4 ® : 8 a meth e - oe _— - ta i 13, The Hered, Mondiny, itay 14, 1979 ' ——— i PEE & 1970 by Chickgo Tibunt-N.¥. Nous Bynd. Inc, . DEAR ABBY: My husband is 72 and retired, but he's mak- » Ing a career of making my ilfe miserable. He used to be quite © _ the man about town. E apent many lonely evenings wonder. ing where he was and when he'd come hanie, Mow, I can't get him out.of the house. [ actually have to | dook for things for him to do: ’Go to the grocery store! Go to to the drugatore! Go to the hardware store!” -’ f ean hardly stand the slight of him! My stomach turns over when [ hear his key in the door. . ‘ After he reada the morning paper, he follows me around aupervielng the cooking and housekeeping. wate - have serv By Abigail Van. Buren] : oe as DEAR ABBY: | was invited to the home of'a’ married couple for dinner so I brought my hostess a bottle of expan” sive French wine. ; She thanked me for it, Chen promplly pul it away. Inateac of serving my lovely wine with dinner, sh@ served a domestle wine. I thought that waa tacky. I was also very disappointed because, enjoying fine wines as‘I do, I had looked forward to having some of the wine I had brought. _ According to the rules of etiquette shoulda't my hostess ry wine? . STATEN ISLANDER : DEAR ISLANDES: No. And don't aseune that because a wine ls expensive aad French, it is supérior to a less costly: dameatic wise, It ain't necessarily so, oxy impartial wine DEAR ABBY: I recently tearned that our 22-year-old son in college Is the father of a child who was.given away for “adoption last year. Our son did not confide in us. E found this out quite hy accident. . . My husband and I have always looked forward to our first andehiid and I am sick with gelef to think that somewhere in this world [ have a grandchild whom I will never know. I haven't been able to bring mysell to tell my husband. M: question: Do I have the right to keep this from him? It’s Hl grandchild, teo. ; . GRIEVING GRANNY DEAR GRANNY: Ne good can come from te your hesband. Your grendchild [a now somebody else's child and child as well. Be kind and allent. And don’t dwell on it. t Is the cancer of life. CONFIDENTIAL TO SOLLY iN THE WINDY CITY: You'va got « “galt” complex. Den't assume that every woman who chews an interest in you is after your money — unless, of courses, that’s all you have to offer, fo accomplish mich behind- the-scenes, A private romantic meting goes well. GEM’ * 7 en (Rféy"21 to June 20) _ partnership matters are highligh: tending a party together proves fun and you're also able to coma up with a solution to a domestic CANCER (June 21 to Joly 22) SED Relations with co-workers and superiors are beth congenial and productive, Friends are helpful and serious Atime to act on your feelings. Communications with loved oes are favored. You seem sure of know how to please others. presen Soir rer en ene SCORPIO” ** (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21) MA -at work Increases cuitput. Financial affairs are or the upawing. A mate or close ally comes up with a _ good suggestion. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 to Dec, 21) gh Both work and play are favored, Superlora . are tive to your suggestions ’ and loved ones are impressed Tt a Indy friend of mine ecomea over for a cup of tea, he ‘ ‘ horna in and monopolizes the conversation. Dear God, Jam #0 alk of him, death would be a weleome release! . AGING IN INDIANA DEAR AGING: Yours or his? The quality of amarriage i ; mo ; “only an geed as the materials vaed hy the hulldere, The ‘Lf. you put off writing letters becaues you doen't know what : “fam ber of life” fs , tharing, patience, fergivances and | te cay, get-Abby's beoklet, “How to Write Letters for all las as kalvcestenlstad caly oneuge uber addressed enuslepe te Abbyr Lil Locuy. 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