~ Or am I raising'a pervert? What dot Hers Is a Sterling — Silver Anniversary | DEAR ABBY: I will soon celebrate my silver wedding an- niversary and consider myself the luckiest woman in.the world té have been married to this wonderful man for 26 ears. . . ; 7 want to express my appreciation to my husband for all his kindness and understanding, but I'm not very good with words, A friend told me that you published a beautiful tribute to your husband on your 25th wedding anniversary. Please print it again. I could use some ideas. —_i WILMA IN DENVER DEAR WILMA: What s coincidence! Your letter reached me on my 40th wedding annivercary, and because those words are as true today as they were 15 yours ago, I repeat them with pleasure: . ; * July 2, 1964 Dearest Mart: oo / Today is a very special day for me, It’s my 25th wedding ’ anniversary and I have this to say: Thad a mother and father who really loved each other, so I . know what love is. . ; ‘ two teenagers safely through the traumatic | I've. a teens, 40° Rlnow what satisfaction is, I'veiptayed, and my prayers have been answered, so 1 know what faith is. And I've had by my side for 25 beautiful years, the kindest, gentlest, most considerate human being I've ever known, so I know what happiness is, And because I've known all these things, I know what wealthis, ~~ . I love you. : Abby DEAR APTY: My 3-year-old son and two neighbor boys his age were playing in our small pool in the backyard. Since I'm always within earshot when children are in the pool, I heard my son say, “Let's play like babies without any clothes!” Then they all giggled and todk off their swimming trunks. It was a very hot day and I saw no harm in letting them play in the pool for a while unclothed. _ Suddenly an older sister of one of the boys appeared, and when she saw her brother naked she raised a big fuss. My son 4 ickly admitted it was Ais idea. The girl ran home, hor- tified, and returned with her mother who was practically in hysterics, By that time I had already dressed her son, but the mother dragged him home screaming that he was never te play here again, and spanking him-every step of the way. bby, is it wrong for small boys to play naked together? e experts say about CALIFORNIA MOM DEAR MOM: The experts say that to make a big deal out of nudity tends to give children the impression that their bodies are “dirty” and something to be ashamed of. Further: more, it's normal for children to be curious about the bodies of thelr friends, and it's reassuring to discover that when they've seen one, they've seen ‘em all. , DEAR ABBY: Your letter to INTIMIDATED BY SALES- PEOPLE reminded me of something funny that happend to my daughter and me last Christmas: * ; We were leaving the house to go shopping and-I'decided to take one of my plastic shopping bags. We had quite a bit of shopping to do, so my daughter took one, too. Ti you want to get waited onin a hurry, just carry a large empty shopping bag into a department store! The sales- people were coming out of the walls offering their assistance, But when we had filled the bags, locked them in the car and returned empty-handed, we were virtually ig- nored. Try it sometime. It's hilarious. children and nudity? DARING IN DENVER —— Frances Drake ——- FOR TUESDAY, AUGUST 21, 1979 ” terests are Horoscope - ters. C Optimism is justified. 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