Page 8, The Herald, Thursday, November 29, 1978 Stole Furters, Frank About It By Abigail Van Buren - 1079 by Chicago Tribune-N.Y. News Synd. inc. DEAR ABBY: While shopping in a supermarket recently, I observed an elderly, nice- looking, neatly dressed man pushing a shopping cart in which there were a few items. Then I saw him slip a package of frankfurters into his coat pocket! 1 went over to him and quietly said, “I wouldn't do that if] were you. He dig not respond, sol repeated the statement, He then took the frankfurters from his pocket and placed them in his shopping cart, and said, “Thank you." Before leaving him, 1 said, “It wouldn't have been worth it,” When I told my family about this, I received mixed reac- tions. One said, “You should have reported him to the management.” Another said, “Why try to play policeman? You should have looked the other way and minded your own business. The poor man probably went to bed hungry that night.” Another said, "You took an awful! chance, He could have pulled a knife on you!” One of my children thought I did the right thing, but sug- gested I should have ofiered to give the man the money for the frankfurters. Whi du you say, Abby? ANOTHER SENIOR CITIZEN DEAR ANOTHER: I think you raised a wise and compas- sionate child. DEAR ABBY: I'm a 14-year-old girl who's in love with a 17-year-old guy. He doesn’t love me, or even like me asa friend, but we kissed in his car once before he found out how old I was. We go to the same church and he sits behind me. Sometimes 1 catch him locking at me, but when I look back he turns his head the other way. He tald his best friend that he would take me out if I were a little older. I've tried every way I] know to get him to ask me out, but nothing seems to work. I really love him, Abby, and want him to love me, too, Please help m LOVESICK IN LOCKPORT DEAL LOVESICK: Your feelings are normal and natural jor a pe a al You won't always be “tao young" for him, but if you re quit, cheging him, you might be too o0 pushy fc for lent h nee ia of ‘your. Aiden. _ him. Be DEAR ABBY: My best friend i is getting married soon and I will he her maid of honor, My parents are invited to the wedding. My Aunt Ingrid and Uncle Hugo have also been invited to the wedding. The problem is, my parents and this aunt and uncle had a falling out a few years ago and aren't on speak- ing terms. Should my mother mention to the bride's mother that she would prefer nat to be seated at the same table with Aunt Ingrid and Uncle Hugo? Should I say something to the bride? Or should nothing be said at all? PERPLEXED IN MINNESOTA DEAR PERPLEXED: Nothing should be said. Weddings are a time for joy and merrymaking. All past grievances should be checked at the door, the guests should ait where the hostess has seated them, and try to behave in an adult and civilized manner. CONFIDENTIAL TO “WORRIED IN ROCKFORD, ILL": Don't worry about what to tell people. Your friends won't ask, and your enemies won't believe you anyway. Your Individual Horoscope == Frances Drake ———- (Mar. ar 21 to Apr. VS Career responsibilities win out over ego needs. The p,m. provides financial ap- portunity. Trust hunches, but avoid wishful thinking. TAURUS ‘Apr. 20 to May 20) Oey Too much introspection may bea way of copping out, Talks with advisers plus positive efforts to enjoy life lead to renewed confidence. GEMINI (May 21 to June 20) Friends and family don't mix now, Partners are sup- portive. Act on intuition re a home project. You'll gain Insights about a family member, CANCER (June 21 to July 22) BRP Delays affect career progress, but attend to the work at hand, Later social life provides welcome antidote to a full work day. LEO {July 23 to Aug. 22) NER Advice re a project com- plicates the decision-making process. Positive action brings career progress and financial gain. Sociability helps too. VIRGO (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) wy, You may be ambivalent about an intimate matter. Get in touch with family at a distance, make travel plans. Act on principles, LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct, 22) fi Dwelling on the limitations of others can only lead to friction. Be protective of close ties. Secure credit for property improvement. SCOKPIO (Oct, 23 to Nov. 21) Mee Don’t let distractions in- terfere with work efficiency. Talks with close ties produce harmony and add to con- fidence. Take the initiative. SAGITTARIUS of (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21) Those who are willing to bring work home with them will get the edge on com- petition. After a slow start, you'll make progress, - CAPRICORN (Dec, .22 to Jan. 19)- MS Family’ member's demand attention. Reassure them before setting off on your own. Romance should prove special. a2 G8 AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) ** Delays or complications re travel possible. The evening favors entertaining at home, Friends are helpful career- wise. Accent harmony. PISCES +4 (Feb. 19 to Mar. 20) Concern about finances dampens your morning outlook, Later, a talk with a close tie lifts your spirits, Leeal visits are favored. YOU BORN TODAY have natural creative gifts and can succeed as a writer, painter, lecturer or teacher, Your talent for oratory makes you aneffective spokesman for the causes you espouse. 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