She Wonders
~ Who Caters
His Affairs

By Abigail Van Buren

+ 1979 by Chicago Trbune-NY. News Synd. inc

DEAR ABBY: My husband of six years has just ended his
third affair. After the first two, he chose to stay with me,
but after this last affair I'm not sure 1 want to stay wilh him.

He refuses to tell me whelher these affairs included sex,
although it seems impossible to imagine that they did not. I
need to know!

The fact that he won'l tell me bolhers me more than
whether he had sex wilh these women. Do I have the right
to know’?

ROSITA °

DEAR ROSITA: if he said he had an “affair” don't press
him for the particulars, It’s not an “affale” unlese it's the
whole enchilada,

DEAR ABBY: Several years ago I married a gucd-
natured, loving, honest, beautiful little woman from a
foreign country. We have had to contend with a variety of
cultural differences, but that never was a problem.
However, two unresalved problems persist.

The first is the matter of orderliness—or rat tier the lack
of it. She hasn’t the faintest idea what "a place for
everything and everything in its place” means. She just puts
a thing down anywhere, and when she wants it again she

_can't find it.

The other problem concerns punctuality. She starts get-
ting ready to go out about the time we're supposed to arrive.
We have never been on time for a party. Actually, thé two
problems are related, One reason she's always late is that
she can never find the hairbrush. Can you heip me?

OPEN TO SUGGESTIONS

“DEAR OPEN: Have you tried to teach her? H not, put
everything in its place and stress the importance of return:
ing it there. ;

As for punctuality, urge her to start getting ready two
hours in advance instead of an hour. And if this docan't help,
you've still got a good-natured, loving, beautiful littl
woman who's hopelessly disorganized and clironically late.

DEAR ABBY: Do you want to do the hospital volunteers

- of the world a big favor? Please tell your readers that. malt

addressed to Buzz Jackson, Skip Jones or Tootsie: Browh

will probably not be delivered ta patients in the hospital.
Nicknames are not recorded on hospital records. The pa-
tients are registered under their LEGAL names (first, mid-
dle and last), We have no idea who Liz, Red, Corky or Junior
me, .
Yesterday J looked for an "Al" Johnson and found none. 1

id find a Henry Alvin Johnson, however. I later learned °

chat the patient always called himself “Al” so he wouldn't be
confused with his father who was called Henry.

So, please, Abby, print this. I could ery every time I see a
stack of mail that can’t be delivered because it is addressed
improperly. And wouldn't you know they don’t put a return
address on the envelope, either! ’

FRUSTRATED IN PHOENIX |

DEAR FRUSTRATED: I'll pass the word. E hope it helps.

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Your Individual —
Horoscope —

~~: Frances Drake -----

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FOK WEDNESDAY, JULY 1. 970,

What kind of day will
tomurcow ba? Te fit adt what
the slars say, read the
forecast given for yaur -birth
Sign. .

ARIES 1
(Mar, 21 to Apr. wtf
Too niany irons in lhe fire
can diminish good times.
Attend to an important task
despite distractions. Self-
indulgence likely in the p.m.
TAURUS thay i

LApr. 20 te May 20) Ving”
* Aveid lavish expenditures
or entertainments, Your best

bet is to stick to routine .
pleasures. Solidify existing

romantic ties,

me?

GEMINI
{May 21 to June 20)

Don't be neglectful of
health. Follow usual health
regimen, Otherwise, you may
be beset with ailments. Avoid
careless speech.

' CANCER ps
(June 21 to July 22) Sc

‘She pursuit of happiness
could lead te ‘extravagant
expenditure. Serious talks

- with close ones add {o -your
sense of security, :
LEO ae

(July 23 to Aug. on Rik

Stick with essentials und
you'll have just what you
need. Extra expenditures are
not likely to be worth the effer'
or the cost. - ;
VIRGO Lo. .
(Aug. 23 to Sept, 22) mp

A cautious approach is best.
Don't make promises that you-

‘can’t fulfill, Know when to say

“no.” Be reserved in speech.
LIBRA my .
(Sept. 24 to.Oct. a db

Don't be baited by a friend
to spend more than you can

_afford. The first extravagance
is likely to be followed by yet
another,

SCORPIO
(Get. 23 to Nov, 21) Mee

Stick with some old friends.
They'll know how to keep you
from overmagnifying your
joys and sorrows, Refrain
from boustiny. ;
SAGITTARIUS — fyi
iNov, 22 to Dec. 21) yn?

Escape: --rautes -- fram
problems scem to be blocked.
A little self-analysis gets to the
heart of the question and to
peace of mind! ;
CAPRICORN gf
(Dee. 22 te Jan. 19+ Whi

Don’t yet involved in
something that goes against
your principles. Shun.
[rivolous ussaciates, and don't
get out of your element

AQUARIUS wal 4
(Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) = ad
Mixing: business with

pleasure is likely to lead to
foolish tatk or false ex-
pectations, However, business
tains indicated for the serious
minded, -,

PASCES Male?
(Feb. 18 te Mar. 2 Hg A
“Your holiday could be
spniled by too much self
indulgence, A. hangover or
overtiredness could oecur
away from familiar lovales,

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*Mix rie up another four quarts of this coffee. i
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