( PAGE 12 TERRACE HERALD, TERRACE, B.C. "_Weduesday; December: 11,.1968 fam eee 4 Bigmouth b tof rer oe RSS ! r BS al : Should learn solitaire satatnencnnamn its ie ees se s i and I and three other couples enjoy a set evening of bridge, or should I say, we used to, until last week. During the game my husband started to kid a certain couple about stepping out on each other, He began by asking Kenny, tractive young brunette you took to lunch yesterday??* He then asked, “Marie, who was that handsome young man I saw YOU with last week? Everyone laughed but Kenny: and Marie. When my husband sensed their irritation, he quickly laid off. By then it was toolate. Kenand Marie gave my husband the big freeze for the remainder of the evening. This angered my husband and he ended up saying he had asked the questions in jest but their reactions had convinced him they really were cheating. They got up and left, Yesterday I persuaded my husband that the whole thing was ridiculous and insisted that he go to thelr home and apologize, He did but they refused to accept his apology, The bridge elub has been disbanded and the other members are giving us the cold shoulder. Do you think this fair? . NOT TRUMP IN TORONTO DEAR NO: Your husband should write a book on How To Lose Friends And Alienate People. Granted, Kenny and Marie weré stupid to react so violently, but your husband’s questions were about as funny as @ four-alarm firein an old folks’ home. Losing his temper and accusing them in earnest was unfor- givable. Teach him Solitaire, . e @¢ @ DEAR ANN LANDERS: As one who knows better from personal experience, 1 can’t let the New York Supreme Court Concillation Counselor's advice go unchallenged, He said ‘Keep telling the girls to behave, Ann, It pays.’’ I was a girl who “behaved? and I landed in a mental hospital because my idealism didn't fit into the cultural pat- tern of 20th Century living. And, I might add, my idealism didn’t help much in the mental hospital. The counselor’s statement that integrity, like a bridge, requires the support of al! its girders if it’s going to hold up under the heavy load of marriage, is true. But he failed to add that a bridge must also beflexiblein order to withstand the stress or it will collapse. If a girl is to survive today, Ann Landers, she must abandon her phony prudistness and embrace The New Morality. Why don’t you tell it Hke it is? Hed LH. DEAR L,H.J.: There’s nothing new about ‘The New Mor- ality’? — It’s just an old excuse for the same old stuff. Sleeping around, and cheating on a spouse have heen a'partof every culture since Adam and Eve. T can’t believe your idealism Janded you in the bin, Lady. Emotional breakdowns are usually caused by a combination of factors, not the least of which is unearned guilt. DEAR ANN LANDERS: Every Saturday night my husband ; Soci ne Roa = NS > “Who was that at- © Mr. and Mrs, Neil Poulsen Poulsen-McNeal rites solemnized - A pretty wedding was solom- nized in Sacred Heart Church on Wednesday, Nov. 27, when Neil Poulsen of Terrace took as his bride, Miss Bonnle McNeal. also of Terrace, Miss Sharon Mc Leod was bridesmaid and Hubert Callihoo was best man. Following the ceremony a fet supper for 45 guests was held at the home of the newlyweds, They were the recipients of many lovely and useful gifts, : Stiles to study hot staphyococci EDMONTON (CP) — Dr. M.E. Stiles, senior lecturer in dairy _ sciences at the University of Na- tal, South Africa, 1s spending a years ‘sabbatical leave at the University of Alberta, Dr, Stiles is studying the physiological changes in staphyococei subject- to make Japan trip VANCOUVER (CP) = A group of 125 students at North Delta secondary schoo} sells hot dogs every Friday in the school as part of a project to raise $50,- 000 to get to Expo 70 in Japan, They have also been collecting hottles and washing cars. ed to heat, | Use Terrace Herald Classified Edmonton-Amsterdam - $407.00 Inoludes $76.06 for Car commedation, Frequent Christmas. os To Amsterdam - Terrace: Travel Service, Address ererrrrrreriir rs AIR-CAR TOURS For folders and complete details mail coupon to. Vancouver to Amsterdam, $442.00 Rental or ‘Rail Pass Ac-" departures. - Book now for London - Frankfurt: 4601 Laxelle Ave, | c _ Approx. Travel . Date Terrace Travel Service. ' . > PO ore reer re buf. ‘ -| cause the bath water won*t Students sell dogs . 