Gay Isn't the Same of “nut? . As Happy By Abigail Van Buren: © 1980 by Universal Presa Syndicate - DEAR ABBY: My heart goes out to the heartbroken parent of a gay daughter. Thank you for recommending Parents of Gays. They have been a godsend to us and other parents who ask themselves, “Where have we gone wrong?” My husband and I are very grateful that our gay daughter haa found a warm and stable relationship with a peraon she loves and who loves her. un 7 Her housemate is as welcome and accepted into our family as the man who married our other daughter. Because being gay has caused our daughter so much pain, I will be the firat to admit I wish she were not gay, just.as I wish my hair wasn’t curly and my husband didn’t smoke. But these are things I cannot change, so I have learned to live with them. I hope the parents of that gay daughter will accept her and the girl she loves, and get on with living the rest of their lives. ; CONTENT PARENT : . DEAR PARENT: Curly hair can be straightened and your husband can quit amoking ifhe really wanta to, but in my opinion, the fundamental cause of ~ homosexuality is biological — either genetic or hormonal. Otherwise, how can one account for thi, fact that homosexuale have brothers and sisters who are straight though raised in the same environment? However, it is possible for psychological factors to influence one’s natural sexual preference after birth. . DEAR ABBY: I recently met a European-born gentleman (Hungarian) who, upon greeting a woman, always gently kiases her hand. I think this ia a lovely gesture. Can you tell me where the custom of kissing a lady’s hand originated, © and the reason for it? . . ANNETTE IN BURLINGAME DEAR ANNETTE: It originated ‘in France. Anu although there is nothing in literature explaining the reason for it, I suppose a man hag to start some- where. 2 DEAR ABBY: The other day you had a letter in your} column from a woman who signed PRETTY FEET. She said her-hushand.wae.craay.about:herfest.andwas-really tumed +" on by them. She. wanted to know if maybe he waa some kind Be pitas Ean ARMA rN nat Tara Lode : You told her that he wae ne nut: he had a foot fetish, and . it was nothing to worry about. . Well, Abby, you'll never know how much that explanation meant to me. You see, ever since I was a little kid, 'd get real excited over girle’ feet. I never underatbad why. I used to feel ashamed when I'd ask a girl if I could kiss her foot. I'm eure a lot of girls thought I was weird. — I'm a grown man now, and I'd still rather hold a girl's foot than her hand. Thanks for printing that letter. It’s a great _yelief to know I'm not alone. ANOTHER FOOT LOVER Getting married? Whether you want a formal > ehurch wedding or a simple, “do-your-own-thing” ceremony, get Abby's new booklet. Send $1 plusa . long, self-addressed, stamped (28 cents) envelope to: _Abby’s Wedding Booklet, 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hills, Calif, 90212. . ; Your Individual — Horoscope (Mar. 21 to Apr. 19) - Though the day begins on a happy note, later a work or health problem could concern you, A nice invitation may come your way. TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) OMe Sociability aids career ef- forts. A good time to talk with important associates. -Later, ~ you're inclined to overdo when partying. a GEMINI L ea (May 21 to June 20) If someone at a distance comes to mind, why not call? ’ Family concerns may com- pete: with career. Keep everyone happy. CANCER Q (June 21 to July 22) Though at peace with yourself, others may be in an argumentative mood. Try not to get drawn into an un- necessary conflict. LEO . (July 23 to Aug. 22) Rese - Friends and loved ones are supportive, but you’re inclined to go on a spending spree. A slight problem possible with a business associate. VIRGO ‘(Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) mp, . Superiors are agreeable. - Harmony at work but possible misunderstanding with a close tle. Don’t insist on your own .way. LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct. 1) EB. ‘ Romance at a distance. — Cultural . pursuits bring. ‘ pleasure, but avold conflicts with co-workers: You're not in the mood to give in. SCORPIO mM, (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21): A good time to seek credit for home improvements. A social occasion is lively, but one friend could” prove ‘ boisterous or obnoxious. 1793 AGITPARIUS 6" gh Beep he bie {Nov. 22 to Dec. 21) Talks with loved ones are | favored. So are small. trips. The p.m. may bring a conflict ‘of interests betweert family and business concerns. CAPRICORN -- VJ . (Dee. 22 to Jan. 19) A hobby could have= ” financial’ potential, An © associate may promise more ‘than is possible. Others may exaggerate or not’ meet | committments. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) ae Gh Romance and leisure ac- tivities bring joy. 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