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Dear Ann Landers: Your
ridiculous answer to the mother
whose 18-year-old son was
~ getting “experience” from the
35-year-old lady next door leads
me to believe that somebody
threw a cherry bomb in your
crib on July 4, 1917 and caused
permanent brain damage,

You said to make sure the boy
was “plenty well informed.” It
seems to me that he is already
too well informed, What he
needs is a severe tongue lashing
frorn his father — not more
information, As for that wench
next door, she should be horse-
whipped within an inch of her
life. And you, Ann Landers,
should be boiled in cil for your
ho-hum attitude toward the
boy’s immoral behavior. —
Mother Of Five in Covington,
Ry.

Dear Mother; Hohum, my
Aunt Ethel, I’m realistic, and 1
hope you'll join the real world
soon, for the sake of your five
kids, An 18-year-old boy who is
romping around next door with
the miudle-aged wife of a tired
business man is mot about to
give it up and go back to
Scrabble just because his father
gives him a scolding.

Ttold the mother to make sure
the boy gets a tough lecture
from his dad en the moral and
social aspects of his behavior
and'to make certain he is well
informed on the biological
aspects as well. That was good,
practical advice and I stand
behind it, No matter what you
think, Mother, you just can’t
keep ‘em down on the farm
after they've seen Paree.

DEAR ANN LANDERS: In
May my husbnad’s sister was
married. His folks gave her a
wedding that cost at least
$3,000. They also gave her the
second family car which she
had been driving, When Dan
and I married they gave us a
modest gift and their heartiest
congratulations.

My sister-in-law is now
pregnant and my in-laws are
sending them a nice check for
“medical expenses.” This
really burns me up. Dan and I
are having a hard time putting
ourselves through school and
his folks are not helping wortha
darn. Is it fair that parents go
all out-‘for'a daughter anil do
nothing for a son? I am very
resentful and the resentmeiit is
turning to intense dislike. Your
opinion is wanted. — Left Out.

DEAR OUT: It is customary.
for the bride's parents to pay for
the wedding. From the sound of

AHN
LASERS

your letter it appears that you
thought they should pay for
their son's wedding too. Sorry,
but your wedding was YOUR
parent's responsibility.

About the gifts: I suspect the
reason you aren’t getting much
is because you came aeross to
them the way you came across
to me. Avaricious and un-
pleasant.

DEAR ANN LANDERS:
When our son was nine years old
he exhibited unusual musical
talents so we bought him a
beautiful piano. Our three older
children were working at the
time so naturally their board
money went toward the
payments,

The piano playing boy is
grown now and although he did
not make music his career he
still plays the piano and enjoys
it. He will be married soon and
the question has arisen as te
what to do with the piano. He
has notasked for it but we think ,
we should offer it to him, The
alder children feel we should
either keep it or sell it and share
the proceeds with them. (They
do not need the money,)

The question is, does the boy
who used the piano so well have
aright to it? We want to be fair?
— Toronto,

DEAR To,: Leave the piano
where it is. It's part of your
home and should remain so,

DEAR ANN LANDERS: 1]
have always hated nagging and
now I have become a terrible
nagger myself. It’s not my
husband I nag, it’s our married
daughter, She used to be such a
sweet, attractive girl, and now
that she has landed a husband
she’s the sloppiest thing in town.
When I run into her at the
market or shopping downtown I
die a million times. I'll bet she
has put on 15 pounds i in the last
year.

Our son-in-law is handsome,
slim and immaculate. I am
afraid she’s going to lose him.
They both work for a large
concern and there must be some
beautiful, neat yotm@ women
there. Why doesn’t she see this?
She’s not stupid. [ asked her
father to speak to her and he
did.. Her response was, ‘‘Please
leave me alone. I'm ‘doing as.
well as +1’ can.” “Ann, ‘tell mie
what to do'~ Omaha * |

DEAR O: By now you should
realize that your daughter does
not respond to your suggestions,
so lay off, This girl’s prablems
are hers. Either she will resolve
them or pay the price. If you
really want to help her, get off
her back.

DAILY CROSSWORD. . .1, 2.4. rower

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21% cups boiling water
one third cup milk
1 cup mashed potatoes
2 tablespoons butter
% teaspoon salt
1% cups (14-ounce can}
baby clams
4% cup drained canned
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% cup (3 strips) chopped
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¥% cup chopped onion
% cup chopped celery

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FINANCIAL ADVICE

Dear Margaret Brookfield:

Would you have some advice

- for a retired woman with $5000
to invest, who's interested in a
safe return on her money. -

KHL, Brooklyn, N.Y.

Dear K.H.:

Unfortunately, we're not ina
_ position to provide financial
advice to our readers. We
suggest, however, that they
never leave hard cash in the
mattress. It can only lead to
sleepless nights.

