PAGE 6 Dear Ann Landers: Your ridiculous answer to the mother whose 18-year-old son was ~ getting “experience” from the 35-year-old lady next door leads me to believe that somebody threw a cherry bomb in your crib on July 4, 1917 and caused permanent brain damage, You said to make sure the boy was “plenty well informed.” It seems to me that he is already too well informed, What he needs is a severe tongue lashing frorn his father — not more information, As for that wench next door, she should be horse- whipped within an inch of her life. And you, Ann Landers, should be boiled in cil for your ho-hum attitude toward the boy’s immoral behavior. — Mother Of Five in Covington, Ry. Dear Mother; Hohum, my Aunt Ethel, I’m realistic, and 1 hope you'll join the real world soon, for the sake of your five kids, An 18-year-old boy who is romping around next door with the miudle-aged wife of a tired business man is mot about to give it up and go back to Scrabble just because his father gives him a scolding. Ttold the mother to make sure the boy gets a tough lecture from his dad en the moral and social aspects of his behavior and'to make certain he is well informed on the biological aspects as well. That was good, practical advice and I stand behind it, No matter what you think, Mother, you just can’t keep ‘em down on the farm after they've seen Paree. DEAR ANN LANDERS: In May my husbnad’s sister was married. His folks gave her a wedding that cost at least $3,000. They also gave her the second family car which she had been driving, When Dan and I married they gave us a modest gift and their heartiest congratulations. My sister-in-law is now pregnant and my in-laws are sending them a nice check for “medical expenses.” This really burns me up. Dan and I are having a hard time putting ourselves through school and his folks are not helping wortha darn. Is it fair that parents go all out-‘for'a daughter anil do nothing for a son? I am very resentful and the resentmeiit is turning to intense dislike. Your opinion is wanted. — Left Out. DEAR OUT: It is customary. for the bride's parents to pay for the wedding. From the sound of AHN LASERS your letter it appears that you thought they should pay for their son's wedding too. Sorry, but your wedding was YOUR parent's responsibility. About the gifts: I suspect the reason you aren’t getting much is because you came aeross to them the way you came across to me. Avaricious and un- pleasant. DEAR ANN LANDERS: When our son was nine years old he exhibited unusual musical talents so we bought him a beautiful piano. Our three older children were working at the time so naturally their board money went toward the payments, The piano playing boy is grown now and although he did not make music his career he still plays the piano and enjoys it. He will be married soon and the question has arisen as te what to do with the piano. He has notasked for it but we think , we should offer it to him, The alder children feel we should either keep it or sell it and share the proceeds with them. (They do not need the money,) The question is, does the boy who used the piano so well have aright to it? We want to be fair? — Toronto, DEAR To,: Leave the piano where it is. It's part of your home and should remain so, DEAR ANN LANDERS: 1] have always hated nagging and now I have become a terrible nagger myself. It’s not my husband I nag, it’s our married daughter, She used to be such a sweet, attractive girl, and now that she has landed a husband she’s the sloppiest thing in town. When I run into her at the market or shopping downtown I die a million times. I'll bet she has put on 15 pounds i in the last year. Our son-in-law is handsome, slim and immaculate. I am afraid she’s going to lose him. They both work for a large concern and there must be some beautiful, neat yotm@ women there. Why doesn’t she see this? She’s not stupid. [ asked her father to speak to her and he did.. Her response was, ‘‘Please leave me alone. I'm ‘doing as. well as +1’ can.” “Ann, ‘tell mie what to do'~ Omaha * | DEAR O: By now you should realize that your daughter does not respond to your suggestions, so lay off, This girl’s prablems are hers. Either she will resolve them or pay the price. If you really want to help her, get off her back. DAILY CROSSWORD. . .1, 2.4. rower ACROSS 2 Operatic Yesterday's Pyzzie Solved: tighlight ' a 1 Pair 54 Fools? Slang aoa eater 5 Flowers 55 Removes EO EA Pe 10 Card game flaws De Oe Ogee 14 Border 59 Simple Simon GRRE. 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Add . clams (plus liquid) and carrots. Mix well. Saute bacon, onion and celery together until bacon is crisp and celery tender. Add to potate-clam mixture, Heat to serving temperature, Garnish with chopped parsley, if desired, CODFISH CRISP with CHEESE SAUCE (Makes4 servings) 1% pounds cod fillets Salt Pepper 6 slices soft cubed bread 2 tablespoons grated onion % to % tsp. summer -savory 1 ue? undiluted evaporated m % cup finely cut Cheddar cheese pieces 3 tod slices finely | cut bacon 1% cups (10-ounce can) cream of cheese soup Lay slices of cod in well- buttered shallow baking dish, Sprinkle lightly with salt’ and pepper. Prepare a dressing by mixing bread, onion, savory, : one-third cup ‘evaporated milk and cheese pieces. Spread over fish, Sprinkle with bacon. Bake in very hot oven (450 degrees F.) 10 to 15 minutes or until fish flakes, cheese melts and bacon is crisp. Serve with sauce made by heating remaining two- thirds cup evaporated milk with cheese soup. 