YVONNE Nielsen examines a replica of the human brain. Nielsen has a brain injury ‘she got in a head-on car crash when she was 23. As.a result, she suffers from physical and mental problems such as short term memory loss and tremors. “SARAH ARTIS PHOTO By SARAH ARTIS .IN MANY ways, Yvonne. Nielsen is a successful woman, a role model for young girls everywhere. She owns her own home. She is strong-minded and in- _ dependent. She is passionate ‘about her beliefs and stands up for herself and her fellow human beings. And when she sets a goal for herself, she doesn’t give. up; she “sticks to her guns to over- come any obstacle, no mat- ter how long it takes. But a few things separate: Nielsen from most other role models. She limps. Her right.thigh looks twice as big as her left. And her arm shakes when she reaches for her glass. _ When I ask her how old she is, she isn’t sure. “T don’t know,” she says. To figure it’ out, she counts backwards on her fingers, from the year she. was born. “Forty-two,” she tells me_ first. “No, maybe 43.” I wait and she laughs at herself. She grabs a piece of . paper and starts to do long- division math, counting the numbers under her breath and concentrating intensely. After a couple of min- . | utes, she states with a little ‘ more confidence but still: a ‘touch of uncertainty. “YT was born in November of 1963, so I’m 42.” Nielsen is accustomed to not remembering things and she’s not embarrassed about it. It’s a part of who she is. Or at least it has been since she was 23. . In 1987, Nielsen was liv- ing on her own in Terrace, working at Woolworths. A ‘Parietal: Lobe Occipital Lobe | Cerebel meeting in’ Pritice George’ couple y years before, she had graduated with a certificate . -in special needs education .from Langara College in Vancouver and had returned - home to look for work: . She was your average “young . adult. softball, rode. her bike and spent lots of time with her She played friends and family. She also volunteered for the Canadian Cancer Soci- ety, for which, in October ‘of that’ year, she attended a " Two women from Kitimat, who were also at the meet- ing, were. giving her a ride home when they got into a head-on car collision on the highway between Houston and Burns Lake. “1 can’t. work. | can’t run. | get tired when | read a book and the next night _I can’t remember what | just read. My - neighbouristwoand a half years old and IT can’t lift him up, ” -Yvonne Nielsen Although all three were wearing seatbelts, the driver and front passenger died in- stantly. Nielsen, who was sitting in the back, suffered major injuries. The impact of the acci- dent’ jerked her body hard back and forth, causing her brain to hit the front then back of her skull. She suf- fered a serious closed-head ' brain injury. Her skull was still in one piece. Haig "She also broke her back in two places and had a stroke, the result of a blood clot in. her brain stem at the back of her neck.” ~ “f don’t remember : the crash at all,” Nielsen said. - She was first taken to the _ hospital in. Burns Lake and then to Prince George. A few days later she was flown. to Shaughnessy Hospital in Vancouver. Nielsen was conscious, “but out of it. T knew I was being flowii ‘ . to Vancouver but I don’t re- member the trip at all.” She had no idea of the ex- tent of her injuries. “Y didn’t know what all the fuss was all about.” Nielsen spent __ five months in the hospital, with her mother at her side. For months, she felt dizzy con- stantly and wore a custom- made, body brace to support her back-She threw up every day for two years because of the damage to her brain. The resulting problems of patients with brain injuries differ from person to person depending on the part of the brain injured as well as-their age at the time of injury, ed- -ucation level, environment and personality. Nielsen’s injuries were extensive. She damaged four out of the six major parts of .. her brain — her parietal, fron- tal and temporal lobes, and her cerebellum. She now. suffers from short-term memory loss so she forgets names and simple information, like her birthday. “It took me almost a year. "me. I get tired even though to. remember my swimming teacher’s name. And I saw her every week,” she said, Frontal Lobe | \ but added, “Whatever’s im- portant to me, [’ll remember. Somehow, I’ll remember.” ‘Nielsen also has. speech’ Sometimes, it* problems. takes ‘her a few minutes to “remember the appropriate word during a conversa- tion. And when she was first _ injured, she suffered from headaches all the time and was very emotional. “T still am,” she said, “just watching the news.” ~ -Another major’ which is frustrating she says because she wants to do so many things. Her physical injuries are | just as troubling. Nielsen’s back constantly causes her pain and she can’t lift anything heavier than five pounds. The whole right side of her body is damaged as a re- | sult of the stroke; before the accident, Nielsen was right- handed but she now uses her. left-hand most of the time. She suffers from tremors in her right arm, meaning it shakes if she uses it too much, gets tired or stressed. Nielsen’s right leg is the most -troubling of her bodi- ly. injuries, however... Ex- cess water builds up so she ‘needs to wears a tight elastic © around the lower half to keep the liquid in her thigh — both the elastic and swollen thigh are uncomfortable. ._ Every day, for a couple of hours, she wraps her leg in a lympha-press and waits while it applies pressures to « different areas of her leg to - distribute the liquid. “That takes a lot out of I’m lying down.” Her right foot also has a * “issue | "since thé accident is fatigue, -hospitals, One woman's story about coping with a brain injury: 3 but it gives her calluses. , drop, so with each step, her : toes drag. A cane helps and - ’ she also has an ankle brace “A lot of times, I get-up- | _ Set. My brain is saying ‘yeah, I can do that’. but physically, “no, [can’t do it.” What frustrates Nielsen most is not being able to do the things she could do’ be- fore the accident. “Tt can’t work. I can’t run. I get tired when I read ~a' book and ‘thé néxt night I can’t remember what I just read. My neighbour is two and a half years old and I can’t lift him up or else P'll pull-my back.” “Tt takes me a lot longer to prepare meals and do housework,” she adds. Yvonne doesn’t let any of her problems stop her, how- ever. She is more active in the. community than ever. , “Before my injury [ was: shy. I’ve completely swung over,” she said. Nielsen has taken on the role of advocate for people with. brain. injuries. > She spends countless hours at- tending brain.injury confer- ences to ‘learn then educate _ others about brain injuries. She writes articles, and pres- | ‘ents and distributes informa- tion to community groups, . “schools, cians and other brain injury survivors. She also attends politi- ~ a support group to help new - victims of brain injuries. Her most recent project is, ‘to create an official voluntary. identity card so people with brain injuries have proof and * can get disability benefits. - “ “You can’t tell just by. looking at me that I’ve got a brain injury,’ ’ she says. And she’s right, I can’t. “Common problems linked to damage: Mental = poor problem solving Bkills ™@ poor memory » a low attention span © m slowed thinking . m difficulty planning and setting goals Social u self-control problems a low sexual drive m- lack of initiation = impulse buying _ @ aggression s inappropriate speech. = difficulty making and keeping friends’. @ poor judgement m problems understanding others Physical: fatigue ‘headaches poor balance vision problems _ problems speaking — clearly . physical disabilities such as problems with walk- - ing, sitting, ¢ etc. Emotional @ personality changes # bursts of emotion m shifting emotions --- mw lack of emotion a increased anxiety ‘m problems controlling temper The Terrace Standard, Wednesday, June 7, 2006 - A5 a CORRESPONDENCE FOR THE TERRACE STANDARD The Mail Bag Watch out in Alberta Dear Sir: I’m writing to inform all the young men and gals that have gone to Alberta to work. My son does seasonal work in the oil fields there. He has no permanent Alberta ad- ’ dress as he lives in camps/motels in both B.C. and Al- berta. He comes back to Terrace periodically during the year on down time and works at a local fishing lodge. He enough. He isn’t eligible for “Ralphie Bucks” He purchased.a new vehicle here in Terrace in October and it was totalled 47 days after owning it. There were no drugs/alcohol involved in the accident it was ano fault work for a while. He is now told by [CBC that he wasn’t insured prop- erly. He bought the insurance here in Terrace to return back to Alberta to see if he had work in the oil fields-for the winter months. He was in Alberta exactly. 