. Sapwpiate st pa ea con sepohi ti eT aE POY tt ARES! ted en DR TEE Cent Pe ERT a ee Ae ae hale erate ne Tee et faeces anit a barre ay rah eee TER ET _.©, ing for him “88 a. part- 3 OFfiee and - gradually ee = it developed | into something --.;more than a “working” . -Felationship.. They go to - ..: local restaurants and night- - clubs together and she. always asks her friends to CALLING COLLEEN: Tag Along Fiomaniee: - BY COLLEEN DUDGEON "My 23. year-old friend is -having an affair with a 47 "year-old. married man who has a wife and two teenage children. She gz ~ started -work- £ ~ time ‘secre- ‘sltary in_ his -.ome along. I know why:she - ‘does this — it’s because they «don't want to be seen alone: _ - together in public. Her lover _ is very generous, he always . - buys ‘dinner ‘and drinks for ~-. 27. thé people my friend brings. ' -° > along. I have refused in the -. past to’ go along with my "friend on her rendevous and lately She's started ignoring “me. She’s also telling other ~ people that I’m stuck-up and - conservative because I dén’t a -want to be an accomplice to their sneaky romance. What . Should I tell her? '. PREFERSTO STAY OUT “DearSTAYOUT: Tell your friend exactly . —-what_you told me and stay out! Don’t worry about Jositig .a- friendship because _ if'she would use you just as a way to get together with this --man, she isn’t. much ‘of a -friend anyway. By- staying =. ‘out, you avoid the possibility oo of ‘becoming: ‘involved in _ «+ Something that -is deceitful on and sneaky. : 1 work as a secretary’ for a > grolip of prominent, lawyers oe Mn our: town: There. are six 4601) secretaries who, are, ‘sup, posed to. share all the ‘typing; filing and receptionist due”. ~ ties. We are. all paid the’ same salary ‘and’ get the © same benefits. I have: © *.. | always been a hard worker =. ° * who likes: to get a-job. 3." finished quickly © ‘and ae- > curately, There is. ‘one. secretary here who doesn’t. 9 « do anything but look pretty: and pretend tobe busy when...) one of the bosses walks through. She is always * -: asking me‘to finish typing... her assignments or to take’. over for her when she leaves two or three hours early. However, when I asked her. to, answer the phone. for- me. last week because I had a dentist appointment she said. she was too busy. I gotreally’... - mad and told her she wasa ss * ‘lazy bum‘ and:some other --_ choice remarks. Well, ap: parently she told a couple a the lawyers who have since ~ reprimanded me for hurting .-* * her. feelings and degrading.. — her work. Should [ teli them ~ she really is a lazy bum or: | ‘would it be better to find another job? FR USTRATED _ Dear FR USTRATED: First, you should apol- ogize to the woman for being a bit hot under the collar. 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