TERRACE HERALD, TERRACE, B.C. Weds, Oetobier 730, 1968 el a aramllet Ask Ann Landers ©. should daughter maintain silence - on mom’s. affair? DEAR ANN LANDERS; Hecently you counseled a teen ager to Keep quiet about her mother’s affair, although she, knew the cheating had been going on for months, *- When I was a teen-ager my mother was ‘earrying on a tor. rid.romance with one of Father's close friends, My sister knew: it but she didn’t tell Father, Whenit came out in court, Father read my sister out of his will and he never spoke to her. again, . Now I am ina similar situation, I believe my wife is have - ing an affatr and I think our daughter Knows about ft, I am wait ing for solid proof and when I get it I will expose the whole rot- ten mess in court and my daughter will get the game treatment, from me that my sister got from Dad, The law calls these people accomplices to the crime, If children know adultery is being committed by one of their par- ents they have a moral and legal obligationte inform the wrong- ed party, .Why don’t you live up to your. responsibilities and tell them so? — TWICE BURNT. HEAR BURNT: ' Because it’s not-true, State laws vary, In llinois adultery is no longer considered a crime. unless it is “open and notorious" — which meéana like at State and Madison. Thore is no legal obligation onthe part ofa child to inform a parent that a spouse is cheating, Furthermore, knowledge * does not make a person anaccomplice, The child can be ordar- ed to testify in some states, In other states the ruling that a man or a wife need not testify against a spouse extends to par-— ents and children, ‘ Above and beyond the legalities, I view somethingfar more significant. A parent who would drag a child through the filth that a court fight of this type usually produces {s shamefully Punltive and unspeakably ruthless. ° DEAR ANN LANDERS; Kelly and I have been married a year, We get along great except for one thing, Kelly haa 4 heavy beard and if we go out at night he needs another shave, Whenever I ask him to shave a second time he gets mad and says he wouldn't shave twice a day for the Queen of England, Please tell me what todo, — MRS, FIVE O‘CLOCK SHADOW DEAR MRS, FIVE: Tell Kelly the Queen of England doesn’t care how he looke but. you do. On special occasions it won't Kill him to shave twice, On not-so-spectaloceasions he can use talcum m powder, ‘was the glare ‘of sun, swim-.. - gre back in session, you “and” ‘early riaing, and’ probably. too.’ ‘many late, late shows. -- Visine eye drops are some do's: of and don'ts for protecting your ‘|. family's eyes, to help make. "at, the sun because the intens- ‘ity of ita rays can cause perm- anent damage. ; Lyte! Fashion Foci Ses: On Eye es oe ; This | is ‘the time: of year. when eyes have taken. d bad), beating... Even | if. you. «got “This really rests eyes fast. - enough rest and:sleep, there _* Relieve. redness; and. annoy- ing {rritation: fn: senaitive :orba -with décongestant. eye drops that soothe. eyes quickly, The ‘comforting’ ‘lotion, . Visine, is packaged: in-a portable ‘plastic: -bottle: with. built-in. dropper ming pools loaded with chlor- : ine, wind and duat, the atrain of driving. Now that ‘schools - your. family will no doubt fol-. low.a pattam of laté hours and partnient. Here ‘from the makers of | it can’ cause serious scratching sure eyes remain’ healthy,” bright and clear, ‘Glare is highly: “Gnritating. + & Outdoors, protect eyes from ex cessive light with sunglasses, If any member of the family weara glasses regularly, he sure they are correctly. fitted prescription lenses, Even with’ sunglasses, never look directly gentle: products for this} pur- pose designed ‘to make rubbing _Untiecessary. ‘A rinse-off cold cream tissues off even stub- washes it and other cosmetics off with plain water. TERRACE & LAUNDRY-CLEANERSS and MEN’S WEAR §& LTD, © *Modern laundry f and drycleaning equipment. _—- . *Domestic and | Commercial . laundry service © *1-Day service when requested Indoors make sure that read- ing is done in well-lit areas that are free from glaze. Never work near a naked light ‘bulb, or use low-wattage bulbs in reading and working areas. Don’t ever sit in total dark- ness when watching television. To prevent eye strain, there should be one or more addi- tional light sources in the room when a set Is on, While driving. or duing close work, relax eye muscles he- cause they can get cramped like leg muscles. Blink occa- 4 LOOKING ‘AHEAD TO CHRISTMAS by collecting new toys for underprivileged children are Kinettes Edith Gieselman and Jan Condon with junior helpers Laura Condon and Todd Gieselman, The Kinettes will work with Terrace Church groups and welfare agencies to find the youngsters who are in need at Christmastime. See story below. Kinettes collect toys for needy. youngsters Do we have a heart at Christmas time? : Does Terraace have a heart ‘at Christmastime? i * That*s the question asked by ‘some 20 lady-type Sania Clauses, They are the Kinettes, wives ‘of Kinsmen. {has gad Barth Rouge” ‘as;ctheytresgolne: to-collect:tays and give therm to youngsters “to whom Christmas is just a cold time of the year. ; ‘Kinettes, headed by a trio of -Edith Gieselman, Jan Condonand Gwen Leary, are asking people to give a toy for a child. The Kinettes have already been in touch with church and wel- ‘fare groups to find out the need for such a project. “It's a very real need,” Edith Gieselman sald, groups do distribute food ham- ‘pers, nobody gives toys.” “Already the list of children we have is fantastic.”” The Kinettes, incideritally, are not collecting’ old toys to be repaired, They want new: toys, but they don’t want super-iuper expensive gifts, “While some | : The idea of course is that when toys are givento a family, one youngster doesn’t outdo the others, The Kinettes are naturally a bit apprehensive at directing a charity appeal in Terrace,,While : dp" appeal, Se ees near Punt, Christnias seals ete. during the year, this is the first major ap- peal for a charity right here in Terrace, ‘We're really not sure how it will go over,’’ Edith Gieselman Herald Women’s NEED FRESH AIR | When using cleaning solvents windows should be kept open to prevent poisoning or a fire, Cariboo artist shown “But everyone we have spok- en to thinks it is a terrific idea.” ‘Were hoping particularly that people who don’t have any- one to buy gifts for might want to. buy’a gift for.a, needy child," " she added: ‘ _ Kinettes will maintain collec- Yon booths for toys at the four USED FOR PROPAGANDA LEIPZIG, Germany (AP) — In Cold Blood, by Truman Ca- pote, is being offered to East German readers at this year’s Leipzig fair. The promotional | material calls the two murder- ers “bests in blue jeans, pro« duced by a socfety in which murder is employed as a politi- i Weapon and crime is grow- MUSIC A HIT ROME (AP) —TItalian sec- ondary school students like music ‘so much it might as well be. compulsory, the education ministry has decided, It acted on the basis of an 84per-cent turnout since music was intro- duced as an optional course sev- eral years ago, ONE BAD TURN CANTON, Mass, (AP) ~ A woman payroll messenger halt- ed her car at a detour sign. major local shopping outlets, Terrace Shopping Centre, Sup- er-Valu centre, Lazelle Centre and the Co-op, Collection of toys wile start- ed November 15. It's the first major: project for the Kinettes, and. th first time in locat hi ry that a campaign to bring ‘new toys to youngsters from families short of cash at Christmastime, LAFF A. -DAY. “Ain't this the way it always is? 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