B10 - The Terrace Standard, Wednesday, Seplember 5, 2001 Siblings reunite after 40 years Denise Fisher at city hall provided a vital search clue A BROTHER and sister have reunited 40 years after they lost touch with each other. About three months ago, Jim Regin from Darwin, Australia, was visiting a friend. Over a conversa- tion, Jim mentioned that he had a sister living in Terrace, B.C., Canada. So his friend went on his computer and punched in, “Terrace, British Co- lumbia,” and found an email address for Terrace’s city hall. Denise Fisher, director of administration for the city, received the first email asking if a Tilly Ro- ders lived in Terrace. Denise emailed back, saying there was a John Roders, a photographer, living here, ——Jim. remembered that Tilly had a son John. So, within three hours of the first message to city hall, John had phoned his uncle Jim in Australia, wondering, “When are you coming for a visit?” For the last month, Tilly and Jim have been trying to catch up on all the lost time. They are almost like strangers, Jim said, adding lots of water has gone under the bridge. Tilly and her brother Jim were bom in London, England; Tilly in 1909 and Jim in 1923. There were eight child- ren in the family. All were involved in the Second World War in some way or another. Tilly and her sister Nora worked in an ammunition factory from 1939 to 1946. Jim and his brother John joined the Merchant Mar- ines and went to sea. In 1961, Tilly emigrated to Canada with her two children, John and Karen, landing in Montreal with only $20 in her pocket. They boarded a train to Nelson, B.C., eating only sandwiches and drinking water from the bathroom tap. After a year in Nelson, Tilly made the move to Terrace, where her sister Nora Bennett was living. It was at this time that Jim and his wife Dorothy made a trip to Canada and came to Terrace to visit Tilly. Over the last 40 years, they somehow lost touch with each other. After the war and when their mother had died, all the children drifted away. Four emigrated to Canada; Tilly and Nora to Terrace, and John and Nellie to Al- berta. Jim moved to Australia and spent most of his life at sea. When he was dis- charged from the navy, he joined the American army transport service and worked on sailing ships until he retired. . In Terrace, Tilly worked at Terraceview Lodge as a psychiatric aide until her retirement in 1974. When they moved into the Willows Apartment on Feb. 1, 1976, a month after the 40-unit not yet completed. building - opened. The building was YVONNE MOEN Tilly Roders, the second person to move in, named the apartments The Wil- lows because at the time there were beautiful wil- low trees surrounding the building. If you haven’t yet read Shades of Leroy Street by Tilly Roders, which is about life in a London slum after the Second World War, maybe you should see about getting a copy. Tilly is now working on her second book - about her life in Canada after she left England. Her brother Jim is also a writer. He is working on a book titled, Celestial Na- vigation. Both Tilly and Jim said en TERRACE PEAKS GYMNASTICS CiuB Fall Registration When: Clubs Day (Sept, 8, 2001) Where: Skeena Mall Time: 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Classes are available for bays and girls, at all ages and stages, including hwo new Programs « "Mother Goose” and “Bounces end Tickles” for children under 2 1/2 years of age. Registrants are required to pay in full at time of registration [cash or post-dated cheques only}. Your child’s medical number is also required. For more information, phone 638-0447, Join us for some fun! JIM REGIN and his big sister Tilly Roders tried catching up on the past 40 years while they were briefly reunited in Terrace. their visit has been great and that it’s wonderful to unite again. J had the opportunity to meet Jim. He had gone to city hall to meet and shake hands with Denise Fisher, to say thank you for her help. in connecting him with his sister Tilly again. Jim left Terrace on Aug. 18 to fly back home to Au- Stralia. He promised not to wait another 40 years. MacKay’s Funeral Service Lid. Serving Terrace, Kitimat, Smithers & Prince Rupert Monuments Bronze Plaques Terrace Crematorium Concerned personal service in the Northwest since 1946 4626 Davis Street ‘ Terrace, B.C. VBG 1X7 Funeral Senice = Phone 635-2444 © Fax 635-635-2160 Assodietion li 24 hour pager ns The Terrace Standards now ‘WwwW.lerracestandard.com Check out our site or call 638-7283 for advertising information rc Save my job Te Tm i in jail! Sam finished his presentation with a flourish. 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But it’s not meant to guarantee that people jalled for crimes can keep their jobs even though they’re unable to show up for work.” Today's column is based on a case from British Columbia. If you have a simllar problem, please consult Wright & Mardirns in Trace B.C. We are proud to bring you some of the current legal issues fram across the country for discussion and debate, To provide com Ing efttertainment, we have fictionalized the names, the characters and the scenarios In the case. Any. resemblance to real people purely cotacidental. In the interest of clarity and brevity, the legal issues in the case have been greatly reduced and simplified, Cia Bernsteli is a lawyer and nationally syndicated columnist. Copyright 2001 Haika Enterprises, C28-4 e help! 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