rot (© 305 ig Teena Syndicate. inc.-Woed setts even ALWAYS F N@THE KAINY =, ASON: are MINITE EEL. LY ONE PROBLEM I WITH IT | GALL CSS «by Ieff MacNelly Th ST EBST MONTH, FM "Me | wasell Myera fH DRAWBRIDGE TOO LONG! | “THEY MADE THE | 1 | Resrew yee An regen Reerend 2k ade ; as MAMG ae hE “| PRTER FINALLY MAKES HiG PATEL WEAN= Te WO USE, AR. TAMESON! THE CONPLTER ee. [2 010, BUT THEY'RE TOO FAROUT] .| CALL 7 DOLLY NORBERT... WHILE, | CAN'T GIVE US SPIDER-MAN'G IDENTITY. ¥ THEY AC? LP TOHIM BEING ENTHER, BB AT BRAXTONS © A ie . WITHOUT BEING FEC MORE PATA}. -—" WHAT [RE] A ROBOTOR A MARTIAN! A "| ARARTHENT AT EXACTLY’ g ee aaa ; Pre ne--¥ a. a pears Heer 224, : BLASTED E \ MACHINE! iy eS lil S ol Hf j STAN » FLORO , 1S es MN Lee & ERY * Tapad . by Johnny Hart. ~~ by Lynn Johnston BHT COLORS ARE IN, | IFWERE GOING INTO | _by Brant Parker and Johnny THid 1s SeriIobsT eye ee ee, che te A ae need ee ee _ “This ‘article appeared -in the American Medical News. It. deals with a Problem you. have men- ‘toned in. your column numero times, but once more won't hurt. “you from every. ehild. -- Reader . > Hereds an edited vers... - sion with an added word “ Trom Yours Truly, ’ The worst crime - . anger, disgust. ‘It is the -.worst of.crimes, against the ‘most defenseless of victims. ; ‘Yet-cacrass North “America, “children . are’ ‘being beaten, -burned, -‘uwhipped, tortured and “sexually. abused. by the and ‘protect them. | - “How imany’ children? "No, one: really -knows, “44. giInee what ‘hap ‘the privacy of other peo- ns in : ple's homes Is usually un- ’ knowable. . °°. --What-we da know’ Is °*. this: In 1981 there were . 885,000:-reported cases of _ childabuse in the United > States, twice as many a8 . in-1976. Every year 5,000 . vhildren die ‘atthe hands (0+; of their parents. - .« the. crime ig 'so-intimate “.. Ehe: -most - under-re- erted abuse of children ‘vand-so secret. .- By age 18, experts Ae guess, one In: four - girls “and one in 10 ‘boys will vie eed - have experienced some » form of sexual abuse — "mostly by, parents, rela- tives ‘and. tt » family.” jends of the -» Some -blame the frus- trations of unemploy- _"; Tent — not a‘surprising - gonnection, since rising — ” unemployment also is as ~” -goclated with mure fami- "Ty quarrels, mure mental “ diness, more “murders, © - - more siieides. Others _- hgite budget cuts, which. . «others. - shave. hurt social pro-. "grams that benefit moth: ” ers and children. Still j int tothe high _ cost of day’ care, the financial burden of chii- ‘dren i.— $150,000 per " child by age 18 the 1.2 — million divorces each — : year, the legions of work- | -_ Ing. mothers: with chil- . ‘dren, the rise in one-par- ".-. ent households. are Déspite. a. grow ing wareness .of the. Wit, -HOFTOY, » STOrIES "Hn, “" newspapérs, | diamatlza-' tlons on television, pro- grams to counsel and educate parents and na- tional: hotlines to report . suspected cases, children are being abused more ’, brutally and ‘more often than ever. os * "> We must intensify the .. battle. Communities: 7 - vigilant. must marshal every .re- source. Also the hospi- » tals, police, social agen- , ¢les"-and ‘volunteer “groups. must: be ever- Since children often “~ eannot speak:out, others must speak-for them. Every physician, teach- _er, nelghbor — everyone who has reason to sus- _pect.that a child. is being abused *- uy to save children from . , their parents, and: par- ~ . . _ . 1; ents from themselves, ; AW ; 1p WHO RETURNS.” - _ PS. from Abn’ Land- AFTER HIG MORNING UO >] - "REEKING OF TRUFFLES, © | ‘ers: Anyone who suspects >.’ J¢hild abuse has an obliga- + tlon-to report. it. When <4. you look .. :’ you become a co-conspir- e@ other way ator in the crime. Get the 7 - Children’s Aid number .. .from directory .assist- ance and place a call. There is help out there for our children -and we . must see that they get it. "Dear Ain Landers: 1 was listening ‘to Tom (Brokaw. on the evenin news recently and what 1 heard made a deep e it will “read your column to act ‘+ instead: of lettin on their goud intentiuns, the months and years slip by covering it is too late. Brokaw told about a man wha had ordered a -tombstune for his brath- size replica of a Mer- cedes Benz, complete with windshield wipers and, TV antenna, every detail found on the awanklest floor model. “The Mercedes was carv- ed out of flne stone from a quarry in Vermont. “The sculptor spent a year “>. on his masterpiece. The ~ $120,000. ‘--- "Pinte to talk: to the Mer- his