ee eat ir Dad’s a Rat— | She’s the Cat By Abigail Van Buren 1879.by Chicago Thbuna-N.¥, News Synd. Inc. DEAR ABBY: To get right to the paint, my dad is having an affair. It’s not just my imagination. I'm sure of it. Dad works nights and Mom works days, and I work five days a week, ; When I'm home on my day off, Dad turns the radiv on real loud, takes the phone inte the bathraom, closes Lhe door und calls someone. He talks real low during Lhese conversations. 1 pul my ear to the door yeslerday and heard him say, "Don't worry, Honey, I will tell her, but you've got lo give me more time.” Then he said, “I love you, too. Goodbye.” Abby, I don't know what to do. 1 can't stand by and jet Dad do this to Mom. If she catches him, and finds out that | knew all along, she'll hate me for not telling her. Hut if I tell her, Dad could deny it, and | would be the cause of 4 lol of trouble, So, you see, I'm stuck in the middle. Mom has always been a faithful, hardworking wile, and I will never forgive my father for being such a rat. I'm nol a stupid litue kid. I’m 18, Tell me what to do, but don't use my right name or mention my town. INTHE MIDDLE * DEAR IN: | realize that what you have learned has a heavy burden on you, but my advice is ta say aething. In the meantime, don't judge your father. As the French say, “fo Anow everything is to furgice everything.” DEAR ABBY: I wish you would print Lhis so other housewives won't get stuck the way | did. It began with a telephone call tram a lady who said, “Con- gratulationst You have just won a lree carpet eleaning! Don't move any furniture, our men will do everything. We will be out al 6 this evening to clean your carpet like new—~ with absoluiely no cost or obligation to you.” Well, at 6. o'clock, one man came with a vacuum cleaner and a shampoo attachment. He talked to me for two solid hours trying to sell me the vacuum cleaner. | told him I couldn't alford to buy anything, and meanwhile he didn't make one move to clean my carpet. I was home alone, and kept telling him [ wasn't in the market to BUY anything, but he kept right on talking and trying to sell this thing. Abby, I finally got rid of him at ELEVEN o'clock, and [ didn’t pet my carpet cleaned. 1 was so nervous and angry by the time he leit 1 could have screamed. Have you any suggestion besides a 7-fuat watchdog and an unlisted telephone number (o prevent such practices? MRS.K., SALT LAKE CITY DEAR MRS. K.: Yes. Hf anyone calls you to “con- atulate” you on,haying “won" something, say “thank you at, 2 dant want anything fer nothing.” And don't let anyorie it your hame without first checking them out with the Better Business Bureau. DEAR AHBY: Iam engaged toa guy who enjoys playing . eards, He plays lor money — just to make it “interesting.” “Personally, I don’t care much for cards, but I can play a fair ly decent game if 1 have lo. . Alt of Larry's relatives play cards night and day. They think it’s terrible that I don't po crazy over cards the way they do. : Abby, Llove this guy, and I have really tried to like cards, of Larry's “interesting” evenings baybyeggh tipsy he can afford to lose. : . Now Lam being told iby Larry's relatives), “If you intend to marry Larry, you had better jearn to like cards.” _ Don't misunderstand me. I think it’s all right to play once in a while, But all weekend, and every night? : . LARRY'SGAL bot there fs no use fooling mysell. It's boring. Besides, some - Kb} 15) 2 - DEAR GAL: You mention Larry's relatives, but how does Larry feet about it? Gambling can become an addiction as serious a5 liquor, tobacco and other undesirable habits. Fake ‘ fecond look at Larry just to be sure your joker isn't toowlld, Your Individual Horoscope == Frances Drake CROSSWORD AHTES (Mar, 21 to Apr. 19) VR Your attitude towards close relationships is slowly un- dergoing a favorable change, though work-related problems s (Apr. 20 to May 20) Our A time to concentrate on improving income potential. Concern about finances could cause problems with others. te the store. EMINI ey (May 21 to June 20) a Other may not give you the attention you crave, Today, their needs may take precedence over your own. Romance is favored. CANCER (June 21 to July 22) S&S . Energetic children may interfere with your need for quiet. Don’t lapse into warry if by yourself. Use leisure moments constructively, (July 23 to Aug, 22) UOGere Frenetic social activity could bring out the best and worst in you. Limit activities - to those you can handle - without undue stress, GO (Aug. 23 to Sept, 22} mp Though earning prospects Jook good, you may be unduly concerned about status. Be content that the profits keep rolling in. LIBRA (Sept, 23 to Oct, 2) ee B Don't let a few financial expenses dim your outlook. Your overall plan is good, despite delays or ageravations, especially re travel-school. SCORPIO (Oct. 23 to Nov. 21} Keep plans under wraps. Early exposure may bring criticism or skepticism from others, Not the time to seek financial backing. xe SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 to Dee. 21) A close ally may be under tension. A career idea of a friend may be lofty but im- practical. Don’t be so im- pressed by somebody's im- portance. CAPRICORN Wink (Dec, 22 to Jan, 19) ; Basic aims re career are worthwhile, but today, little problems may crop up. You may not accomplish as much as you'd like to. Patience! AQUARIUS aoe (Jan, 20 to Feb, 18) “2 Mixing business with pleasure not recommended. 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