PAGE 4, THE HERALD, Tuesday, June 27, 1978 AT EDITORIAL Jobs for the jobless For those who have just graduated from High School, or University and will be entering the job market competition will be stiff, indeed. One area where there is almost no competition is in the starting up of new businesses to serve needs that are not being met. Here are a few of the types of services and businesses going begging for want of some ambitious person or persons; businesses that can succeed if only the right amount of-intelligence and determination is applied: _ Travelling barber and beautician. Outfit a van with a barber chair and-or hairdresser’s chair and advertise in the surrounding villages that it will be visiting certain communities on certain days at specific times. Also for shut-ins that need hair dressing and barbering in their private homes. Hair colouring — for men and women as well as hair styling in the privacy of one’s home is also said to be a most profitable business: or sideline. For persons without the training and experience, various methods of financing it and purchasing the necessary equipment is possible. Team Cleaning. I have mever met a business woman ~ or bachelor — who enjoyed housework. A team of from two to six persons could set upa small business for cleaning apartments — say ‘constani Dp - felt Jack was being taken My two cents’ worth ty sy vandoreuctt Why does a woman who is beaten stay with her husband? That is a question asked frequently ~ I know because I ask that question too. No man is going to lay a hand on me and get away with it have heard myself say. I will walk out. How many of the women who are now being beaten have said thesame thing. You love the man. Chances are you have a couple of children. The first time he strikes he has been . You tell inking be he nae been won't do it again ~ but statistics prove you wrong. He will do it again and again, Mary Jones (not a aa name) grew up in a fa where father made all the decisions. He handled all the money and made all the decisions about the house and the future of the family, Mary's mother was an aquiscent bystander in the e, Mary's mother constantly told her that being married meant she was to be kept and provided for by her husband, When Mary got married, her husband was also very dominant and possessive. mistake: One night she ended up in ital and she knew had to leave. Unfortunately she didn't have any money, Where could she go without money. When her husband found out she was thinking of leaving, he treatened the children. He said he would find her wherever she went and he would hurt the children, She was trapped. Jack Trip (not a real hame) had a wife,who was iy com She advantage of and was being aver for a promotion ause of his lack of aggressiveness. She wanted abigger house and a nice car Uke the neighbours, She hadn’t had a new dress in a while and her sister was getting married in Ontario and she wanted to go. Jack, feeling very inadequate, started to stop off for a drink before going home. night when his wife was particularly bitchy he struck ber. Not normally a violent man, his frustration coupled with the liquor, was a powerful duo. A few interesting facts about wife battering. Although no-one has com- pited Canadian figures, in the United States one out of six marriages has a violent episode. One quarter of all . marriages has violence of some form. Four percent use a knife or gun in the argument. Of the four percent HALF end up with husband or wife killing each other. Four to five thousand women are beaten to the point of serious injury each year. A few myths about wife battering. A man is men- General Office - 635-4357 Circulation - 635-6357 REPO KI jd-plane TERRACE/KITIMAT daily herald © ER.., Laurie Mallett G EDITOR... Ernest Senior REPORTERS...Donna Vallieres {Terrace-Tharahili) ERS...Scott Browes (Kitimat-Kitamaat) T OFFICE,..Pat Zelinski - 632-2747, Published every weekday af 3212 Kalum St., Terrace, B.C, A member of Varified Circulation. Authorized as second class mall. Registration number 1201. Postage _pald in cash, return postage guaranteed, NOTE OF COPYRIGHT The Herald retains full, completa and sole copyright 4nany advertisement produced and-or any editorial or Photographic content published in the Herald. Reproduction is not permitted without the written bermilssion of iha Publisher. tally ill if he batters, Wornen enjoy abuse. Wife battering is a lower class phenomena, Being battered is a fom a 3} * related aggression, which is almost exclusively a male condition. Of the men who ‘drink and beat, some feel that drinking gives them an sympathellcwiten they kaow sympathetic w! a man has beaten someone while under the influence. Some men have no memory of the beating. Some men know they beat when they ‘have been drinking but seem to be powerless to prevent themselves from doing it. sop those who sad beatiag, stop drinking ? very real help is available complex, Fear of the un- known, of being alone; where fo go and who will help? Most professionals will encourage the woman to return to the family, Some women feel their husbands still ‘need’ them. To leave is an acknowledgement of failure. This brings a feeling oi shame, A lot of women are unaware of the alter- natives to being beaten. They really betieve there is mo way out. Some women are afraid their husbands will find them and beat them rea fear petially if’ the eg] woman doesn’t have the resources to move out of town. she lays a battery charge, the difficulty is to stay away from her id for three weeks without a further beating. The courts are just not geared to handle the seriousness of the situation. For a woman to move out of the family home is for her to lose out. Solutions? Immediate solutions would involve having an emergency shelter in every community.