She Can’t Wait | For His Funeral DEAR ABBY: We've been married for 34 years and my husband has been at death's door half a dozen times but he's always pulled through. He has a bad heart, one kidney, no gall bladder, diabetes and cancer of the prostate. He's in the hospital right now. If he should die this sumnier, what should I wear to the funeral? . . Thave a nice black chiffon dress trimmed in lace. Do you think that would be too dressy? Also, how about a small black hat with a black veil? Or would that look too much like I'm dramatizing the role of the weeping widow? Ifyou think the chiffon is too dressy, { will buy a more con- long is it considered proper to wait before dating in public, Thanks for not using my name. . PREPARING IN PA, DEAR PREPARING: Wear whatever you feel comfor- don't rush out and buy « new blac outfit. He may live. were so-sure it would be a girl, they had a girl's name picked out but didn't even consider a boy's name. Well, you guossed it, they had a boy. They named him ina hurry and a few days later they were sorry they chose that name. They wanted to change it but were told that since the birth certificate was already filed it would eost a small fortune to change the baby’s name. ; Then they heard that as long as the baby had not been baptized they could change the baby's name without any trouble. on 4 birth certificate? And does it matter if the baby has been baptized or not? MINNESOTA READER DEAR READER: In Minnesota, if the baby is less than a year old, there ja no fee to have the name changed. (This applies to first names only.) Between the ages of 1 and 7, there is a fee of $20. It mat- ters not whether the baby has been baptized. Laws differ .from state to state. DEAR ABBY: I am recovering in the hospital from a suc- cessful hip replacement operation. But I have encountered another problem, though it's 4 minor one, comparatively speaking. I have received: A beautiful scarf with an enclosed card, “Get well, Henry!" Signed, “Bob.” I know five Bobs. I sale since it was dash transaction. : ‘Three beautiful floral arrangements, none with identify- fig nantes of senders, After.telephoning the florists, I was able to iearn the names of two. A 6-pound box of candy from a popular chain with elght outlets in San Francisca. I'm still trying to find out who sent it. Two books from two friends. One, obviously expensive (832 pages) rested uncomfortably on my stomach. I may read it when I get home. The other is a modesi paperback which I am enjoying. Sign me... . DEAR PERPLEXED: I'm sure many patients have lost their patience after experiencing the-came frustrations. ‘Add another: well-meaning viaitors who come toosoon, stay too Tong, talk too much, and sit on the hed. . DEAR ABBY: A TV announcer talking about an “elderly Person,” later said he was 55 years old. J was startled. | * When I remarked to some of the others in the room that 85 was certainly not elderly, the argument began. Would you please tell me what years you consider middle age and elderly? Thank you. . , C.F.M.IN DENVER DEAR C.F.M,: My dictionary (Webster's New World) defines middle age a8 “the period of Iife from about 40 to 60." And I wouldn't Inbe! a person “elderly” untess they've -soen no fewer than 80 summers. servative outfit. I wouldn't wear a lot of jewelry, but would - a strand of pearls be out of place? And while I'm asking, how ° table in. Start dating in public whenever you want to. And DEAR ABBY: Some friends recently had a baby. They _ Can you tell me if it's expensive to change a baby's name’ tslephoned the store it eame from and they can't trace the . PREPLEXED IN BEDIN S.F.- =——_—_ Your Individual: Horoscope What kind of day vill tomorrow be? To find out what the stars say, read the forecast given for your birth @rsign. . ARIES ? _ (Mar. 21 to Apr, 19) eS Despite your serious’ in- tention to buckle down, in- terruptions may sway you from your purpose. Avold extravagant entertalning, TAURUS (Apr. 20 to May 20) 7 Work pressures could affect health. Your attitude about a domestic situation or matter takes too much for granted. ; GEMINI : . (May 21 to June 20) “#4 Relations with close ones will suffer if you seem too preoccupied with other matters. A carefree manner may not mask ‘Inner doubts, CANC! (Gun 21 to July 2 An wnexpec e plans unwittingly may lead to extra . Check with friends about costs before accepting invitations. - (duly 23 to Aug. 22) REX Don’t promise more than you can deliver. Downplay ego for career success, Too much self-preotcupation tums off superiors. VIRGO (Aug, 23 to Sept. 22) wy, Trust hunches re domestic | * matters, In dealing with those at a distance,; be skeptical, The rosy picture someone paints is not accurate, LIBRA (Sept, 28 to Oct, 2) 0S Inspiring talks with a friend about work, but avoid risky investment plans at their . Suggestion. It could be the blind leading the blind. SCORPIO (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21) "LAR A close one may not come through with promised help, . Watch out for false im- pressions re a career matter. Avoid’ premature celebrations. SAGITTARIUS {Nov. 22 to Dee, 21) ot Y. trot ey be too sod to atton 4 ‘avel plan. Work respon- sibilities may conflict with pleasurable alternatives. Watch diet-health. CAPRICORN -(Dee, 22 to Jan. 19) W Something you don't know about -affects the course of: true love. Despite superficial niceties, someone may not be AQUARIUS” (Jan. 20 to Feb. 18) ees) A gesture of help would be nice, but close ones may demand attention. A family member may be in for a let down, but don’t you discourage them. PISCES : (Feb. 19 to Mar. 20) MEX A plan of yours may be too idealistic to launch under today's influences. Don't let others dampen enthusiasm. Be a bit closemouthed. HERAAR CROSSWORD soa 5 By Baigene Sheffer” the AMAZING SPIDER MAN. 7 B. 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