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Solution is accomplished by trial and errar. © == ee reece: bE ena i ad Deon Abby, Let Your Guests a Decide the Gift By Abigail Van Buren @ 1978 by Chicago Tribune-N.¥. Nawa Synd. ine. DEAR ABBY: An olderly woman signed HAD MY SAY resented being addressed by her firat name by doctars and their nurses. (She said it was rude and demeaning.) You defended the practice saying it is not intended as an insult or a-put-down, but is considered “friendlier” than the more formal “Miss, Mrs. or Mr.” , ’ co Idisagree. [was brought up differently, and I cannot get used to hearing a secretary, receptionist or salesperson call me anything but “Madam” or Mra, —--—=," y Imow my gurname. Boing called “Honey” or “Dearle” by salespeople is aleo irritating. Familiarity breeda contempt, and I shan’t go back to a place where firstname basis is polley. * _ Thank you for lending me your ear. This problem has bothered "me ever since [ came to America. And my children. have ‘never been allowed to call my friends by their firat names either! . - FROM ENGLAND DEAR FROM: Although Long Beach is « long reach from England, read on for a reader who shares your view: DEAR ABBY: To HAD MY SAY, who resents being called by her firet name,.I say, “Right on!” And {t’a not a - question of age. It's undue. familiarity, demeaning and srespectful, ce I know a woman who handled {t this way: firat visit to a doctor she had never seen betore, he asked, “Mary, does this hurt?” - ot She replied, “Yes, Jack.” ; fey After that he called her “Mrs, Smith.” ; 5 OLYMPIA; WASH. BEAR ABBY: Now that HAD MY SAY has had her say _about people who call her by her first name, we'd like to have OUR say on the subject. We-are all residents of the Fountain Convalescent Hospital in Orange, Calif., and we think surnames are too formal, We prefer to be called by our you: . ' a - BDITH, JESSIE, LYNDEN AND DASEY DEAR ABBY: How do you tell a husband to SHUT UP? After 40 years of marriage, [have heard everything he has to say at least 16,000 times. I know all his war stories by heart, also hia “raised-on-a-farm” routine, and his cures for all the ills of the world. [have hed it up to here with his loud, long-winded monologues on . politics, religion, business—you name it; he's an authority on the subject,. He demands absolute silenca when he's wa’ a game on television, but he thinks nothing of turning the set, off in the middle of something J’ watching If he wante to say some . . We have Jost. most of our friends because of ‘his know-it-all attitude. Who wants to be around someone who tala all the time and never Listens? I’ve listened to him for ears and I'm sick of lt. - ve read your column for years. So has my husband. He loves your humor, Maybe with humor you can offer a solution to my problem. Thanks for trying: And please - demeanor “wart” have time “ —— es Your Individual — Horoscope —————-— Frances Drake _— FOR FRIDAY, APRIL 21, 1978 ™ What kind of day will tamorrow be? To find out what the stars say, fead the forecast given for your birth Sign. SCORPIO (Oct. 24 to Nov. 22) Me No matter what activities you . planned for this day, you may ‘have to mark time until others pace. TAURUS if not alert. GEMINI a (May 2 to June 21) a Be on guard now. There are situations and people who would detour you from your proper route, This is the type of day that sends daydreamers off on unprofitable ‘tangents. CANCER .. (June 22 to July 23) ec Day .may seem Un- manageable but, with calm and ‘efforts com menaurate with obligations, this diamond-inthe-rough period can be polished beautifully. (ly 24 wo Aug 20) IDE may seem odd: but, with a double-check, you will find those from due authority quite rewarding. Don’t waste good effort trying to hit a poor target. VIRGO olan pte mY, me contention about: YOU can he a stabilizer so, with your best logic, do your best to restore harmony. LIBRA (Sept. 24 to Oct, 23) Ab Some intrigue about, Don't become involved. Concentrate on your own objectives and you ge fo" get’) into ‘dublous activities. are ready. But don’t fret; use the time for reevaluating. SAGITTARIUS wf, st (Nov, 23 to Dee, 21) ™ Go about your affairs with zeal and confidence since there is little Hkelihood of difficulty. Be guided by past experience, however. CAPRICORN ‘ (Dee. 22 to Jan. 20) What’ A relatively smooth period — once you get the gist of trends and goahead at a steady tempo.. Personal relationships highly AQUARI S| . AQUARIU oe (Jan, 21 to Feb. 19) ae ¢ A splendid day for in- novations and experimentation. Don’t hesitate ta pioneer in new fields, and with new methods. PISCES - . ‘ (Feb. 24 to Mar. 20) Ifa financial transaction is up for consideration, and you entertain even the slightest doubt, better postpone action. | There COULD be something to those hunches of yours. TE toa Lt rvice. ELTA ETL OES TENEDS: [sy caas LAKELSE PHARMACY Giftware, Easter Candy, Cards and prompt THE HERALD, Thursday, April 20, 1978, PAGE 10 635-726 tds bh iG Ns NE MeMikes s 4736. CATFISH TEAKS ...n Open until 10 p.m. Friday and Saturday PHONE 635-7977 $2.29 1 YOU BORN TODAY are a foree: sensitive, dividual; endowed with a great love of beauty and marked . manual dexterity. Benevolent toward your fellowmen, you often bepame’ physicians, -§ nurses 4nd workers In humanitarian causes. You also have a deep love for family and home; are a traditionalist at heart and extremely proud of your heritage. The arts appeal to you and, properly trained, you could make a great success as a writer, designer, interior decorator’ pr painter. Other: fields suited to your talents: | - teaching, horticulture, dancing, lecturing. Traits to curb: ob atinacy and a