yan DEAR ANN LANDERS: Our 14-year-old daughter Betty looked depressed and seemed unusually quiet all through dinner, She ate almost nothing. 1 knew something was “wrong and J hoped she'd tell me. She didn't, so at bedtime I went to her room and asked what was the matter. She broke down and DAILY CROSSWORD a aby R.A, POWER _-a@ good cook buf Pm done a terrible thing. She started a rumor that a girl in her class who had been absent for two weeks was away having an abortion, The absent girl returned today and someone told her about the rumor, She became so’ ill she had to be taken home, Betty is a wreck. She says she doesn’t know why she did it. She will do anything to get it off her conscience, What CAN she do? You know how hard it is to put down a false rumor once it gets started. Please advise. — Need Counsel DEAR N.C.: There is only one way to get this matter straightened around. Betty should go at once to the girl and confessed tearfully that she had atetere! tcetetetetecste: a ire your hair, kiddo..-You:C COULD: comb it just for r HIM, couldn’, you? DEAR ANN LANDERS: Our daughter is going with a bright young man who has many fine qualities. He is hard-working, - industrious, completely honest, and has some old fashioned virtues which we appreciate, The trouble is that Jason is extremely tactless and has a way of alienating people - because of his outspoken, offen ‘ belligerent. manner. My husband is appalled by the way he speaks to us, as well as to some of our friends. Whenever there's discussion (particularly on politics) Jason jumps right in expressing his her parents, confess that it was , dogmatic ideas vehemently she who started the rumor and —_ with no regard for an opposing ask them if they can possibly forgive her, She should then go to each person to whom she told the lie and confess that she made up the story, I agree false © rumors die hard — because people who start them rarely have the courage to confess. DEAR ANN LANDERS: I'm no magician, I can’t wave a magic ’ wand over a four-pound roast . and make it big enough for a family of six plus three extra people. Why can’t my husband get this through his head? Clyde works for a big com- Pany and someone is always in town, either a customer or a purchasing agent. He also has a . couple of freeloading brothers ‘who have a habit af. drop- - ping by Clyde’s office just as he ig leaving for home. -. They tag along and of course I have to ask them to eat-with us. 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From now on put i. the burden on n Clyde, Tell hin if”. be. brings’. home:, unexpected“. -, guests you aren't going. to. do: . one thing different — the meal. . " will be served ‘as planned, and ., | the kids will stay” at the. table, | : +" No- apologies, - elther,. Justia small ‘announcement, jamal. ‘guests, But about ungxpect viewpoint. Our daughter backs him up completely, We feel he will have a hard time making his way in the world unless he learns tact and compromise, They both believe that any thing short of : full expression is “selling out.'” ‘ They say it is important for young people to’ be forthright, fearless and to demonstrate that they can stand on their own two feet. Any comment? — Mom-and Pop DEAR M AND P: They will learn that it’s very hard for a ' person (young or old) to stand on their own two feet when one: foot is.in his mouth. DEAR ANN LANDERS: Our children were brought up with the idea that everyone who lives in the house does his sharét of’ work, It was expected and there was no arguing.- Our three oldest. who are grown and _Married seem to have the idea — ‘ that they can come home to Ma and Pa's and’ enjoy a free, leisurely vacation. - — They arrive with” “their. ~ families and plop themselves on’ us “for a rest,” The grocery ‘bill are’ double arid.eo is the Work, ‘They. sleep all-morning. and I have to run after their kids,. bathe and feed ‘them. We | still have.two children at home - and” they-: resent’ this ‘extra: . burdén, Frankly, so dol, Please” tell a very tired mother: who {a°' pushing 55 what to do'about her ‘ problem. . —: No. Martyr In* ‘Lancaster ~ DEAR NO M.: Apparently the © Ash of training your children is “not ‘finished... Even... married: children’ ean learn — ‘and ‘1: “ Buggest you! teach them. ‘The lesson is as. follows: ‘The: Old. : : : Homestead is not a hotel, When _you return for e ‘vacatlon, pitch fi — just-as you did when os u lived here, And you’ take, caréot {your own kids — lke, you. teh End of leiso OH... THAT'S OKAY! AND WHO HAVE } * THEY?LL BE I'VE HEARD WE HERE? THIS IS OUR CALLING 7 NEW TEACHER,| YOUR: j MR. LYONS #7 Ri / =p / ET ol | Z LS dn mf 4 . a i! 3 i! 7 « ° Fe Beetle Bailey By Mort Walker | as WHEN I MAKE a GENERAL, THIS SPEECH + i WHILE IM ON \—— MUST REMEMBER NOT | |? 3 LEAVE, MIS& TO GAY “WELL” 50 i 3 3, BUXLEY HERE MUCH. IT MAKES ME i WILL TAKE SOUND STUPID : OVER FOR mn i (S) i {l+17 i Blondi ondare 1 i [ FOUND THE CUTEST DRESS IT ALL DEPENDS ON WHICH AT TUDBURY'’S AND END OF THE WALLET DaGwoop, I'm YOURE GOING TO NEED Nar y ON TWENTY-TWO . Dolls, and -more dolls. Love, Peace, Flower. Soul. Expressive words, aren't they? One of North America’s largest toy menufacturers, Hasbro, certainly thinks so and this is why they have given these names to a completely new line of Christinas dolls now Braci.g the shelves and counters of ‘Canada’s main retail outlets. The choice .of these four names for each one of four, dolls in theset, simply didn’t come by accident, Hasbro’s research development group has proved what most parents suspect: little girls between the ages of eight and the early teens have . an extraordinary sophistication Calla tinatl Paging i ‘ today. They know, perhaps even better than their parents, the. true meaning of love and peace. They know what it’s like to have “soul” and they adore flowers, as only children can. These children form today's “expressive generation” and they quickly tire of the old standards, . Love, Peace, Flower and Soul - are not only fun dolls as far.as the children are concerned, but they are educational ones too bécause they provide the child with a means to truly emulate the child’s next peer group, the teenager, going through the motions of "dressing up" for all | occasions, The four dolls can be’ taken out anywhere because each one. has a total of 18 changes of outfits available in distinctive wardrobes; - : qt eas 31350. pe Ob sa ceg acs og eae sid aout ti and. CHRISTMAS IS COMING . ... With Christmas only 32 short shopping days away, parents, relatives and friends are starting to line up their Christmas shopping and mailing lists. Store shelves are bursting with all kinds of toys for the small fry, in- cluding ‘a great variety of dolls and wardrobes and cribs and cooking ! i’ ., He on utensils and household articles for th i little mothers, and cars and trucks andl games and bats and balls for the littld i fellows. 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