Page 10, The Herald. Monday, September 10, 1979 coh eRte Her Two Exes Can Be Hexes By Abigail Van Buren ¢ 1979 by Chicago Tribune-N.¥. News Synd. Inc. DEAR ABBY: Aiter two unsuccessful marriages in six years, ] have finally met someone with whom I am very much in love and know I could be happy. , He is from a socially prominent and well-to-do family. 1 have never told him about my previous marriages since both were shortlived, each lasting less than a year. His family wants us to have a gala wedding with all the frills, including: my wearing his grandmother's wedding gown, There is nothing I would like more than to have this very special wedding, but what kind of wedding may a divorced woman have under the circumstances? Is it necessary that I disclose my previous mistakes? KEEPING MY MOUTH SHUT DEAR KEEPING: Times have changed, and ep have the rules about what kind of wedding a divorced woman may have. However, the rules of honest and abovebourd conduct remain the same; if you continue to keep your mouth shut about your two “mistakes,” yeu will have made a third. DEAR ABBY: What would you say if a guy you were dating rang you up and said, “Hey, if 1 asked you to marry me last night, forget it. I must have been bombed.” RUTHIE DEAR RUTHIE: I'd had replied, “If said ‘yea,’ forget it. I must have been crazy." ot DEAR ABBY: My husband is in the hospital and will be there for about three more weeks. Although he is restricted to bed, there are still SOME things he is capable of. We are practically newlyweds and, since he does have a private room, we feel that what we do behind closed doors is OUR business. But it seems that the nurses want to run our lives, Every time we are alone they find some excuse to come in and interrupt us. We used to be embarrassed, but now we are just plain mad! We spoke to the supervisor, wha said it was a hospital room, nota hotel room. For $98 a day, we disagree. What do you think? ces . FRUSTRATED DEAR FRUSTRATED: I think if prisoners in some states are permitted “conjugal viaits,” hospital patients who are physically able should be allowed the same. Talk to your husband's doctor, He could issue “doctor's orders.” Lotsa uck, CONFIDENTIAL TO “DEPRESSED IN DURHAM”; Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself, If nobody calls you—call someone. Get out ef the house and find someone who needs a lift more than you do. You won't have to look ar, Do you wish you had more frienda? For the secret of popularity, get Abby's now booklet: “How To Be Popular; You're Never Too Young or Too, Old.” Send $1 with a long, self-addressed, stamped (28 cents) envelope to Abby, 132 Lasky Drive, Beverly Hilts, Calif, 90212, Your Individual . Horoscope -—-——— Frances Drake _ FOR MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 10, 1979 ARIES (Mar. 21 to Apr. VS Don't let an early financial success on the job go to your head, as you could become cureless and have extra work to Ard with later. TAURU: — (Apr, 20 to May 20) Cqza” Communications and good times with loved ones are favored. However, a close one may do the unexpected and foolish doubts could arise, GEMINI 0 (May 21 to June 20) Private talks with family members are constructive. However, do not let secrecy spill over Into other affairs where suspicions may crop up. CANCER (June 21 to July 22) BES Communications with friends are highlighted, but one friend’s take-charge at- - titude could cause problems later. Still, the evening's a social success! LEO (July 23 to Aug, 22) RE Adeal thought settled seems to fall apart, but you can mend fences to your advantage. The outcome Is favorable and financially a plus! VIRGO (Aug. 23 to Sept. 22) wp Consult with others for your best sucess. You'll be sur- prised how others meet your request for help with affection and good advice. LIBRA (Sept. 23 to Oct, 2) fd & Research on financial project brings results. Postpone signing papers till you're ready, Evening brings happy seclusion. SCORPI . (Oct, 23 to Nov. 21) ML AR Plans for a social gathering with a loved one should be made. Despite surface disagreements, you'll arrive at a happy compromise. SAGITTARIUS xf (Nov. 22 to Dee, 21) Asense of duty pays off now. Don’t let small problems cause you to quit. Keep plugging for a successful outcome: te projects. CAPRICORN (Dec, 22 to Jan. 19) Creative activity and distant affaira go well. Despite some changes in plans, a planned romantic rendezvous is affectionate and joyful. AQUARIUS : (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) = Consult: with experts re home improvements, Get a. second estimate if you have any doubts. Evening brings happy times with close ones. PISCES (Feb, 19 to. Mar. 0) HEF Now's the time to get thoughts acrass to loved ones. Any disagreementa that show up can be dealt with suc- _cessfully. Accent affection. 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