tendency to be dogmatic, Birthdate of: Queen Blizabeth IT, of England; H. A. Taine, French critic, historian; - Charlotte Bronte, Eng. novelist. @* uon't sind any letters to the house. My husband doesn’t believe in privacy—except:for himself. _ DEAR HAD FT. kt will take more than “humor” to solve a problem that’s been improve on ailing marricg building for 40 years. Obviously, to ige both parties must be willing to © imaginative in- f HaDiT ff During ‘her thon first names. Thank . ee ee ee try. Professional counseling might help. If your husband refuses to cooperate, you can either split, or “hear the ills you have, rather than fly to others that 'you know not of.” DEAR ABBY: Just a note to \protest your approval of giving gifts in someone else's name: If someone were: to give Reverend Moon (remember the “Moonies"?) so much as a toothpick in my name, his house. | imagine you have a pile of letters on your desk’ co this subjact, so if any of them agree with me (and most should), I'd appreciate it if you would publish a APE. MADISON, SD. . DEAR A.P.E, Some readers-agree with you, but you're - house of the only one who threatened to blow up the anyone who gave an unauthorized gift in your name. DEAR ABBY: A comment to BITING MY TONGUE, the wife of the man who tella co-workers that he owns hia own home, when in fact he ie only renting it. Ownership of property is a matter of public record, All ane needs to know is the address of the property and it can be looked up in the county assessor's book, Other pertinent information, such'as when the Property was how much was paid for it, the owner's mailing how much it is taxed.ie also available. - _ Wfthe man who faleely claims to own his own home has a job that calls for in-depth investigation of his character and asseta, he is in deep trouble. For obvious reasons, lying about such a matter implica a lack of integrity. So please tell his wife to stop biting her to 0 she can open her mouth and tell her husband what he’s toying W. e dress, and DEAR SECRETARY: Thanks for the helpful inform | DEAR ABBY: Do you think a refrigerator is a good place to keep money stored? My husband keeps all our savings in our refrigerator, and whon I think of all the ’ interest we're missing out on, it’s very upsetting to me. vings rummage sole, the proceeds o: ce him to open a sa account, because he'll only say he wants his money whera he can get it in a hurry. ; _Any suggestione you have will be greatly appreciated, ; ; ' WORRIED DEAR WORRIED: A refrigerator ip a poor place to Don't tell me to try to convin store one’s savinge—whether it’s hot money or cold cash. Aside from the interest you're losing, you risk being robbed. Tell that lunkhead you're married to to do himsell a favor and put at least part of it into a savings account! DEAR ABBY: When I got home from work last evening, my wife said to me, “Rory (our 16-year-old son) sasse me back so Tam giving him the cold, ailent treatment, and | want you todo the same.” - Abby; [told her that I was not going to go along with bali that kind of stuff—that if the boy sassed her back, it was HER problem, He never sasses ME BACK. ; The wife got mad and now she's giving ME the eilent treatment, too, Was I wrorg, or was she? | ' _ ATLANTA QUERY DEAR ATLANTA: She was wrong for demanding that tnish the boy per her prescription, And you were too, for letting her down. Although Rory wasn't -guilty of sasaing YOU, his rudences to his mother calls for some kind of punishment, And ‘since his mother appears Yd likely go over and blow up: urchased, « ' REALESTATE SECRETARY d that way? Hundreds E TERRA ~ Enjoy Billiards?” Visit R ed's Ld Mts HELA MENTE EE THE WIZARD OF ID Bil Ean De ° BY “HE WAY, WHAT MAGAZINE | WILL THie INTERVIEW APPEAR IN P 7 "THE TAXPAYERS ( DIGEST * ) oY BC. . ReRES A LETTER OTHE Eortee Far i to TERRACE. “REGISTER | PQWLING . FOR YOUR SPRING. ALLEYS > LEAGUES NOW!” by johnny hart (THATS NOT BAD... RUN ITON THE |. FRONT PAGE. . unable ta discipline the boy, it becomes YOUR responsibility. A few well-chosen “hot” accomplished more than the cold, allent treatment. Unless words from you could have you want a father-son:teanr-versus mother, better communication. with your wife. DEAR ABBY: I have just observed a group of ‘“melfish” church women preparing for a church which Almost every good item donated by someone from this group yas snapped up by another member of the group. Of course, they pay for these items, but at; ical conversation . was, says +h marked this lamp five dollars? The shade is soiled!" _ Then someone would reply, “I did. I paid $66 for it new—hut mark it whatever you want and take it.” Then the other woman would mark it a dollar and promptly cart {t off to her car, . Understand, Abby, these volunteers are not charity cases themselves. They are well-to-do society women. Do you think it is fair of them to akim. the cream off the top of-dollars could have been added to if it weren't for this kind of thing. I welcome may sign me... * » , APPALLED IN OMAHA try to develop the proceeds your remarks and you DEAR APPALLED: The volunteers should have been | told that euch shenanigans are tantamount to taking money out of the cash register. Why didn't you speak up Silence implies approval. . . CONFIDENTIAL’ TO “YOUNG PHILOSOPHER” . IN - MINNEAPOLIS: Wisdom does ‘not automat! come with old age. Nothing does—except wrinkles. It's true, wine improves with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place, eo will go to charity. - HERMAN ' by Roger Bolien & Gary Peterman 2 E7EDy Chiao Titus Yan emt tee ONE OF THESE DAYS, 3 NY GRANDSON, ALL OF . 3 - <= THIS WONT 82 YOURS: : ao Wie t "You wouldn't belleve the dream | just hed.” .