PAGE 8, THE HERALD, Tuesday, December 4, 1977 son, and | want lo keep my reputation flawless for his sake as well as my own. ; T come from a small town and I'm not sure [know what is considered acceptable conduct for a gil in my position, Should | go on overnight trips with a man I’m dating even if everything is on the up-and-up and we each have our own motel room? ; Please help me get my head straight on this. I know how to keep my conscience clear, it’s my reputation I'm worried about. NEEDS ANSWERS DEAR NEEDS: If you want a flawless reputation, even though your conscience is clear, avoid the appearance of evil. And “overnight trips” with a man you're dating are a no-no. DEAR ABBY: I caine from a family that is not in the habit of kissing all the time. We kiss goodbye for long lrips, or for important occasions—weddings, graduations, etc. But that is all. I married into a family that kisses each other every time one of them comes into a room. Wants a Child, Not a Husband By Abigail Van Buren kissin , and I hoped they didn’t think me unfriendly or cold By Abigal Tnbune-N.Y News Synd. Ine. if I didn’t kiss as much as they did, but apparently no one When [ enter a room and don’t go around kissing the clan, they kiss ME! A light kiss on the cheek wouldn't kill DEAR ABBY: I am a 29-year-old, unmarried, me, but some of these people grab me and kiss me on the Cod-fearing Christian woman who wants more than I don’t want to hurt an 's feeli Abby. b ear in , renee t I have anything in the world to have a child. I am a virgin and ° one s teeungs, AOby, ou _ he t to stay that way. had it up to here with all those wet kisses, Why can’t I have an artificial insemination? Or do you cold, but they de etn oe fibbed and said I had a ; NO KISSER have to be married for that? DEAR NO: Since this kissing issue is important to you, I may never get married. I had a boyfriend once, who was five years younger than I, also a virgin. But we broke why not gather your courage and TELL them that you like them, but you'ré not the kissing kind. You're apt to be up when [ told him about this overwhelming desire I had kissed off by a few, but would yau really care? for motherhood. . I don't want to sin, Abby, but if [ don’t have a baby I don't want to go on living. I can hardly see a baby without DEAR ABBY: Please tell DOG TIRED, whose neighbor s dog barked at night, that we solved that problem by doing the following: Turning our garden hose I once remarked that I wasn’t accustomed to so much- wanting to kidnap it. . _ { told my gynecologist this, and she said it was natural for a woman to yearn for motherhood, but she didn't recommend artificial insemination unless 1 was married. Well, if I were married I probably wouldn't need it. I don't inl : especially want a husband, I just want to be a mother. Can Certainly does shut him up. you help me? WANTS A BABY DEAR WANTS: Laws on artificial insemination vary among the states. I suggest you seek the counsel of a lawyer, and a talk with your clergyman wouldn't hurt either. SILENT NIGHT H you feel left out and lonely, or wish you knew how to get people to like you, my new booklet, “How To Be Popular; You're Never Too Young or Too Old,” is for you. Send $1 along with a long, self-addressed, stamped (24 DEAR ABBY: How should a 21-year-old girl who is cents} envelope to Abby, 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hills, separated but not divorced conduct herself? I have asmall Calif. 90212. MAKE IT Spicy! News briets TORONTO (CP) — ZILL VISIT MOSCOW MaryonKantaroff, BONN (Reuter) — Toronto sculptor, has Willy Brandt, chairman received the Outstanding of West Germany's ruling on the barking dog. 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