. Page 16, The Herald, Monday, July 16, 1979 Dubious — Convert By Abigail Van Buren 9° 1079 by Chicago Tribune-N.Y. News Synd. Inc. engaged to marry a Jewish giri. ] have agreed to convert to Judaism, but I was told that in order to convert [ must be circumcised. Abby, I am 44 years old and really not too eager to go through something like that at my age. Can you please tell me if it's absolutely necessary? . NEEDS TO KNOW IN NEVADA DEAR NEEDS: All Orthodox and Conservative rabbis adhere to the anclent Jewish law which demands that the man be circumcised in order te convert to Judaiam. But here's a suggestion: Same Reformed rabbia are more lenient than others, and do not insiat on cireuntelalon. Find « liberal Reformed rabbi if you prefer to remain intact. DEAR ABBY: My father, who is 87, is very well-off finan- cially as well as physically. Is there a gracious way to bring to his attention. that he could make monthly or annual monetary gifts to his children tax free? sO None of us “needs” anything, but extra cash would be very helpful to improve our homes, take trips, and make life more comfortable generally. It also upsets me to think that if Father just leaves us his money after he dies, a huge slice will go for inheritance taxes, . How much better it would be for all concerned if Father could give his money away while he is alive and able to see us enjoy the fruits of his labor. He has amassed a small for- tune, We love him and see him often, but none of us can think of a way to tell him the above. We are all between 60 and 60, but sign this © . : “ONE OF THE KIDS" DEAR ONE: I know of no “gracious” way to ask anyone for anything. It's inconceivable that one who has amassed a amall fortune lacks competent up-to-date advice from lawyera, accountants and financial advisers. It’s entirely possible that Father prefers to give the fruits of his labor to his Uncle (Sam) rather than to “the kids,” DEAR ABBY: There's a girl in our office who's been single ever since the death of her husband about two years ago. The boss lost his wife last year and these two have been very chummy ever sincs. Thay'ye even taken out-of-town * trips together just like married folks. They've recently an- nounced (to the surprise of no one) that they are engaged to be married. . A large wedding is planned, and i have heard that all of us in the office will be invited. How can I tactfully turn down this wedding invitation? 1 don’t care to attend the wedding of people who have lived in sin for a year. , OMIT MY SIGNATURE DEAR OMIT: Simply decline. You need not give a reason. (P.S. You could be wrong about this “sin” charge, you know. Are. you “indignant” enough to quit working for this “sinner”? And if not, why not?) : CONFIDENTIAL TO PARENTS OF A VERY YOUNG DRUG ADDICT: Contact FAMILIES ANONYMOUS. They have been a godsend to many parents who didn’t have a clue about how to handle the nightmare of drugs in the family. No fees. No dues. Just meetings with a group of friendly, supportive people who have lived through it. For information about the group nearest you, write FAMILIES ANONYMOUS, Box 334, Torrance, Calif. 90501. Include a self-addressed, stamped envelope, please. They are a non- profit organization, DEAR ABBY: I am not of the Jewish faith, but I am . Your Individual. Horoscope. Frances Drake —-—— FOR MONDAY, JULY 16, 1979 - ARIES . ) *. (Mar. 21 to Apr. 19) eS Your best bet is to capitalize on creative thoughts. Otherwise, you can waste valuable ideas by talking too much. Ignore financial ad- vice. TAURUS hat (Apr. 20 to May 20) 6 Buy useful items for the house, keep busy, or else you could waste too much time . daydreaming or making plans that won't be realized, GEMINI rie (May 21 to June 20) The social scene doesn't meet with your expectations.. . Still, - you're articulate and able to express yourself to good ‘advantage. Forget doubts. CANCER (June 21 to July 22} Ses. Capitalize on that financial idea, Put things into motion, but don't .reveal plans to others. Friends could keep you - up too late, ° ; LEO (July 23 to Aug, 22) SOAS Express your ideas to friends, but refrain from . giving advice. Lavish en- tertainment won't further your career one iota. VIRGO (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) my Plans kept secret should now be revealed te superiors. Ideas for their own sake are more important than any financial concerns. LIBRA (Sept. 24 to Oct, 22) eSB The advice of friends will prove valuable. Close allies are too involved in the scene to be objective. Financial dreams are out of line. 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