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NSTANT. ‘SWING Bod 0 | ROOTS m | GAL@RE| “SEVENTY-FIVE CENTS(7bt) ~ TERRACE HERALD, TERRACE, B.C. . lies SNAPPY GINGER CHICKEN 214- to 3-pounds frozen chicken, cut up ' Salt % cup shorlening 2 chicken-flavored bowil: lon cubes 1% cups fot water % cup coarse gingersnap crumbs 4 cup brown sugar 4 cup seedless raisins 3 tablespoons lemon juice 14 teaspoon. salt, Sprinkle chicken with’ a. - brown in hat shortening, Dis.’ solve bouillon’ cubes in hot water; add remaining ingre- dients, except potatoes,” Ar- range browned chicken in a baking pan; - poursauce over it. Bake in a 350° oven for 1 hour. Serve chicken with French fried potatoes. Makes 4 servings. ; FOR MATURE WOMEN: "The Second Forty" FINANCIAL ADVICE Dear Margaret Brookfield: Would you have some advice - for a retired woman with $5000 to invest, who's interested in a safe return on her money. - KHL, Brooklyn, N.Y. Dear K.H.: Unfortunately, we're not ina _ position to provide financial advice to our readers. We suggest, however, that they never leave hard cash in the mattress. It can only lead to sleepless nights. _ RESTLESS AND JUMPY Dear Margaret Brookfield: Iam 48, While I look and feel younger most of the time, it’s still traumalic lo realize sud- denly that you've passed the midpoint of your life. I used to be an even-tempered person, bul now find myself irritable, depressed, restless and jumpy at times. At other times, rm -just like my old self, Although I have an appointment for a checkup soon with my doctor, T'm not sure if my problems are physical or psychological. B.K., Datias, Tex. DEAR B.K.: The middle years of a woman’s life can be a time of fewer responsibilities and greater freedom if she wants to take advantage of them. Ad if she takes good care of herself and her health, she can look forward to a productive second life after forty. A physical checkup therefore is always a geod idea and having one regularly, an even better one. - Should your doctor find an estogen deficiency at the root of your problems — as is often the case with women in your age pBroup — he. might, prescribe, ‘hormone | replacements.’ restore the necessary balance. And when a woman feels better physically, she generally feels better psychologically too. * HOMESICK HUSBAND Dear Margaret Brookfield: Iam 73 and married for just a year to a man of 65. Since then, he has left me four times and gone back home, I married for company, but I'm-always alone now anyhow. Please advise what I can say to him so he gets some sense in his thick head. E.L, Newfoundland, Canada. ’ Dear ELL: The chances of your . husband's settling down at this point don’t . seem very promising. Perhaps the best thing you cah say, under the circumstances, is “Goodbye.” TABOO TATTOO Dear. Margaret Brookfield: My son just got out of the _ navy and came home with a: terrible tattoo of a dumb- looking dancing girl on his arm. He says he was drink at the time and doesn’t recall having it done. My son doesn’t like the taltoe any better than I do, but thinks he's stuck with it for life. Is there anything he can do about it now? P.R., Lexington, Ky. Dear P.R.: Effective techniques have been developed for removing tattoos by desensitizing and abrading the skin, then treating it to prevent infection. Needless to say, such lreatments require the efforts of a skilled der- matologist. And they add up.to a lot more time and money than gelling tatteoed in the first place. PREPARING FOR CHANGE Dear Margaret Brookfield: ‘Tam 65 years old. My mother who’s 85 has been living with my husband, age 69, and myself for the last 25 years, (We have no children.) Thus far the three of us generally have had a very good life, although there have been some rough spots. Mother has a heart condition, cataracts and her legs are bothering her. In spite of this, she still does all the cooking at our house, as she -always has. (Cooking is one task I abhor.)' For the past several months, I've become troubled about how I'll be able ‘to cope when mother is no longer able to do the cooking. Then it will be up to me to take: care of that, plus all the household chores and other necessities. Housework or any hard work for that matter has never bothered me before, but lately ‘this concern is growing cut of proportion. Try as f° might, I cannot dismiss these. ‘gnawing. thoughts‘ from my. mind. For the present, mother is still very self-reliant. She’s - the sweetest and dearest person and I love her better than life itseli. She has always done . everything to make us com- fortable and happy. We've tried and I believe we've made her life as pleasant-as she has made ours. I keep telling myself I . have a good husband, a won- _derful mother, a nice home. But thoughts of the future make me shudder as J wonder how I'll be able to cope with problems that are bound to crop up, I know that my concern is worrying both my husband and my mother. What can I do? : J. §., Cicero, Ill. Dear J. S.: You’ve been fortunate in having the kind of life you've _ wanted all these years. But life . is not static and circumstances do change. One practical way you might prepare for the future is by helping your mother in the kitchen from timeto time. - Department ‘of Toys”. “History 7 of toys” “the existence. of. & toy making industry in “North Aerica is.a . fairly recent phenomenon. The .