5 lets, ‘THREE ANONYMOUS SANTAS, Kinettes Edith Gieselman, Janet Condon ‘and Gwen Leary are already at work wrapping toys donated by local people to be given to poor youngsters. at Christmas time. Terrace Is already responding to their ap- peal and dropping new toys in at bins provided at shopping out- maa OS By JEAN SHARP Canadian Press Women’s Editor + Infants under six months, like ‘te hea H"Bikdden change in pitch in someone’s voice, high-low= low-high. “When ‘they are four and five months old, they enjoy being nodded and clucked and oh- ohed at. What may be less well known is that they lke vivid colors bet- ter than pale pinks and blues, Staff members at the Boston Children's Hospital have publish. eda book called Whatto Do When There’s Nothing to Do. It is bas~ ed on modern Knowledge of child development and offers play ideas that use materials from. around the house. . ~ eo . For instance, those same ine fants will enjoy a bit -of towell. ing stuffed with nylon stockings as a squeeze toy. ; When ‘they are six to nine months old, the Boston author- itles say it’s fine if-they want to chew their face cloths he- harm them, . The book is described in Our Children, a booklet published by the Children’s Aid Society of Metropolitan Toronto, It says the chapter on tod. dlers and crawlers suggest how Teatim e Topiés . oo , It’s fine for babies to drink bath-water to offer maximum freedom with maximum safety. Occassionally instead of a play-pen, putthe tod- dley in an area away from elec- tric outlets, fenced off with sofa, - Pult toys: for that age. can be made with ice cream cartons or amall boxes, with alternate met- al jar caps and empty spools, with hair rollers strung end to end. . a The book emphasizes the need two-year ‘olds have for mess, in spite of the outrage to their mo- thers’ feelings, . Indoors, the authors suggest, you can pop the child in a shal- low bath (and stay with him all, the time) to let him splash, Or waterproof part of a room with towels and papers and let him do his worst with a shallow pan of warm water, a . A cornmeal sandbox for a Kitchen corner is another sug= gestion, . ee, The book says Mother should not provide such matertals when about cleaning up, . : At age four or-five, a child can begin to use real tools, The book suggests starting him on chairs and a suitcase: or two, |: she is tlred or apt.to be grumpy | styrofoam and suitable reallum. |. ber, ' BABIES RUN HIGH TEMPERATURES Small: babieg ‘and children sun high temperatures very easily, It fs not the helght of the temperature but how long it “1 Jasts and the effect on.the baby's general condition that maiter, Normal | atures for bables tun from 08.3 degrées to 99,6 degrees, A temperature over 101 degrees should be _ xeported to the doctor. It 1s a sign of infection and may‘ not be serious, but should be watched, says the federal health depart. ment publication, The Canadian Mother and Child, . ein y Hugh Henderson -safd here a com- pany is now being F and déperate a $93,000,000 cable | ferry acrose Burrard Inlet, sep- arating Vancouver, from ‘North Cable ferry: seen Wines Ltd, of Ketowna has to VICTORIA (CP) — Lawyer |ply water .24 hours a day.on #8 300-acre vineyard here. : Water formedtdbulld jdrains fact through the light, andy soil, Tha vineyard was when it was purchased -OLIVER, B,C, (CP) Galora | nothing but sagebrush'andcactus in 4 land ‘ /PUSH-BUTTON OVEN CLEANER HOLIDAY BOON Holiday activities: seem to start earlier and earlier each year. At least: people begin planning and preparing for them sooner. '. : - By~ Halloween most store, owners’. are petting are made for mailing. Local merchants soon begin receiving supplies of Christmas trees ‘ which were cut from the foresta in August! And, Mom brings out her- prettiest table linens and polishes the family silver. Pre-holiday house cleaning: and preparations have become a huge task, often leaving mom. exhausted by ‘Thanksgiving. However, if she organizes her _ work. and paces herself to allow for relaxation along the way, her energy will last into the new year. .” ‘When organizing her clean- -ing time, the wise homemaker | will list her chores and try to | complete the most dreaded ones fivst. One chove that would: top that big list would he. ‘oven cleaning, The oven really: “gets a, workout with holiday | cooking and. baking. And a. elean range is a necessity for the busy holiday hostess. For- . tunately, modern oven and job tremendously. na ” ieRvul| + nts ee Giftables ff curistmas * . CARDS & -}. | DECORATIONS -, Sundays. 10 a.m.:+ 10 pms... 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