_ RESTLESS AND JUMPY
Dear Margaret Brookfield:
Iam 48, While I look and feel

younger most of the time, it’s
still traumalic lo realize sud-
denly that you've passed the
midpoint of your life. I used to
be an even-tempered person,
bul now find myself irritable,
depressed, restless and jumpy
at times. At other times, rm
-just like my old self, Although I
have an appointment for a
checkup soon with my doctor,
T'm not sure if my problems are
physical or psychological.
B.K., Datias, Tex.

DEAR B.K.:

The middle years of a
woman’s life can be a time of
fewer responsibilities and
greater freedom if she wants to
take advantage of them. Ad if
she takes good care of herself
and her health, she can look
forward to a productive second
life after forty. A physical
checkup therefore is always a
geod idea and having one
regularly, an even better one.

- Should your doctor find an

estogen deficiency at the root of

your problems — as is often the

case with women in your age
pBroup — he. might, prescribe,
‘hormone | replacements.’

restore the necessary balance.

And when a woman feels better

physically, she generally feels

better psychologically too.

* HOMESICK HUSBAND
Dear Margaret Brookfield:
Iam 73 and married for just a

year to a man of 65. Since then,

he has left me four times and
gone back home, I married for
company, but I'm-always alone
now anyhow. Please advise
what I can say to him so he gets
some sense in his thick head.

E.L, Newfoundland, Canada.
’ Dear ELL:

The chances

of your

. husband's settling down at this

point don’t . seem very

promising. Perhaps the best

thing you cah say, under the

circumstances, is “Goodbye.”
TABOO TATTOO

Dear. Margaret Brookfield:

My son just got out of the

_ navy and came home with a:

terrible tattoo of a dumb-

looking dancing girl on his arm.
He says he was drink at the
time and doesn’t recall having it
done. My son doesn’t like the
taltoe any better than I do, but
thinks he's stuck with it for life.
Is there anything he can do

about it now?
P.R., Lexington, Ky.

Dear P.R.:
Effective techniques have
been developed for removing
tattoos by desensitizing and

abrading the skin, then treating

it to prevent infection. Needless
to say, such lreatments require
the efforts of a skilled der-
matologist. And they add up.to a
lot more time and money than
gelling tatteoed in the first
place.
PREPARING FOR CHANGE
Dear Margaret Brookfield:
‘Tam 65 years old. My mother
who’s 85 has been living with
my husband, age 69, and myself
for the last 25 years, (We have
no children.) Thus far the three
of us generally have had a very
good life, although there have
been some rough spots. Mother
has a heart condition, cataracts
and her legs are bothering her.
In spite of this, she still does all
the cooking at our house, as she
-always has. (Cooking is one
task I abhor.)' For the past
several months, I've become
troubled about how I'll be able
‘to cope when mother is no
longer able to do the cooking.

Then it will be up to me to take:

care of that, plus all the
household chores and other
necessities. Housework or any
hard work for that matter has
never bothered me before, but
lately ‘this concern is growing

cut of proportion. Try as f°
might, I cannot dismiss these.

‘gnawing. thoughts‘ from my.
mind. For the present, mother
is still very self-reliant. She’s

- the sweetest and dearest person

and I love her better than life
itseli. She has always done

. everything to make us com-

fortable and happy. We've tried
and I believe we've made her
life as pleasant-as she has made

ours. I keep telling myself I .

have a good husband, a won-

_derful mother, a nice home.

But thoughts of the future make
me shudder as J wonder how I'll
be able to cope with problems
that are bound to crop up, I
know that my concern is
worrying both my husband and
my mother. What can I do? :

J. §., Cicero, Ill.

Dear J. S.:
You’ve been fortunate in
having the kind of life you've

_ wanted all these years. But life .

is not static and circumstances
do change. One practical way
you might prepare for the
future is by helping your mother
in the kitchen from timeto time.

- Department ‘of Toys”.

“History 7
of toys”

“the existence. of. & toy making

industry in “North Aerica is.a
. fairly recent phenomenon. The .-
” start in Canada began in the

1920's. .

There had been a Toymakera |
Guild of Nuremburg in: Ger-
many, which made and

distributed dolls and other teys

dating back to the 16th century,
and there had-been activities in

- other countries, but majority of:

toys were home made, usually -
hand. carved or cfeated by. the
parents of those for- whom the
gift was intended. . :
Toys have been commercially
manufactured and . widely
distributed for little more than’
100 years. Timothy Eaton |
brought out his first mail order ©
catalogue in 1887 ‘and it ad-
vertised: a “Christmas
‘Dolls
ranged in price from 25 cents to

. push taxes up ar unbearable

Today toymaking i is a major
industry, and the retail trade in

Canada this year will total well. °

over $200. million. Ap--
proximately 75 per cent of this
represents toys and games ~
rhade in Canada, Irwin Toy, for

example, will produce almost 11 ”.

million toys in its Toronto plant.