- ” start in Canada began in the 1920's. . There had been a Toymakera | Guild of Nuremburg in: Ger- many, which made and distributed dolls and other teys dating back to the 16th century, and there had-been activities in - other countries, but majority of: toys were home made, usually - hand. carved or cfeated by. the parents of those for- whom the gift was intended. . : Toys have been commercially manufactured and . widely distributed for little more than’ 100 years. Timothy Eaton | brought out his first mail order © catalogue in 1887 ‘and it ad- vertised: a “Christmas ‘Dolls ranged in price from 25 cents to . push taxes up ar unbearable Today toymaking i is a major industry, and the retail trade in Canada this year will total well. ° over $200. million. Ap-- proximately 75 per cent of this represents toys and games ~ rhade in Canada, Irwin Toy, for example, will produce almost 11 ”. million toys in its Toronto plant. The popularity -of new toys and garnes creales some. sur- prising - demands . upon manufacturing. . For example, aver 8 million marbles were used in one year’s products of Kerplunk; the Easy- - Show projector has used more _ than 1,5 million feet of 8 MM film, The Easy-Bake oven has proven so popular that special Betty Crocket cake mixes are packaged: for it,.and the five ” millionth oven has just been produced. Over 4 million ball point pens have been required for the tremendously popular Spirograph It has, been said that much fishing tackle catches more fishermen - than fish. Manufactuers and designers of toys and games must appeal to two separate publics at the . same time: to the purchaser’ who rarely ls buying for himself and to the eventual recipient, usually a child to whom the toy will eventually go. Today, there aremore toys, in greater variety than ever before; better toys that intrigue the old as well as the young. There are action toys, cuddly toys, cute toys, games for the kids, games for the’ whole . family, games for.mom and dad when. travelling, There is something for everybody and, tO paraphrase Dean Martin, “Everybody loves ‘something, sometime’, © LOUISVILLE, Ky. Jap) — Chad Moris Stubbs rolls dice, drinks. beer, bums cigarettes and smokes cigars at the age of three. “His. pa does it, and he ‘wanls to grow up and be a big. man just like his pa,’” said Mrs. Barbara Stubbs. ‘ “His father, Morris, grooms horses at Louisville Downs, Chad normally limits him-- self to 10 cigars a day. ; ‘The day starts with a cigar “first thing in the morn- ing.” Doesn't ‘she worry that. by the time Chad is 5, he'll be headed toward: a monstrous. smoking habit? ~ - “No,’* laughed Mrs. Stubbs, “he really only does it .to ahow off, wo f Planning for future ’ roads have been built to-fol- * “ ~ Jow: the’ community's: expan- FRIDAY, ocTroBER 8, 1971 a unique situation among call nadian elties..-- * This allows’ the city to ‘takd CALGARY (CP) — Trang." portation—roads, rail or ra “7 transit—will determine t , city’s future pati te rn. “of ' afl uncompromised approacky * grow Pe ceystem of expressways, + But what form. “of: move- . © Anexpressway network ca ment, or more likely combina-. _beeliminated from the choos tion of forms, becomes the _ingalmost immediately on : shaping force depends on cost,” “basis of cost, - ; says planning director, Mike “, Estimates of the total capi Rogers, . . > - tal requirements for all cl . The city has become de ; pendent.on the passenger ve- = hi¢le and ever since Fort Cal- “gary was founded in 1875 _ - services in the 20 years pre ceding | 1986 are More. than- $i billion ‘with $650 million ofea . that ‘for. roads, provided nga ; changes occur in’ the form eo | : growth, 5 “Satellite. towns — bedroary communities —are anothe@ : possibility but Mr, Roge - places little faith in them fog Calgary. - ' They have to be connected ‘ to the city in some mannerxig -@ither by roadsorrail.... The roads would cost toomm . Much and for rail to be well “used and economic the service must be. frequent and patron-@ age high, . Unless these towns made up| sion—ever outward in concen- tric._cireles. But as the circles . grow larger the capital costs ‘af ° providing services, particu- larly roads, begin to soar,” «| Mr. Rogers said the current outward expansion can con- © tinue unmoulded until 1978 byt - after that. expenditures will 85 per-cent, not including in- flation. This gives planners about ~'twa years to-canie up with a solution and another four or. five years to get it imple- ‘ more than 10 per cent of Cal- mented. - ' gary’s estimated population of & Not a Jot of time, he said, 700,000 by, 1986, a rail service LONG-RANGEPLAN - _. ‘would not be economic... Work has already startedon : Satellite communities ‘could algo be given an economic § base but Alberta attracts little re secondary industry with only § five per. cent of. the labor oy force in manufacturing and 49 § .per cent in office-retail, In other words, there is not i enough industry to spread around to such communities, -a. long-range. plan, prelimi- nary reports have been made and surrounding rural areas. that eventualiy will be af- . fectedare being consulted. 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