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If you think that X equals 0, it rill equal O throughout the puzzle. Single letters, short words, amd words using an apostrophe can give you clues to locating vowels, Solution is accomplished by trial and error. DEAR ABBY: Recently you said in your column that . you don’t recommend withholding sex from a mate, so of course, my husband waved the paper in my face. Abby, we have six children. We would have had 10, but two.were stillborn, and I had two miscarriages, Each pregnancy was very hard on me, yet my husband refuses to usa any kind-of birth control, and-he won't'let me use anything. But that doesn’t stop Kim’ from wanting sez. After ray last, pregnancy; I wanted eo much to have my tube a fed but my husband wouldn't let me “do that” to myself, -, oo. ._ Tm only 31 and he's 393. Can you imagine how many more kids 1 could have? I’m so worn out with these six kids, and T honestly don’t want any more, so I finally told 3 my husband that from now on he can just stay away from | me. Now he’s mean and surly, but I don’t care. What else can I do? - : TIRED DEAR TIRED: Ask your doctor or clergyman to try to talk some sense into your husband’s head. In view of your medical history, come kind of birth control (or sterilization for you—or him) should be considered. You are bath too . young to deny yourselves sex until menopause makes ’ reproduction impossible... i DEAR ABBY: Re the woman whose husband gave her the silent treatment: Here's what-I did when my husband pulled thaton me. © 2) - ; alent it for one week, then I decided that if he wouldn't DEAR ABBY: I am a 21-year-old female college senior, talk to me, I would get on the phone an to someone The week of graduation, Lam giving a party for my friends Who would. I didn't bother with local calls; instead, I and instructors in my parents’ home. (I live at home.) Iam telephoned friends and relatives in Texas, Oklahoma, going to serve food and plenty of beer to about 80 guests at Arkansas and Indiana. And I didn’t watch the clock either; my parents’ expense. some of my conversations fasted an hour. I caught up with My oblem: How does one tactfully tell her parents all fe dwe and had a ball. never once hinted that my whats Tile # , usband wasn’t speaking to me. oo, whan it's time for them to excuse themselves and go Needleseto gaya sootras my husband got the telephone Be whe eT OPOOT ODL E Pap "open until 10 p.m, Friday and Saturday " KE LSE PHONE 635.7977, ; ° 4736 LA $2 ALTE 0s TE VS CATFISH RIDE TO BATILE, iY YOUNG BRAVES ww AND, WHILE YOURE AT IT BRING NE BACK SOME PiZZA AND BEER! By Abigail Van Buren © t8TBby Chicago TribuneN.¥, News Synd. Inc, out PAS ARAN "A Neen, Ofer haere a Ce eae cone onda and reachers but Tm teen bill, the silence was broken. No way could he refuse to pay DOONESBURY my guests will be inhibited if my parents hang around all it or have the phone disconnected, because the telephone : evening. Thank you. waa in the name of his company, (WELL, DUKE, IF YEAH, HOW A KDE DISCOVERED 4 oo PARTY GIRL ‘_ | told him why I had made all those calla, and that was WE CANT DRAFT, ABUT ‘LAV~- Hope, SLINGING COCONUTS a the last time he gave me the silent treatment, WE MIGHTASWELL LAVAN LENNY? 1 | gun DURING Ht TENURE DEAR P ARTY GIRL: u there is a “eaetful” way to 9 tell FOUND ACURE IN ALBANY, , ORE. . “a oN NT onq's parents to get loa € DEAR FOUND: I wouldn't recommend that “cure” for FOUR FR THE LIONS. 