The popularity -of new toys
and garnes creales some. sur-
prising - demands . upon
manufacturing. .

For example, aver 8 million
marbles were used in one year’s
products of Kerplunk; the Easy- -

Show projector has used more _

than 1,5 million feet of 8 MM
film, The Easy-Bake oven has
proven so popular that special
Betty Crocket cake mixes are
packaged: for it,.and the five ”
millionth oven has just been
produced. Over 4 million ball
point pens have been required
for the tremendously popular
Spirograph

It has, been said that much
fishing tackle catches more
fishermen - than fish.
Manufactuers and designers of
toys and games must appeal to
two separate publics at the .
same time: to the purchaser’
who rarely ls buying for himself
and to the eventual recipient,
usually a child to whom the toy
will eventually go.

Today, there aremore toys, in
greater variety than ever
before; better toys that intrigue
the old as well as the young.
There are action toys, cuddly
toys, cute toys, games for the
kids, games for the’ whole .
family, games for.mom and dad
when. travelling, There is
something for everybody and,
tO paraphrase Dean Martin,
“Everybody loves ‘something,
sometime’, ©

LOUISVILLE, Ky. Jap) —
Chad Moris Stubbs rolls dice,
drinks. beer, bums cigarettes
and smokes cigars at the age

of three.

“His. pa does it, and he
‘wanls to grow up and be a big.
man just like his pa,’” said
Mrs. Barbara Stubbs. ‘

“His father, Morris, grooms
horses at Louisville Downs,

Chad normally limits him--
self to 10 cigars a day. ;

‘The day starts with a cigar

“first thing in the morn-
ing.”

Doesn't ‘she worry that. by
the time Chad is 5, he'll be

headed toward: a monstrous.

smoking habit? ~ -
“No,’* laughed Mrs. Stubbs,
“he really only does it .to

ahow off, wo

f Planning for future

’ roads have been built to-fol- * “
~ Jow: the’ community's: expan-

FRIDAY, ocTroBER 8, 1971

a unique situation among call
nadian elties..--
* This allows’ the city to ‘takd

CALGARY (CP) — Trang."
portation—roads, rail or ra “7
transit—will determine t ,

city’s future pati te rn. “of ' afl uncompromised approacky
* grow Pe ceystem of expressways, +
But what form. “of: move- . © Anexpressway network ca
ment, or more likely combina-. _beeliminated from the choos
tion of forms, becomes the _ingalmost immediately on :
shaping force depends on cost,” “basis of cost, - ;
says planning director, Mike “, Estimates of the total capi
Rogers, . . > - tal requirements for all cl

. The city has become de ;
pendent.on the passenger ve- =
hi¢le and ever since Fort Cal-

“gary was founded in 1875 _

- services in the 20 years pre
ceding | 1986 are More. than- $i
billion ‘with $650 million ofea

. that ‘for. roads, provided nga

; changes occur in’ the form eo |
: growth, 5

“Satellite. towns — bedroary
communities —are anothe@

: possibility but Mr, Roge

- places little faith in them fog
Calgary. -
' They have to be connected ‘
to the city in some mannerxig
-@ither by roadsorrail....

The roads would cost toomm .

Much and for rail to be well

“used and economic the service
must be. frequent and patron-@

age high,
. Unless these towns made up|

sion—ever outward in concen-
tric._cireles.

But as the circles . grow
larger the capital costs ‘af °
providing services, particu-
larly roads, begin to soar,” «|

Mr. Rogers said the current
outward expansion can con- ©
tinue unmoulded until 1978 byt -
after that. expenditures will

85 per-cent, not including in-
flation.
This gives planners about
~'twa years to-canie up with a
solution and another four or.

five years to get it imple- ‘ more than 10 per cent of Cal-
mented. - ' gary’s estimated population of &
Not a Jot of time, he said, 700,000 by, 1986, a rail service
LONG-RANGEPLAN - _. ‘would not be economic...
Work has already startedon : Satellite communities ‘could

algo be given an economic §
base but Alberta attracts little re
secondary industry with only §
five per. cent of. the labor oy
force in manufacturing and 49 §
.per cent in office-retail, In
other words, there is not i
enough industry to spread

around to such communities,

-a. long-range. plan, prelimi-
nary reports have been made
and surrounding rural areas.
that eventualiy will be af- .
fectedare being consulted.

The city's job is easier, Mr, -
Rogers said, because of the -
fact all the urban area is
under one municipal council,

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