She Cares— And Shares ._| By Abigail Van Buren © 1078 by Chicago Tripune-N.Y. News Synd. Inc. DEAR ABBY: I was raised to believe that charity begins at home, 30 [ want to ask you what you think about a lady who spends three whole days a week a5 a volunteer in a nursing home for old people. . She says they need the love and attention she can give them. Well, they have a staff paid to care for those old people. And their families are supposed to give them love. So where does a volunteer who is a stranger [it in? This lady has a retired husband and a 40-year-old handi- capped daughter, and I'm sure they need her at home. What do you think? T.B. FROM KY. DEAR T.B.; | think anyone who works as a volunteer three dsys a week can't be all bad. Nursing homes need volunteers to keep the reaidents in touch with the outside world and make them feel that they are still & part of the community. Statfe often are overburdened and some families aren’t able to visit often. And, as for the retired husband and handicapped daughter, don't assume that they are being neglected. Chances are they manage nicely without her, and they all appreciate time away from each other, DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 23 years and have ¢wo sons, 20 and 18. The problem in this: My husband and I were married (briefly) to others before we met each other. Both marriages ended in divorce. There were no children involved. We have never told our sons about our previous marriages, but now I have the feeling that we should tel! them. My. husband disagrees. He says, “It’s all in the past and it's best to let aleeping dogs lie.” What do you say? : . I'VE GOT A SECRET DEAR SECRET: I say sleeping dogs have been known to awaken at the most unexpected time to set up a disturbing howl. Tell the boys. : . DEAR ABBY: Lenny and I have been marriéd nearly three years. He's 26 and I'm 24. We have good jobs, a car of our own, a neat apartment and no serious problem. However, 1 do have one mini-problem. ['m curious, suspicious, or maybe I'm just plain nosy, Anyway, when Lenny is in the shower | can't resist going through his wallet. The last time he caught me he just about hit the ceiling. What do you suppose he has to hide? weet ek eet DEAR SNOOPY: Maybe he has nothing to hide; he just resents your nasiness. Hf you don’t want your mini-problem | to grow into a maxi, stay out of his wallet. DEAR ABBY: Last year you printed the name of a travel club that arranged tours and trips all over the world for non- smokers. I happened te be allergic to tobacco smoke and [ can’t imagine anything more wonderful than traveling with & group of non-smokers. ; ; - I clipped that column, although I wasn't able ta travel at » the time, but I am very much interested in going this year. Will you please print the name and address of the club again? I'm sure other non-smokers will be interested. ALLERGIC IN CANTON, ILL. DEAR ALLERGIC; Write to: Non-Smokers Travel Club of Gasp, $928 Broadmoor Drive, Bethesda, Md., 20034. CONFIDENTIAL TG S.B, IN B. H.: Heed the wise ad- viee of Joseph Zabara, the 13th century Spanish Hebrew physician and poet who wrote: : “Before the trouble comes, advice obtain; After it has come, advice Is vain." SNOOPY. Your Individual VIRGO (Aug, 28 to Sept. 22) 7? - A family member could impose ori you in small ways. Find privacy. for ac- complishment, Be accessible, but not at someone's beck and (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22) Rumors abound you shouldn't be taken. in. A private talk with a friend should be kept private, - Protect career idences. SCORPIO ..._—— (Oct. 23 to Nov, 21) ML Ae Don't overlook important financial details. Keep per- sonal Life out of business talks, which then will prove profitable, . AGITTARIUS : (Nov. 22 to Dee, 21) xia That fabulous pleasure trip may be a bit out of line, However, a business trip is definitely in the realm of possibility. 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