9. Bedside Manners By Abigail Van Buren ©) 1079 by Chicago Tribune- N.Y. Haws Synd. Inc. DEAR ABBY: The letter from the newlywed signed FRUSTRATED, who couldn't wait for her husband to be released from the hospltal to have sex, reminded me of a similar incident, Years. ago, when I was on night.duty at a hospital, a woman patient rang her bell and asked if I'd mind standing guard. . : RETIREDRN. MILWAUKEE DEAR RETIRED; At leaat she asked. DEAR ABBY: f was once in the same predicament ‘as: FRUSTRATED, and my hushand and J were ready to climb the walls. Then we apoke to his doctor, whe wrote my hus- band a “prescription” and gave it tothe head nurse. (We still have the,"prescription” in our scrapbook.) . One nurse entered our room out of curiosity, but we felt justified in telling her to stay out—thal it was doctor's orders that we were not to be disturbed for two hours, There were no more problems once the word got around the nurses’ station. . : Sign this -.. DEAR ABBY: Asan RN in a Houston hospital I have seen some mighty strange goings-on. I recall a complaint from a woman who.was sharing a double room with a pretty young girl who had broken both legs ina skiing accident, It seems. that the girl {with both legs in casts, yet!) had frequent visit. from herihusband, during which time.they carried on as’ though they were in a private room. When I confronted the young gir! with her roommate's complaint, she said, “If'she's such a prude, she can turn the other way.” _ uo TRUE STORY DEAR ABBY: The letter from the frustrated newlywed: reminded me of my days asa young intern at St, Joseph's. Hospital in Syracuse, N.Y, I'll never forget the 82-year-old patient who had a young” woman visiting him. I went into his room to tell him that visiting hours were over, At first it appeared that he was alone, then I discovered that they were BOTH in his bed! (I was more embarrassed than they were.) rn ‘t a ate » (NEW YORK-M.D. DEAR ABBY: In my 14 years of private nursing, Feannot count the number of Limes I've been embarrassed when I've walked into private, semi-private and ward rooms to find people with the same views as FRUSTRATED. I am not totally without sympathy, but I think the patient's health should be cared for at the hospital. and his romantic needs elsewhere. A hospital is not a hotel. Ifa patient is well enough for marital relations, and wants to get is $98-a-day's worth, perhaps he should be transferred to the nearest Hilton. : MARY IN DULUTH If you need help in writing lettera of sympathy, cen- gratulations or thank-you letters, get Abby's heaklet “Hew to Write Letters for all Occasions.” Sond $1 and a long, stamped (28 cents), self-addressed envelope to Abby: 132 Lasky Dr., Beverly Hille, Calli, 90212, ; _ SAVED BY UNUSUAL PRESCRIPTION ‘Your Individual Horoscope = Frances Drake —— ARIES _ (ilar. 21 to Ape, 19) a es Creative activities and sporta are favored, Close les may net be on your | wavelength, though talks with chiliren are stimulating. (Apr. 20 to May 20) Og Though some dissatisfaction indicated with your income from the job, the time is ripe ‘for property deals and domestic decisi , ons. GEMINI ng (May 21 to June 20). Some tension in matters of tha heart. Your best course of action is to late your views clearly. Local visits prove invigorating. CANCER . 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CAPRICO Wisk (Dee. 22 to Jan. 19) You're anxious to get ahead, but may feel superiors are. . dndifferent to your efforts. Pay no heed, but continue to do a fine job. : AQUARIUS pon (Jan. 20 to Feb. 16) an Don't rush things about matters, A close one’s lukewarm responses may not mateh your en thusiasm, Don’t feel slighted, PISCES (Feb. 19 to Mar, 20) MEX Others may not be anxious °°" toinvest in a pet work project. However, the way is clear for do-it-yourself endeavors at home: hase. ¥O0U BORN TODAY are artistic and sympathetic. Do net let a need for financlal success keep you from taking achance on your talents. Your interest In your fellow man could result in a position of leadership. 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