She Turns Eight - Into a Boresome By Abigail Van Buren o* 1978 by Chicago Tribune-¥.¥. Naws Synd. (na. DEAR ABBY: 1 belong toa weekly card club consisting of eight Intelligent, interesting women. While playing cards we concentrate on the game, but when we sit down to eat, one lady in the group always monopolizes the conversation with long, drawn-out stores about herself, her children, her opinions, her this and’her that, etc. I see the other women in the group, all waiting for a chance to talk, but “Mrs, Motor Mouth" never gives anyone else a chance to say a word. © There is one in every ladies club I've ever belonged to. What is the matter with such a person? ‘ PITTSBURGH DEAR PITTSBURGH: The person who comes inte a group and hogs all the conversation is ao less a pig than the one who comes to the table and eats all the food. Such pigs should be rationed. And until semeone in your club tells “Mra. Motor Mouth” to idle her motor, prepare to bea frustrated, captive audience. It's in the cards. DEAR ABBY: Please print this in your column without mentioning my city or state since this problem is one I have turned over in my mind so many times I can't think clearly anymore. Perhaps your objectivity can help, A gentleman and I attended the same social occasion not long ago but, unfortunately, we were not introduced at the time. : 1 have been following his career quietly sinca then, and found that we have much in comman-—neither one of us has ever been married, and although he is quile a bit older than I, wa share the same religion, ethnic background, educa- tional level, hobby (gardening) and long-time interest in government and business. We bath hoid respected and responsible positions, but live and work miles apart. The dilemma: Since [ don't know a mutual friend who _ could make the introduction, how ean I express my.admira- tion and interest in this man without appearing tasteless or forward? . , UNHERALDED ADMIRER DEAR ADMIRER: For openers, write him a friertdly, dignified, brief letter, mentioning the “social occasion" you both attended so he won't think you're some kook coming , out of left field. Then ask for his opinion (or advice} concern- ing one of the many areas of mutual interest. If your letter is sufficiently impressive, it could open the door. (P.S, Encloae a stanaped, scli-addressed envelope. It's not only thoughtful, it will increase your chances for a reply. DEAR ABBY: My big sister is getting married and there . is a rule at our church against throwing rice al weddings. They want: people to throw BIRDSEBD. at:the bride and groom instead. . I think that's a dumb idea. What do you think? LITTLE SISTER DEAR SISTER: I think the idea is for the birds, (The birds can eat the seed afterwards, The rice would be wasted.) DEAR ABBY: Having been a tennis player all my life, winning three national championships alang the way, I feel qualified to explain why only white is worn on the tennis courts. ae. Tennis originated in England, and was played by those of high social standing on their back lawns. They wore all. white tennis attire which was adopted as the official color. However, my reason for wearing white for tennis is to avoid embarrassment, 1 come off the court soaking wet. Pastels are bad enough when wel, but imagine how disgusting dark colors would look! It’s healthy to perspire, but we don’t nced to advertise it! - OLD TIMER IN L.A. : Your Individual | Horoscope Frances Drake ARIES (Mar. 21 to Apr. VS Be careful of overin- dulgence at an office party. The holiday spirit has you in the mood for travel. Consult with loved ones re same. TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) Oa” You're in the mood for good times but may lack discrimination in your cholce of companions. Double check business proposals, GEMINI ne (May 21 to June 20) ‘ You could overspend re a glanned entertainment. Romance is highlighted, but be sure to follow through on commitments. Be sincere, CANCER (dune 21 ta July 2) @&—9 Den’t take a loved one for granted, Careless speech could, srouse false hopes. A hunch re work pays off if - you're willing to work over.. time. (July 23 to Aug. ny REE You could be careless witk money now. Romance is favored, but don't put off work that, needs to be completed. Share thoughts. VIRGO ; (Aug. 23 to Sept, 22) ws You're inclined to over- ' spend on presents for loved ones. Make home the place - you dreamed of. Add decorative touches or other improvements. LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 22) 2.88 | Don't leave all the work for loved ones, -Do your part ‘around the house. Laziness makes you content .to let aie slide. Write letters. (Oct, 23 lo Nov. 21) mae Friends are exuberant but may promise more than they can deliver. Do the proper research re investment schemes. Get appraisals re valuables. SAGITTARIUS of it (Nov. 22 to Dec. 21) A business associate is in a good mood, but be skeptical re promises. Protect assets. Dress appropriately for a social] occasion. CAPRICORN to (Dec. 22 to Jan, 19) VW Sentiment could lead you to make an unnecessary trip. Make certain that words of love sent your way are sin- cere. Rely on intuition, AQUARIUS ay (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) If you borrow something, make sure that you take care of it. A social occasion is promising, but keep hopes within reasonable bounds. PISCES ne (Feb, 19 to Mar, 20) You'll receive support from higher-ups re a business . hunch. Clase ones may have good intentions but may not live up to expectations. 1? 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