4, footing | i the bil fo erty oe yeu abet ih everyone. More than silence could .be broken in some parents around, that’s thcir problem. Of course, if your 1O"% my eo) read this, you'll have no problem. (And possibly no DEAR ABBY: A guy at school likes me, but I don’t like , ny: ; him. There’s nothing wrong with him—he's just not my “4 type, He calls me for dates months ahéad, knowing IE DEAR ABBY: I am desperate. After 15 years of a very coud n't po ssibly have a date for that night. What should I stormy y offagein onagain 1 marriage, a eo atone ie " TET say I'ma busy on Friday night, he asks me for the next ' the:middla of a heated argument, I told him that his Friday night, and the next, and the next, and so on, lovdmaking did nothing for me ~I had only been putting on Thats to hur t his feelings, but Thate going out with him an act. It wasn’t even the truth. Knowing how proud he is even more, Piensa help me. * SOPTHEARTED of his masculinity, I anid it because I knew it would hurt _ . him. I never realized it wo art: ao much that it T. would destroy all his feeling for me. He hasn't kissed me or eri goer: Do him a FA a Magiltiegs” yen touched me Since that terrible argument, and now he says don’t qualify. It's not ag unkind as it. counds. At least . . "Abby, Tl do anything in the world to got my husband YoUrS turning him loose to ask someone who might be ' back. Idon't want a divorce, Please, please tell me what to , "+. , °- “RAZOR SHARP-TONGUE 1 te DEAR TONGUE: . Unless you an convince YOUF pin 890. usban r in anger an ‘t mean it ini ‘ H] faijeiere may be wo way you can got your husband hack, —20ing to th National Beskatbt Aeeacaio, eh if Thismay not help you much, but it may aerve to let othera 4, tos Cri BLA ta Hawks}, Foote Walker (Cl ty bad 4 know that one seldom regrets unspoken words. _ Unaries Urise (Avan WKB), 200 OF Wieve. it ee tg _ : Cavaliers), Calvin Murphy tHouston Rockets), Robert j oh Te Pte ' ’ Smith (Denver Nuggets) and Kevin Porter (New Jersey f ce ce a “DEAR ABBY: Do you think a grandparent should ever Nets). i oun a grandchild? What is a grandparent to do when - IM FOLEY (HOUSTON ROCKETS) hi grandchildren, ages 3 and 5, are visiting and both want'to : 4 = sit on the game chair? Or both want to play with the game toy?,-The ‘cider one appears to take advantage of the fl: ounger oné. I havé tried to teach them to share and be "| ie kindto each other, but it-doasn’t seem to mean anything to Spanking always worked with my childreri, but my son, who-is the father of these scrapping youngsters, insists ‘childr id‘ be “talked” to and made to obey bs e : echt eam eeel on them. ‘These two don't appear to FORGIVE,” instead of OBEY." 1 think forgiveness is far, be véry wall behaved to me. I still think a couple of whacks more important to a marrisge than obedience. o (i Ses ; -would straighten them out fast. What do you think? . ; toe ” q re uf ae Y GRANDPARENT p, you wish you had ‘rhove friends? For the secret of i ‘Who do you think's gonna drink that?” DEAR ABBY: Please tell Lance R. in Belvedere, 3.C., whose father bet him that there were no professional basketball players under 6 feet tall, that his father owes Are your problema too heavy to handle alone? Let Abby help ion Fora pereonal, inpublished rep , write: Abby: Box 69700, Loe Augeles, Calif. 90069.'‘Enclose a atamped, | self-addressed envelope, yes ‘CONFIDENTIAL TO “TRYING HARD" IN DENVER: Try harder. If I could recommend a‘revigion of the marriage vowa, I would suggest, “LOVE, HONOR AND pularity, get Abby's new booklet: “How To Be Popular; “Take, one of these with water half-an-hour before BAR GRANDPARENT: When you hit a child, you . } ‘au're Never Too Young’ or Too Old.” Sond $1 with p long, . " i teach :him: violence. There are better ways to discipline self-addressed, stamped (24 centa) envelope to Abby, ik you wake up every monting, a children. | Laaky Drive, Beverly Hills, Calif. 00212, | ¢ ‘ ae wh ~ paca eae 4 Eat ore - ih ncbaces Lo ral ‘. - a “=,