Teen’s Mother Fears She’s Lost Control By Abigall Van Buren D. 1978 by Chicago Tribune NV. News Synd. tne, DEAR ABBY: My 14-year-old daughter wants to be “trusted” and I would like nothing better than to truat her, but ahe has lied to me so many times I have lost count. _ Last Friday she asked if she could spend the night at a Hriond’s house, so 1 lot her. When I checked with the end’s mother, she told me that HER daughter was su d to be staying HERE! daughter lies to me about where she goes, who she’s been with, and just about everything she does. I am worried sick about her, I have tried to get her to go to a counselor, but she won't go. I am a divorcee, work full time, and have cut my own social life to a minimum in order to be here when she wants me. But she’s never around, and I am completely shut out. Please help me. HELPLESS MOM DEAR HELPLESS. You are not helpless. Counseling is available for parents who have fost control. You need to learn bow to deal with a child who learned long ago how to manipolate A har Your local Family Services Association offera excellent counseling. And if there's a Parents Anonymous in your aren, contact them, too. DEAR ABBY: I love to play Bingo, and I play every chance I get. I hardly ever win, and it really runs into money when you play as often as I do. My landlord told me if I wanted to win at Bingo, I should get myself a book and atudy up on It. T have nover heard of a book on Bingo, but if there is such a book, can you tell me where I can buy a copy? E. B.: WINONA, MINN. DEAR E. B.: 1 thak your landlord la putting you on. Bingo Is etrictly a game of chance, and if there is a book on how to win at Bingo, I've never seen it. DEAR ABBY: My daughter waa married in a church. We went to a great deal o expense and effort to make her wodding as lovely as possible, and it would have been perfect, had it not been spoiled by a crying baby! The baby's parents insisted on bringing their 10-monthold child to the ceremony, and when ehe started to ery and fuss, instead of taking her out of the room immediately, they allowed her to cry until her cries became hysterical screamel! It was terribly distracting for those who were trying to keep their attention on the ceremony. Needless to say, it wasn't the baby’s fault. It’s too late for us, because my daughter's wed ceremony has olready been Tuined, but I hope you w print thicec.pthers.will,xaalize,that children who are too to understand the-importance of keeping quiet do not belong at a church wedding. MOTHER OF THE BRIDE DEAR MOTHER: I have mentioned this in my column several times, and the number of letters I have received saying, “Bables belong in church” was astonishing. (P.S. I've vicited the Mormon church and congratulated them a the good manners and respectfulnese of their wee ones. CONFIDENTIAL TO “DAFT” (DEAR ABBY FANS TOGETHER): Your loyalty is deeply appreciated, but so devotion Is embarrassing. I don’t deserve It. Enough, Penge. Are your probleme too heavy to handle alone? Let Abby help you. For a personal, a ublished reply, write: Abby: ——————————_—_— Your Individual Horoscope © Q@ Sn ‘the AMAZING SPIDER- Frances Drake FOR MONDAY, AUGUST 14, 1978 “What kind of day will tomorrow be? Ta find out what the stars say, read the forecast given for your birth Sign. ARIES ae (Mar. 21 to Apr. on) Ve The “unique” “ynusual’® are often misleading. Look beneath the surface of new offerings. secondary factors — also the smaller, but more .- worthwhile prizes. TAURUS (Ape. 21 to May 21) OR” P a go of the day on your own. And a good go it can be! G EMINI (May 22 to June 21) ue Your fine mind and keen perception should assist you in even the most difficult of endeavors. 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