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PAGE B4, THE HERALD, Wednesday, November 13, 1974

-Dr.Lamb

By Lawrence E. Lamb, M.D,

DEAR DR. LAMB — Until
recently when I found out dif-
ferent irom talking fo some of
my girl friends, I thought all
women climaxed the way I
do, every other minute or $9.

; Some of my
friends never
reach a
“Bjclimax, ever,
RE some once in
‘Baa while,
others once,
maybe twice
at a time.

More than
once I have
actually
passed oul

during intercourse because |
just couldn't take another
climax.

My husband is a counter
and sometimes comes up
with numbers like 25, 30 or ao
Am [ normal?

Another thing, [ get preg-
nant at the drop of a hat, but
never carry a child full tearm.
We'‘have been married one
year, and I lost a baby at

‘three months and one at eight
months. Could these two
things be related?

ieve me, [am not upset

Dr. Lamb

‘about this in the least, but

lately have been wondering. I
have always enjoyed sex and

- always want it. My husband

gets 60 tired of always being
molested,” as he calls it, the
minute he. comes home from

-work, and lately has com-
‘ plained that ] wear him out

too much, so I have quit ask-.
ing for sex in the mornings
before he goss to work,

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‘A question of climax

Don't get me wrong, he en-

joys sex too, just not as often.
§ there something wron,

with me or are there lots 0

women who are this way?

DEAR READER — Some
ardent feminists would say
you are proof af their conten-
tion that women are: sexier
than men. Same claim that
women have been sexually
inhibited by men because of
this. The whole basic scheme

as been to control women to
the point thal they are not
sexually a threat lo men.

Whether this is true or not,
it does appear that a signifi-
cant number of women wha
do learn to respond in an
uninhibited fashion can also
develop the capacity of hav-
ing multiple climaxes.

It is as if the level of sexual
tension really doesn’t subside
entirely, and there area
series of peak responses rath-
er than one, then a subsiding
of arousal to previous levels.
The more common ability of
a woman to develop the
capacity for multiple
orgasms does set her apart
from men. The male, when he
is young and full of sexual
tensions, may be able to be
aroused again very soon, but
none ever reach the repeated
peaks that you are describ-

- Ing.

As men gel past the teens —

and early 20s, then it takes
longer between each orgasm.

activity would mean that a ~

woman couldn't carry a baby
ta term. Of course, if a
woman starts to spot or has
other indications of a possible
miscarriage, then her doctor
may want her to stay very
quiet until the situation
stabilizes itself.

DEAR DR. LAMB — [ need
help and fast. I am 14 and my
boyfriend is 17. We have gone
all the way before. Is there
anything that will make you
start your period? A friend of

mine told me to mix pepper .

and water together or castor

oil and pepper. She said it

would make me start. Is that
true? Please hel

DEAR READ He — There
are quite a few young girls
like yourself who write to me
with the same question.

It is common for young
girls to be irregular when
they first mature, Hf they be-
come regular it is often ‘hen
they are more mature. Ir-
regularity is a feature of beth
the beginning and the end of
the active childbearing § years
in women:

That means thal. you can

never be sure if your periad is.

late, if it means you are preg-
nant,-or it’s just the wav
things are.

No, I don’t recommend
anything to start periods.
Without exception, the things
that friends recommend are

_ either dangerous ar useless.

Women, though, can develop -

multipie orgasm capacity
and sustain it apparently for
much of their active sexual
ife.

You are in the minority,
but that doesn’t mean you are
abnormal. You have devel-
oped a highly responsive pat-
tern. There isno harm in it as
long as it doesn’t take

away from enjoying al er

things in life besides sex.

Ordinarily, it is the man
who needs to be told to find
something besides sex in life.
] don’t wish to inhibit your
normal responses, but it cer-
tainly would not be unusual
for your husband to find it
difficult to keep up with that
kind of schedule.

You will do your marriage

"a favor if ‘you don’t put him in

the position of never being’
the aggressor. Don't say any-
thing to him, just continue to
let him know you enjoy him.
But try to avoid doing ‘it so-
often that he might ‘begin to
feal defensive*about it. You

ean help bolster his ego by re- ©

minding him that your
response is because he means
80 much ta you.

- There is some eviderice: ”

that having an orgasm: dur-
ing the last month of preg
naney might start early

labor. There is alsa some dis- ~

agreement on this. In an;
case, there is: enough evi-

dence and some other rea-)

sons to suggest that a woman
should avaid sex during the
last month of pregnancy, In
your ease that might be diffi-
cult for you, but perhaps
worth the effort.

Otherwise, there is no real
evidence that normal sexual

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The best thing to do is to fe
to see your familydoctor. He
ean help:you. He citrtell vou
if you are pregnant or nat.
And even more important. he
can give you some good infor-
mation on how to protect

yourself from getting preg-.

nant and avoiding veneral
disease.

If you are. mature enough
to engage in sexual relations
it is high time that you found
out enough to protect your-

‘self from'such problems.: If.

you are not able to protect
yourself, then you should
avoid sex until you are.

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