INSIDE | COMMUNITY EVENTS B2 HERE BY CHOICE FAE COLLINS MOONEY A little warmth - goes a long way HE SCENARIO goes some- thing like this: About six weeks ago I ordered some- thing from a mail order com- pany back east, Last Wednesday I got the bill, The first notice arrived Thursday; on Fri- day, the second notice. But where was my purchase??? Monday it showed up in my mailbox, along with an agreement that I had ten days in which to pay. Right. Yesterday I got the fina] notice: pay up or else, thief. I don’t like being called a thief, its not a nice feeling when you're in- nocent. But that is what the mail order company insinuated, threatening all kinds of nasty things. How do you explain how long it takes Canada Post to deliver something from back east to the back woods of British Colum- bia... We don’t live next door to Vancouver. We don’t get next day delivery, But they seem to think so back east. And sa I get harassed for payments of goods not yet received. Their demanding letters can be downright rude. ..,...don’t like bullies. Maybe because I’ve al- ways been a little guy. The nasty letter for payment-now-or-else was like someone knocking the chip off my . Shoulder. I turn green when I get mad (I turn “yinto the incredible four-foot-eleven Irish hullabaloo). And that’s what happened. In a vivid green ; rage I sat down at my word processor and made an Irish hull-a-ba-loo! I told them. what I thought of their bullying business tac- tics. I told them I would never buy from them again (not that they care, or can even read). ] paid my bill in full, hoping their computer knows how to process it. T think I deserve better, don’! we deserve better? At least the benefit of the doubt, But I’m a stranger to them and I guess those big city folk just don’t trust people. “! still find the old-fashioned baker’s dozen in this town too, Generosity, it still exists.” ft Maybe I’m spoiled from shopping in Ter- race. When I walk into a shop downtown I’m greeted with smile and a neighbourly hello. I’m not some nameless number in a com- puter that spits out payment due notices three weeks after payment has already been made. Instead I’m called by my first name. How am I doing, ]’m asked. Never am I accused of willfully withholding a payment when due or of refusing 19 pay for what I have purchascd. In fact, what ] am more likely to hear is, catch you next time. They trust me. I still find the old-fashioned baker's dozen: in this town too. Generosity, it still exists. And sometimes I'll hear, “Fae; have I got a deal for you.’’ [ love bargains, When it’s a real bargain, And that still exists here too. If I happen to be looking for something special, if it isn’t in the store it soon will be, just for me. No where else can I find service like that? Yes, I suppose I am spoiled. But isn’t it a nice feeling, to be treated so kindly — much better than being treated like a thief, The bullies back east will no doubt con- tinue to harass their customers and waste the ~ life of a tree sending out nasty notices, As for me, I think I'll keep making my purchases from my friends downtown. Merchants of Terrace, thanks. This one's for you, . PNE Pageant RRACE STANDARD | The Terrace Standard, Wednesday, October 19, 1994 - B1 SECTION B JEFF NAGEL 638-7283 MISS TERRACE. - is back. The Terrace Youth-Ambassador Society has decided to discard the politically correct Youth Ambas- coming -sador. title and return to calling _ the city’s youth representative Miss Terrace, "Tt was voted unanimously at . ‘the last meeting that we had given ita try as the Terrace Youth Am- bassador contest but there hadn’t been that much — interest,” organizer Alfreda Price said last week, ~TInterest was falling off be- . cause of the lack of the glamour and. the glitz of the event,’’ Price added. The change came after the Miss in Vancouver changed to a Youth Ambassador event, Miss Terrace pageant organizers followed suit two years ago because they thought ~~ Terrace “royally would be ex- cluded from the PNE event unless the Terrace pageant was opened to males and the name was changed. Since then, however, some other B.C. communities have continued to conduct traditional pageant events. No males entered in the first . year here, but in 1993-94 Jassie | Osei-Tutu became the first male contestant and was this spring named 2nd Youth Ambassador for Terrace. “Except for Jassie, who I really “Interest was falling off because of the lack of the glamour and the glitz of the event.” PNE officials say participating societies must adopt their set of principles about open access to both sexes and communily ser- vice, But there are no rules governing the name of theevent. ~ pushed to get, there wasn’t much interest. from males in participa- ting.'” Glenys George became the city’s first-ever Youth Ambas- sador at the 1993 contest This ‘spring she was replaced by 1994 ON HAND for the ribbon-culting ceremony of Terraca's new medical hostel last Saturday were Mills Memorial chlef-executive officer Michael Lelsinger along with Lawrence Baker, head of the Elks medical hostel projact and Nell Taylor, director of the Terrace Mental Health Centra, While the hostel officially apened on Saturday, it had housed six guests since October 1. . I Fond farewell WITH HUGS AND TEARS, 25 Canada Worid Youth exchange: students from Canada and India said their goodbyes to their friands in Terrace before leaving last Tuesday for the secand leg of their trip. Many locals signed the jeans of Janardhan Swahar (above) as a goodbye momento. Concern about an outbreak of plague in the region of india where they were to go prompted the... group to change plans and travel to a different Indian province... °° Miss Terrace glitz returns. Pageant drops Youth Ambassador name. night for a single room and. 8 Terrace Youth Ambassador Mog- . gie Botelho. They won't actually change: the © name of the Terrace Youth Ani-— bassador Society, Price said, but: this year it wil] be promoted.as. >. -— the Miss Terrace Pageant. Despite the name change, Price. promises boys won’t be turned away from the event. Substantial scholarships “and: public-speaking seminars are among the perks of being a con- a testant. ways Osei-Tutu. this year was exe cused from the beauly- and” cosmetic-related workshops that.» < have little relevance for males. Price says prospective contes- tants have until the'end of. No-' oo vember to sign up for the 1995 Vo tab Miss Terrace Pageant. Ee Anyone interested can call At freda Price at 635-7602. - First hostel guesis =. welcomed | TERRACE’S' NEW medical: -. 5: hostel officially opened last Sat- oc. urday moming. a But six people have already...” . found comfort in the newly)... renovated 14-room hostel. . The first guests, a woman and- her son from Good Hope Lake, |. -- checked into the hostel October 1 for a two-day stay, according to live-in caretakers Al and Belty, aoe Bellamy, oa *'We’ve had only positive. com: ments from the guests so far,’".:.. said Betty Bellamy, ‘The first 23+). guest said she slept like a baby.’”; ... As a project of the Elks and ... -: Royal Order of the Purple, ‘the... 30-year-old nurses residence bes. ide Mills Memorlat Hospital was... renovated for us¢ as a medi ostel, — It now houses one double room : and 13 single rooms, two of) 3 * which are adjoining, along with, hae two communal bathrooms,’ a... lounge aiea for guest and: a, caretaker guile, : Mills Memorial permanently rents two of the rooms for. “hosp tal rellef staff. , Guests are charged $15. ‘per for a double,