36 days when the accident happened. - The problem was that a person has to change i insurance within 60 days of moving to another province. My son was under that limit. He moved in and out of work camps Alberta. And because:he could not prove he wasn’t-in Al- Alberta for over that length of time. So he was considered ‘not insured properly. He now has to pay ICBC thousands of dollars and doesn’t get paid for loss of wage 0 or medical ‘to fix his face. ” ing is the policy you need. And that’s particularly the case ’ for people doing, seasonal work who travel back and forth - from other provinces. | hope | you lose a foot Dear Sir: which one you are, so I will make a blanket thanks to someone came and took my red lawn mower. I am’ grate- * ful to them for releasing me of my latest burden: ' |, - ' While I have been busy working my butt off for basic survival, I just couldn’t, for the life of me, figure out when ning, and get the grass cut. of equipment. So T do thank you for making my choices for me. My only hope is that it now resides beside: the ho ing better than a family reunion. rat will bring something in exchange for, rather than just fall down?” . damn thing cuts your foot off. ‘Or if it’s being sold for drug money, I hope its the best and last high you ever have. I only wish the best for you. You deserve it. - om nee sour oy Medical centre needed Dear Sir: have specialists in all fields supported by those experi- enced to minister to the sick and infirm, together with the most up-to-date supplies and the latest equipment. Terrace is centrally located, built on well drained, flat gravel.with master sewer and water services. People come to Terrace from all over the surrounding area by. public personnel adjacent. would cost millions. Our future! oy The best place i in the world Dear Sir: ‘in Rosswood, B.C. north of Terrace that read “Boil this water” before use. This is ridiculous. People have been of huge rocks (obviously a spring), about 200 metres from find anywhere. should maybe-boil the water that comes out of their taps in case the chlorine and. whatever else might. give them problems. ° Also, what about the fruit, meat and vegetables that we buy from the grocery stores? The workers who harvest ~ the crops in the Fraser Valley have to wear gloves so their ‘hands don’t burn up. Most of these people are immigrants jobs. Maybe similar to the Latins in other countries? © _air-and no threat'of mad cow disease. .However,: due to . government regulations we cannot sell a ‘healthy turkey or chicken to our neighbours. It’s a bit ridiculous. _ [have taught some university and secondary school in Mazatlan, Mexico and have gone to the market where flies to persuade them that hurting people in some other coun- tries is not necessarily the road of success. Also, you Green party people. Perhaps you could take down your ugly signs from the last election! They look worse than the billions of trees we can’t cut down. in my opinion we are probably still living in one the best places in the world. About the Mail Bag | The Terrace Standard welcomes letters.'Our address "fax us at 250-638-8432 or e-mail us at newsroom@ terracestandard.com. No attachments, please. Name, address and phone number required for verification. in B.C, as well as Alberta. But his paycheques ¢ came from’ each and everyone of you. Sometime on a recent Monday,” or how I was going to find the time get the dam thing run- Terrace isa natural hub for a medical centre. We could can’t claim income tax in Alberta since he isn’t there long - _ accident. He received severe facial injuries and was off — _berta for under 60 days, ICBC regarded him as being in My warning is that people buying insurance should ask. a lot of questions to make sure the insurance-you are buy-. Now, I can get that job off my mind; due to 'the lack, chiminea that you stole from me last year. There i is noth- . These thieves are lower than.a pack rat. At least a pack " taking. And what’s that old saying “only worms can’t me | So in closing, thanks’ again, -and I can only hope the. Sharlene Lindstrom, Terrace, B.C. and private transport. We have ambulance, fire, and police ~ The centre could be architecturally: designed like the ‘spokes of a wheel — no stairs or elevators and lots of win- - dows (fresh air, landscaping — good therapy). The above Recently I saw a notice, ‘on the ‘tackboard at Dry Creek : drinking this water for many years. The water comes out - the highway. No matter how cold it gets in winter it nev- | _ er freezes and in rainy seasons it never shows a trace of murkiness. It is probably one of the purest waters you will: The government people that put the the “poil” sign because most respectable Canadian citizens won’tdo these The people who live in this “remote” area enjoy pure | are all over the meat, fish, fruit and vegetables. Ts the mor-.. tality rate higher there? What would our government do. | about this? If the government employees in this country’. want to do. something positive, perhaps they should try. to - - communicate with some of our leaders i in North America However, a lot of what I have written is negative but — ~ Allan. Cameron Sr., Rosswood, B. C. is 3210 Clinton St., Terrace, B.C. V8G 5R2. You.can _ Cathy Wiebe, Terrace, B. Co “ I really want to thank all the thieves in town. Not sure a ; os Gerald Duffus, Terrace, B.C. ——