct, 23 to Nov. 21) Mn Ae "A friend in need isa friend indeed" in most cases, but not today, when you'll have to be wary of financial dealings with others. SAGITTARIUS (Nov, 22 to Dec. 21) xg? Career progress may seem slow, but attend to duty. What's more, higher-ups seem preoccupied and may not be receptive to your ideas. 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