GivingIntoBoy Didn't Hold Him, By Abigail Van Buren © 1076 by Chicago Tribune-N.Y. Naws Synd. He. DEAR ABBY: I am a 17-year-old-girl who has been in love with a guy Ill call Douny since last summer. He broke up with me because he said I wouldn't let him go out with the boys as often as he wanted to. Igave in to him a lot, but I was one of the lucky ones who didn't get pregnant. Donny would come and get me, and after he got what he wanted, he'd bring me home and take off to be ‘with his frianda: Abby, I never said no to him becatise Iloved him a lot and still do, but he always waa in a hurry to get away from me. He treats me just great when we're together, but when I'm up to his house with his sister, he ignores me. I want to know what Donny really thinke of me, but ha won't commi himeolf. [have told him I loved him several times, but he’: never told me that, How can I get Donny back, Abby? NO NAME, PLEASE DEAR NO NAME: I don't think you can get Donny “back” because you never really Aad him—for any longer than it took him to “get what he wanted” before g off. He used you, dear. Now, be a wise girl and make up your mind to forget him. And never let another boy use you sgain—or you can expect one rejection after another. : DEAR ABBY: Recently our daughter was married to a young Californian, His parents came for the wedding and stayed at our home. As Is the custom, the groom's father hosted a dinner party the eva before the wedding. But being unfamiliar with Milwaukee restaurants, he asked us to make the dinner reservations for him, so we selected a famous German restaurant. When the check was presented to the host, we were embarrassed to find that the \.aitress had added a $26 “tip” for herself. When we questioned the practice, she said it was customary for parties of more than 10 people. Tt was avery awkward situation for all of us, and we felt especially embarrassed because we had made the reservation. _ _ Have you (or anyone else) ever heard of such a custom? , BRIDE'S PARENTS DEAR PARENTS: Some.clubs, hotels and restaurantes routinely add “gratuities” to the bill for special services (group dinners, etc.). But when a waltresa epecified her tip on her own, I would ask for the management’e confirmation—and schnell! DEAR ABBY: I am married and the mother of six. My problem is dogs—seven of them| I like dogs, but not | enough to let-seven of them live in the same house with Tecan't keep iny:foors clean, and: company: will not come to my house because the dog odors are 50 strong. Abby, those doge even get up on my beds, I am just about nuts from those dogs, but my husband won't ¢ rate. . What ‘should I do? DOG PROBLEM DEAR PROBLEM: You have sa HUSBAND problem— { not a DOG problem. Even a dirty dog deserves a decent place to live, whether it's inside or out, but seven dogs sounds like six too many to me. Set up a how!l! CONFIDENTIAL TO L. 8. IN BRENTWOOD. I don't know whether they don't want to quit smoking or can't, but three people whose smoking ere me the moat are Johnny Carson, Jerry Lewis and Sammy Davis Jr. Why? Because they are among the most talented entertainers of ur time. I would Hke to see them around for a long, long time—and smoking reduces their chances. 4 Ht you put off writing letters because you don't know what to say, get Abby's booklet, “How to Write Letters ; For All Occasions,” Send 81 and a long, atamped [25 cents) gnvelope te Abby: 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hills, Calif. Clothing Care Azzrar! 4 ~ Clothing Care Requires Know-How You can learn something by using the wrong method. about removing stains on For example, some inks can ‘ glothes from professional be remaved with water, but cleaners. Removing stains is water actually sets some a acience for them, and they ball-point pen ink. When call on. special techniques you are ‘unsure what and equipment to deal with different types of stains. You can apply some of their techniques to remove stains from your clothes at hame. . Professional cleanets still buses their cleaning | pro- cedures on whether a stain. . will dissolve In a dryclean- ing, fluid or in water and detergent. The International Fabricare Institute (IF), an assoc!- method to use have 4 pro- ation of about 10,000 pro- fessional cleaner remove the . feasional drycleaners and stain. taunderets, recommeel’ The home method works two different epot-remaving best on _tabile that isn’t agents for the two different fragile or highly sized. Satins, types of stalns when you try furs, suede and vinyl all removing spots from clothes require professional care. at home. Check care labels. Although ~ Boap and water is best for labels don't glve spot fe- ; ataing that dissolve in water, moval information, they can | . including stuina from most give you clues. Don't . use : foods and dtinks, grass, cleaning fluid on clothing x urine and washable Inks. labeled “Do Not Dryclean.” FW Cleaning fluids and pow- Be careful about using water us dors work best on oily, on clothes labeled “Dry- ly greasy or waxy stains clean Only.” \ -. including makeup, pbail- Whether you attempt to i point pen ink and printing remove the stain yourself or inks, carbon paper, cooking entrust the job to a profes- ail and grease, candle wax, sional cleaner, act quickly. - “] crayons and galad oil, Both Stains are harder to remove . Nquid .and powdered spot the longer they have set. Rs removers contain dryclean- Stains take time to remove ‘és ing solvents. In the pow- though, eo be patient and dered spot removers, sol- work the stains out alowly vents draw the stain from whon attempting home Hi] _the fabric so the powder can cleaning methods, If you a ‘absorb the atain. have any doubt about the : ‘If you're not sure whether best way to remove a apo, S the ‘stain will dissolve in don’t take a chance on ruin- water or in cleaning fluid, ing your clothing...ask your you may damage the fabrie professional cleaner. - eo . me. Ican't get husband. to' put ‘thom outside. (4°70 Your Individual Horoscope Frances Drake FOR THURSDAY, - AUGUST 17, 1978: What kind of day will tomorrow be? To find out what the stars say, read the forecast given for your birth ARIES (Mar. 21 to Apr. 0) eR Avoldovertaxing yourself — a tendency now. Temper your ambitions and desires with common sense, TAURUS (Apr. 21 to May 21) Gc - A good day for looking into unusual offers — but with a watchful eye, Especially favored: legal matters, travel, cultural pursults. GEMINI (May 22 to June 21) You know what you want now, 50 keep after it. Brook interference from no one and insist on the privacy you need to carry out your plans. CANCER (June 22 to July 2) ED * A bit of newa recelved could have a happy impact on your finances; may concern a sound but long-range in- vestment proposition. LEO - (Tuly 24 to Aug, 23)UQ40n8 Get important matters out of the way by noon, if possible. Certain planetary restrictions in the p.m. could bring about delays, unexpected = I[n- terruptions. VIRGO. (Aug; 24 to Sept. 09) 1 Precautions and prudence must be your keywords now. Be especially careful in business transactions, ex- perimentation and personal relationships. LIBRA (Sept. 24 to Oct. 05) fd & Stellar influences excellent! - RPIO (Oct. 24 to Nov. 22) Terk New opportunities indicated . in many fields -- but especially where monetary interests are concerned. A splendid time for con- Solidating your position in this respect, SAGITTARIUS. Pe (Nov. 23 to Dec, 21) Den't discuss financial or domestic problems with friends or associates. situations are best kept ‘In the family" — especially now. . CAPRICORN (Dec, 22 to Jan. 20) VS ei. Indifference could spoil what should otherwise be a good day. Good opportunities available, but you'll have to - geek them out. They won't be left on your doorstep. AQUARIUS (Jan, 21 to Feb, 19) % With your keenness for detecting flaws and your good humor, you can solve prac- tically all of the ‘little’ quandaries waiting to trip the PISCES (Feb. 20 to Mar. 20) Planetary influences en- courage both long-pending and new ventured. Your Innate intuition and forealght should be especially keen now. 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