brother a car. _ Why such an elaborate * headstone? Guilt. The man who commissioned the replica had promised For years he kept putting off he purchase. He didn't have time, or so he told himself.. Then suddenly his brother died and he had all kinds of time. ". gades Benz people about a model, time to find a svulplar, time to go to Vermont and pick out the stone, time to meet with the cemetery people and oversee the project. The moral of the story, folks, is It's always iater than you think: — No eee al ha a ee ee er ah rn et a ka Fa ee a "Mention: child ‘abuse - *. ahd the response Is usual- Jy .the same: ‘Shock,. people they:trist to.love” a probe; kes — has 4 duty to - ; im- ° “ pression, it alse made me resolve tu atup procrasit. -” Wating. May ~ move a few people who — and then one day dis. ‘er’s grave. 11 was a life- . “coat: approximately . ” More Tomorrows Dear No More: Thank | you for sharing a moving | story. The saddest part is that the brother who . ° ordered the tombstone — missed one of Hie's - test Joys: witnessing « e delight of people we 7 gare about. when-we do ‘), : 2 something to make them happy. ~ an - ."Runaholic wrecks —- . ces fpomellfe a Dear Ann Landers: _- Are-you aware pf anoth: . erkind of “holic”, these daya?. Add to the alcohol- _-Ie.and the workaholic — the runaholic. ' know of three. divorces resulting ‘from this all-consuming * Nonsense. Mine is next. - -. husband’s job. _ ‘oumes first, running see: ~ ‘and, his mother third -~ : and-I Iimp in.a poor | ..: fourth, along with the .. ; kids. “ ' . - ". We have had one vaca- .:. . tlondin nine’years..I waa”, _ thrilled that he wanted to -- '. go to a resort near Du-" -luth. When.we were 30 | ‘miles from our. destina- : -tlon he ‘told me he was - , running In a’ marathon. Of the seven days, he was . gone four. The children were seven and five years of.age. 1 was alone’ without acar.’.. * _ ~ Every day he rurs at. least six miles. And then’ ~ . he works [out'after / the: running..: He: aaye ih “owes itité himseli” and. doesn’t feel right. If this isn't a disease, whal ig? — - The man has many 7 ‘+ good qitalitles. He: does: ~*~ n't smuke, drink, garable an or chase women, But. he’. is so self-centred Jt's sick- ’ ening. He never shows uj - for anything at school. Some people think !'m-a "that he has to dot or‘he ©" _ The Harald, Friday, January 13,1984, Page? for 13 years.to a guy who has a serious booze prob y at ‘jem and is. rare home. My life has been a story of poverty, confur sion and quiet despair.. We have a son, 12, and a daughter, 4. The . Walks the Hoor at sig 8 .. fled crying because of nightmares. He is petri- of monste! * “time, His friends don't want to play with him abymore. - : ~ F-can’t take him any- : where because he figh 2 With everyone, Is nervy: - us and loud. Now the 4: . year-old is picking up his ‘ways, I give in to her tan- trums 50 I can get some peace and quiet. We lve with my ents because Toni is‘out of-work alot. Piind my- *-aver: the . BO self letting them..take ds because T ‘ can’t cope‘anymore. — _ , My parents insist It is we _ifthey say, isjust spoiled, - where to turn, Can “Gt's in the 1 feel like afailureasa’. “mother and don’t know 4 help me? —- necx. so ae First, -go to AlAlon hone book _and free) and learn how -. to live with: your hus: _ band's alcoholism, Then, . .. “go to:the. school and talk. “with the teacher and ‘the . -'school counselor. It may . be thal your son need § ta “be evaluated by a psy- chologist anda physi- | clan: ” . .’ ¥ou need help with "your children. The schuel ‘is the first line of de- widow, When the teacher eral se, what his daddy does,’ he": : *. peplied,“Herung." =. ' Please tel] those men - .- ° who are hell-bent on. keeping their bodies In ~ shape that it isn’t worth . it if it destroys their © marriage. — Fed Up . Dear Fed:' Your hus- ©" hand is addicted to rin- ning and he wil] continue run, no matter what youssy,. 9 Joo. ’ , The larger problem is - . his selfishtiess. You'll fcel - Bape too, start doing your own’, - .; Story of despair, . J have been: married, ‘asked, aur. five-year-old -_- er yours‘ Is -. around, the unly one Anniversary wine . For our 10th peddling anniversary my hus wants to, dake me wa 2 fancy: French restaurant, -.. We are people of modest means: we bring our "own wine? Any other suggestions? —5.L. -a lot better when yout... L _ ‘=. Don’t take wine from hore, Buy: an inexpen- "give hotile there. 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